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Originally Posted by CoolNard
What you're saying makes a lot of sense to me too, Salvanas-kun
I know, some kids can be really stubborn and rebellious sometimes. *If* you have parents who really care for ya, it's only natural for them to get angry at you if you do something wrong. Of course, it's only out of love that they do that. And if you really care for the in return, you should be there when they're down and unwell. Be mature and let them vent some of their frustrations on you for fear of them doing something more drastic. As kids, our parents had brought us into such a magnificent world. So although they ARE still resonsible for us, we wouldn't know any of our friends if they hadn't given birth to us ^_^ I believe if there's a misunderstanding between a parent and a kid, both will be in the wrong. It takes two hands to clap, and one to give in. If both see one another in each other's shoes, I'm sure authority barriers will be broken down and they'll be able to communicate much better.
Lol, parents have obviously done the same thing... Then after a while, they feel really sorry and guilty for what they've done. The problem is, both refuse to admit their wrongs and hence, the tension can't go away. *sigh* The key is mutual trust and understanding between a parent and a child, and not questioning the actions of the other party all the time. That will just make matters worse and cause distrust. If your parents are good to you, forgive and forget, like what they'd do. After all, tomorrow's another day
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OOOOOOOOO I LOVE YOUR WORDS...NO ANGER, NO PROBLEMS, JUST "R.E.S.P.E.C.T., that is what it means to me"
well, let's see my dad had a few to many and swung at me at me, for the sec. time, and well, i showed him that iwasn't takin' that crap...