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When in Rome... - 09-04-2011, 03:43 AM

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I have been always told that you have to respect people older than you. But how about you anyone? (I am 29)
One of the most important things anyone studying Japanese can do to make themselves look and sound more proficient in the language is to mimic natives and to have a strong empathy for them as well.

In this regard, if I were to see a peer ぺこぺこing then I would just follow suit. As the old saying goes 郷に入って郷に従え.

If it's someone you know, you would probably be polite. 校長先生 = polite, まったく知らないおっさん = probably polite, unless they are a complete &%$# to you off the bat.

As long as you have a mutual understanding that a certain level of politeness is OK, there shouldn't be a problem. Also, it's not as much about respect as it is "being polite". IMHO.

Last edited by Eomer : 09-04-2011 at 03:48 AM. Reason: なんとなく
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