it would seem that my plans have taken a drastic change lol my gf has decided that she would love to come to japan now and that she only wants to go for 2 weeks at first in order to see if we like it she is talking about moving out there in later life (its always been a dream of mine) anyway tho yeah thanks for all the advice guys but as you can see situation has changed because my gf happens to be a fool but what can you do lol anyway yeah 2 weeks now lol but yeah arigato guys