Give the guy a break - he's still only 19 !
My advice to you, Yusuf is ... travel, see and learn - you will eventually come to see the error of your ways. Especially when you try to find a "submissive" woman... reality check will hit hard on that grail quest, Sir Galahad !
But don't lose heart, its tough to get a balanced view of the rest of the world from Lagos... so try to venture out and don't bog yourself down with preconceptions !