[tokusatsufan]

It is absolutely fine to want your life partner to be of a certain ethnicity. It's a big decision.
Everyone is turned on by different things.

If on the other hand you're just thinking it'll be a novelty and you think he'll just be one in a long line of boyfriends that you've fallen out with then that's stupid. You should have the intent of spending your life with this person. Which is why I think the much-maligned idea of ''The One'' is actually alright. Because you can't just settle for someone you feel sorry for. It's all about having someone you can tolerate and when you're old you won't drive each other mad.