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Nyororin 07-08-2008 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Paul11 (Post 530798)
It's good you had a ceremony. They're a right of passage and puts your new role and relationship in context.

Thank you for the congratulations (of sorts) - and I`m happy to hear you felt that way. For us, however, it was a big mess of frustration and stress - which likely led to my son`s IUGR and later premature birth as the problems started around that point.
If I had the choice to go back and do that point in life over again, I`d definitely not do the wedding. I have a pretty good feeling our relationship was well in context as we were also in the process of buying a house at that point. :D (And would have MUCH rather had them help us with the down payment!)

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There's a guy on Flicker who posted a bunch of photos of a jinja of that name in nagoya that is a orphanage.
I think I found the one you meant - but the Narumi jinja isn`t the one in Arimatsu that is an orphanage. He has pictures of both it seems.

Paul11 07-08-2008 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Nyororin (Post 530803)
Thank you for the congratulations (of sorts) - and I`m happy to hear you felt that way. For us, however, it was a big mess of frustration and stress - which likely led to my son`s IUGR and later premature birth as the problems started around that point.
If I had the choice to go back and do that point in life over again, I`d definitely not do the wedding. I have a pretty good feeling our relationship was well in context as we were also in the process of buying a house at that point. :D (And would have MUCH rather had them help us with the down payment!)



I think I found the one you meant - but the Narumi jinja isn`t the one in Arimatsu that is an orphanage. He has pictures of both it seems.


Well then, they both look nice.

Colin 01-22-2009 11:46 PM

What i thought was weird was when I see Gaijin wearing the archery outfit.

Its something that looks good pretty much on only the Japanese

nobora 01-23-2009 01:49 AM

I think it should be something new to see some one waring a yukata ^_^ go for it~!!

Bureda 01-23-2009 02:33 AM

This thread is huuuularious, Hu-hu hularious I say. F**king huuularious.

Ningyou 01-23-2009 10:38 PM

Ha, I love how people all the sudden starting saying the word gaijin. It's not a polite word :P stop watching Tokyo Drift.

MMM 01-23-2009 11:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Ningyou (Post 668435)
Ha, I love how people all the sudden starting saying the word gaijin. It's not a polite word :P stop watching Tokyo Drift.

It's a commonly used word that only is negative when used in a negative context...like "black".

Ningyou 01-24-2009 05:04 AM

o.O Does no one on this website realize when I'm serious and joking? Jeez...

MMM 01-24-2009 05:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Ningyou (Post 668541)
o.O Does no one on this website realize when I'm serious and joking? Jeez...

There are a lot of people who are "offended" by that word here.

Sarcasm doesn't come across in text.

Livvie 01-25-2009 01:42 AM

Let's face it. Not only is it foreign to us, (imagine if people were wearing... I don't know... bavarian lederhosen.) so we look pretty silly wearing it unless there's a really good reason to, it's also old fashioned. I *know* that they're still sort of worn in Japan, but... it's not like people wear them all the time.

It'd be like a Japanese person wearing a huge skirted western style ballgown around town. We wear ballgowns to very very formal events, and they are old fashioned. Or if... they wore a girdle- we've moved on. Or, since the clothes don't translate that well- like them laying the table with 4 kinds of forks.


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