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Salvanas 06-01-2009 05:35 PM

Moral and logical decisions.
 
After having a discussion with a group of friends, the topic of moral and logical decisions came up.

If you don't know what I'm talking about, let me explain it.

There are two sets of decisions. There is the moral set; Good and Evil, and then there is the 'logical' set; Logical and Illogical. After arguing long and hard about it, the groups were evenly split, we got no where with it, but we found out a lot about each other.

Personally, I believe that moral decisions, although good in a a few situations, is the illogical way to go about it. Logic leads me to believe that decisions should be made logically, without any moral or emotion causing me to lead to a decision, and only hard logic.

One thing I asked my group went like this, and it's a perfect example.

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Me: Let's say an old granny is crossing the road, and suddenly a car swerves and is about to hit her. You have the chance to save this old woman, but you know, that if you do a child will die because of that choice. What do you do?

Friend that always backed the Morals over logic: I let the Granny get hit.

Me: That is a logical decision. Now let's say the old woman is YOUR grandmother?
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That's when everyone stopped and had to think about it. I believe that if I was in that situation, I'd let her get hit. It's the logical thing to do. Someone who had hardly any life, in exchange for someone who has his life ahead of him. EVEN if the granny is my gran.

What are your views on this?

MMM 06-01-2009 06:24 PM

Why would a child die?

Koir 06-01-2009 06:25 PM

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Originally Posted by MMM (Post 726618)
Why would a child die?

Because it helps the strawman argument, of course.

Salvanas, I believe you're thinking too hard. Unclench before you pull something.

Salvanas 06-01-2009 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by MMM (Post 726618)
Why would a child die?

It was a simple situation, a simple example. Let's say that this granny would accidently kill this child in some way if she lives.

Koir: Not really thinking too hard. It's interesting to sit down and think about these things. Such things like these exist all the time in the world.

Nyororin 06-01-2009 06:30 PM

The question for me would also be... Why is the child going to die?
Without knowing that I can`t answer.

I don`t think there is ever a correct answer. The child could have an undetected health condition and die tomorrow. The grandmother may have 20 years of life left.

In reality, even if I knew a child would die if I saved the grandmother (mine or that of another person) I would probably still try to save the grandmother.

As sad and cold as this thinking is - you can make another baby. You can`t make another grandmother.

Salvanas 06-01-2009 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Nyororin (Post 726625)
The question for me would also be... Why is the child going to die?
Without knowing that I can`t answer.

I don`t think there is ever a correct answer. The child could have an undetected health condition and die tomorrow. The grandmother may have 20 years of life left.

In reality, even if I knew a child would die if I saved the grandmother (mine or that of another person) I would probably still try to save the grandmother.

As sad and cold as this thinking is - you can make another baby. You can`t make another grandmother.

Let's not nit pick at the tiniest details. It was meant to be a broad question in order to get different answers.

Yes, the granny could live for 20 more years, and the child could have a disorder, but usually, it's not like that. Think of it more broadly, than trying to nit pick at the details.

Nyororin 06-01-2009 06:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Salvanas (Post 726627)


Let's not nit pick at the tiniest details. It was meant to be a broad question in order to get different answers.

Yes, the granny could live for 20 more years, and the child could have a disorder, but usually, it's not like that. Think of it more broadly, than trying to nit pick at the details.

There usually isn`t a situation where a child will die if a grandmother is saved. :mtongue:

Anyway - everything after the "In reality" was just that. My honest answer.

iPhantom 06-01-2009 06:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Nyororin (Post 726628)
There usually isn`t a situation where a child will die if a grandmother is saved. :mtongue:

Anyway - everything after the "In reality" was just that. My honest answer.

Would YOU die for your granny Or parents?

Salvanas 06-01-2009 06:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nyororin (Post 726628)
There usually isn`t a situation where a child will die if a grandmother is saved. :mtongue:

Anyway - everything after the "In reality" was just that. My honest answer.

Aye, like I said, it was an example situation.

So you believe that moral decisions should be taken over logical ones?

Nyororin 06-01-2009 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by iPhantom (Post 726630)
Would YOU die for your granny Or parents?

No. No questions about it. Nor would I die to save my children.
Yes I`m a terrible and cold person - please don`t feel the need to point it out.

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So you believe that moral decisions should be taken over logical ones?
No, that isn`t what I meant. My logic is that you can make another child while you cannot make another grandparent or parent. That combined with the likely reflex of simply not wanting to see someone be killed in front of me while I just stood there.

Salvanas 06-01-2009 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Nyororin (Post 726633)
No. No questions about it. Nor would I die to save my children.
Yes I`m a terrible and cold person - please don`t feel the need to point it out.

We aren't judging you. If you're a cold and terrible person, so am I. I wouldn't die for my parents. Perhaps my kids, but not my parents.

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No, that isn`t what I meant. My logic is that you can make another child while you cannot make another grandparent or parent. That combined with the likely reflex of simply not wanting to see someone be killed in front of me while I just stood there.
That's a fair point. So, there are more than one logical choice that leans either way. Thanks for pointing that out, I'll make sure to think about that.

Jok3r 06-01-2009 06:46 PM

Why not save both of them instead of wasting time thinking how to save just the one? :)

Salvanas 06-01-2009 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Jok3r (Post 726637)
Why not save both of them instead of wasting time thinking how to save just the one? :)

And waste more time trying to save both?

Kenpachi11 06-01-2009 06:48 PM

If you save one then you would have guilt from not saving the other...right?

MMM 06-01-2009 06:49 PM

I have a feeling no one can say with any certainty what they would do or wouldn't do unless the situation was presented in front of them in real time and in real life.

We like to think we can separate ourselves from our moral fibers, and it's easy to say what we would do on paper, but you really can't know for sure until after it has happened.

Jok3r 06-01-2009 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Salvanas (Post 726639)


And waste more time trying to save both?

As long as you tried your best, i guess its the thought that counts... :)

Salvanas 06-01-2009 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by MMM (Post 726643)
I have a feeling no one can say with any certainty what they would do or wouldn't do unless the situation was presented in front of them in real time and in real life.

We like to think we can separate ourselves from our moral fibers, and it's easy to say what we would do on paper, but you really can't know for sure until after it has happened.

Ofcourse. But many things in life, we still like to discuss it.

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As long as you tried your best, i guess its the thought that counts...
If you can't achieve saving someone, there's no point in trying. In my view.

Nyororin 06-01-2009 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Salvanas (Post 726635)


We aren't judging you. If you're a cold and terrible person, so am I. I wouldn't die for my parents. Perhaps my kids, but not my parents.

Well, in my case I`d be more likely to die for a random person on the street than my parents, but I am guessing that is irrelevant. Even if my parents were the most loving and wonderful people - I still wouldn`t sacrifice my own life for them. There simply isn`t enough merit in it for me even if it were my child. Die knowing they`d live on? Even if I love them to death, it wouldn`t matter as I would be dead.

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That's a fair point. So, there are more than one logical choice that leans either way. Thanks for pointing that out, I'll make sure to think about that.
I think that in such a situation, or a similar one in real life - reflex would rule all. The chance you`re going to weigh logic against emotion is very very low.
At least I can say I`m pretty sure that is the case for me. If I could reach out and save someone, reflex is going to likely push me to do so - regardless of the effect that person`s survival will have on others and the future.

ETA;
Then again - now with a bit of thought - in such a situation I figure I`d be calm enough to think it out. I`ve done the "self or child" bit, and had no hesitation about choosing myself over child... And felt pretty devoid of emotion at the time.

GodNickSatan 06-01-2009 06:58 PM

I kinda like it when a lot of people die.

Salvanas 06-01-2009 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Nyororin (Post 726647)
Well, in my case I`d be more likely to die for a random person on the street than my parents, but I am guessing that is irrelevant. Even if my parents were the most loving and wonderful people - I still wouldn`t sacrifice my own life for them. There simply isn`t enough merit in it for me even if it were my child. Die knowing they`d live on? Even if I love them to death, it wouldn`t matter as I would be dead.

You see, my view on this one is that my parents have always told me "If you ever died, we would kill ourselves. Because we live for you". Now, regardless if that's true or not, that's a different matter. But, if I kill myself saving them, then they'll just kill themselves anyways, and I'd have died in vain.


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I think that in such a situation, or a similar one in real life - reflex would rule all. The chance you`re going to weigh logic against emotion is very very low.
At least I can say I`m pretty sure that is the case for me. If I could reach out and save someone, reflex is going to likely push me to do so - regardless of the effect that person`s survival will have on others and the future.

ETA;
Then again - now with a bit of thought - in such a situation I figure I`d be calm enough to think it out. I`ve done the "self or child" bit, and had no hesitation about choosing myself over child... And felt pretty devoid of emotion at the time.
I've had an experience where I had to make a decision, a life taking/saving one, and it's unbelievable how time seems to slow down at that point, causing you to be able to think it through.

If someone's ever been on the edge of dieing before, they'd (most probably) understand what I mean. Time seems to slow down.

Jok3r 06-01-2009 07:04 PM

Im sure if you were killed they would be too sad to kill themselves. :)

Reavyn 06-01-2009 07:12 PM

In the car situation, if it was a completely even split where you action would decide which person the car would hit, on both the logical and moral side I think I'd have to choose the child. Even if the lady was my grandmother.

Jok3r 06-01-2009 07:18 PM

Start a giant congo line. That way everyone will come onto the road slowing traffic down. Then puncture the persons tyres when they are not looking and run off somewhere no one will find you... :)

Kyousuke 06-01-2009 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Salvanas (Post 726624)


It was a simple situation, a simple example. Let's say that this granny would accidently kill this child in some way if she lives.

Koir: Not really thinking too hard. It's interesting to sit down and think about these things. Such things like these exist all the time in the world.

i get it. you cant save a life without taking one away. you can kill a cow to feed the village or you can save the cow and allow the village to starve for the day. or something like that. the same applies to good and evil. you cant have peace without chaos and you cannot have chaos without peace.

i have one for you that ive heard from a comedian named jimmy carr. he asked an audience member a question which is a bit graphic but still makes you think. the question was

would you sleep with your dad to save your moms life.

the boy said no and everyone booed him. jimmy said "think about what your booing. your booing him because he didnt want to sleep with his dad."

would such a decision be a logical one or a moral one? save your mom or commit immorality.

Reavyn 06-01-2009 08:54 PM

Actually, the new PS3 game out called Infamous gives you a Choice such as the orignial poster that would probably make this easier for people to understand.

SPOILER-






On one building there is a bunch of doctors strung up by ropes tied to their hands and they are hanging over the side. On another building your girl friend is strung up by rope tied to her hands hanging over the side. Both have an explosive charge attached to the ropes in order to cut the ropes and allow them to fall. The buildings are too far apart for you to save both, so you have to choose which to save. A whole bunch of doctors or your girl friend.

MissMisa 06-01-2009 09:01 PM

It's kind of like a 'head over heart' situation.

In some walks of life, I always choose my head. In others I go with my heart or the 'moral' decision. I usually go with my gut instinct in things. I do things that I want to do on a whim, sometimes without thinking logically about the consequneces for a long time.

Though in a few short seconds in my head two lists appear - the positives and negatives of each action. Each of the positives will have points as to how important they are, so that the list with the most points will win. That's a weird way of thinking but that's how I make all decisions. Some say that would be logical, but then obviously how the points go depend on my moral emotions.

And that sounds really weird so I'll shut up now. :p

Salvanas 06-01-2009 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Kyousuke (Post 726720)
i get it. you cant save a life without taking one away. you can kill a cow to feed the village or you can save the cow and allow the village to starve for the day. or something like that. the same applies to good and evil. you cant have peace without chaos and you cannot have chaos without peace.

i have one for you that ive heard from a comedian named jimmy carr. he asked an audience member a question which is a bit graphic but still makes you think. the question was

would you sleep with your dad to save your moms life.

the boy said no and everyone booed him. jimmy said "think about what your booing. your booing him because he didnt want to sleep with his dad."

would such a decision be a logical one or a moral one? save your mom or commit immorality.

Logically, the choice would have to be sleeping with your dad. Since the view that "incest is wrong" is a moral view.

However, what I'd do, is a different matter. I'll have to think on that one.

iPhantom 06-01-2009 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Kyousuke (Post 726720)
would you sleep with your dad to save your moms life.

Hmm? How can this happen IRL? Dad will gently ask you to sleep with him to save mom's life?

You can report him to the police next day... so why should he bother to do that, he can force you right there to sleep with you without the need of 'mom's death menace'. Unless that certain dad is retarded.

FeyOberon 06-01-2009 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Salvanas (Post 726743)


Logically, the choice would have to be sleeping with your dad. Since the view that "incest is wrong" is a moral view.

However, what I'd do, is a different matter. I'll have to think on that one.

But wouldn't the sense of an obligation to save one's own mother also evidence moral influence?

I'm not choosing a side here, my jury is still out on this scenario. It's difficult to decide when circumstances wouldn't give rise to the situation. . . .

Salvanas 06-01-2009 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by FeyOberon (Post 726749)
But wouldn't the sense of an obligation to save one's own mother also evidence moral influence?

I'm not choosing a side here, my jury is still out on this scenario. It's difficult to decide when circumstances wouldn't give rise to the situation. . . .

Hence why I'm having to think on it slightly. Deep down, I do not think I'd ever do that.

Kyousuke 06-01-2009 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by iPhantom (Post 726748)
Hmm? How can this happen IRL? Dad will gently ask you to sleep with him to save mom's life?

You can report him to the police next day... so why should he bother to do that, he can force you right there to sleep with you without the need of 'mom's death menace'. Unless that certain dad is retarded.

its just a hypothetical question

FeyOberon 06-01-2009 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Salvanas (Post 726757)


Hence why I'm having to think on it slightly. Deep down, I do not think I'd ever do that.

Ultimately, I don't think I would, either. Some of the reasons that come to mind are:

1) Obviously, I would not want to. As damaging to the psyche as either option would be, I think the "save Mother" choice would be more permanently scarring to me. That may seem selfish, but it is what it is.

2) I like to think the majority of mothers would not want their children to go through that.

Kimitarusan 06-01-2009 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Kyousuke (Post 726720)
i get it. you cant save a life without taking one away. you can kill a cow to feed the village or you can save the cow and allow the village to starve for the day. or something like that. the same applies to good and evil. you cant have peace without chaos and you cannot have chaos without peace.

i have one for you that ive heard from a comedian named jimmy carr. he asked an audience member a question which is a bit graphic but still makes you think. the question was

would you sleep with your dad to save your moms life.

the boy said no and everyone booed him. jimmy said "think about what your booing. your booing him because he didnt want to sleep with his dad."

would such a decision be a logical one or a moral one? save your mom or commit immorality.

... no i would not. it may be logical to do so, but its just waay wierd and i wouldn't i would look for alternative ways to save my mother, for instance, if it was the dad that would kill her if you didnt, i would try to call the police before he could

Kyousuke 06-01-2009 11:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Kimitarusan (Post 726839)
... no i would not. it may be logical to do so, but its just waay wierd and i wouldn't i would look for alternative ways to save my mother, for instance, if it was the dad that would kill her if you didnt, i would try to call the police before he could

but to this question there is no other option. lets say theres a man who breaks into your home and tells you to do what i just mentioned. would you be able to do it or not. its just a lose lose scenario

Salvanas 06-01-2009 11:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Kyousuke (Post 726860)
but to this question there is no other option. lets say theres a man who breaks into your home and tells you to do what i just mentioned. would you be able to do it or not. its just a lose lose scenario

Let him kill my mum, then I'd carry on to hang him up, upside down, and bleed him slowly until he loses concious. Then let him rest, then hang him up to bleed when he wakes up again.

Kyousuke 06-01-2009 11:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Salvanas (Post 726872)


Let him kill my mum, then I'd carry on to hang him up, upside down, and bleed him slowly until he loses concious. Then let him rest, then hang him up to bleed when he wakes up again.

but if you kill him you wont know where the treasures buried.also he's luke farigno with hulk smash hands and laser eyes and indestructible like wolverine.


just kidding. actually you seemed to work that out nicely

Salvanas 06-01-2009 11:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Kyousuke (Post 726878)
but if you kill him you wont know where the treasures buried.also he's luke farigno with hulk smash hands and laser eyes and indestructible like wolverine.

Fuck it. I'll go Super Sayan on his ass then! :P

iPhantom 06-01-2009 11:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Salvanas (Post 726897)

Fuck it. I'll go Super Sayan on his ass then! :P

Saiyan

Sorry, I have been an addicted fan since a kid and it always bothered to me when someone made a typo of that word :mtongue:

And yea, I'd refuse as well.

Nyororin 06-02-2009 12:55 AM

I`d sleep with someone to save another person`s (if they were important to me) life, regardless of who the person I had to sleep with.

I mean, the unpleasant experience of sleeping with them would literally be done in a few minutes. Losing someone is for life. It isn`t quite on the same level.
Weighing two lives is one thing, but... A few minutes of suffering in exchange for someone`s survival seems like a pretty good deal to me.

Quailboy 06-02-2009 12:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Salvanas (Post 726589)
After having a discussion with a group of friends, the topic of moral and logical decisions came up.

If you don't know what I'm talking about, let me explain it.

There are two sets of decisions. There is the moral set; Good and Evil, and then there is the 'logical' set; Logical and Illogical. After arguing long and hard about it, the groups were evenly split, we got no where with it, but we found out a lot about each other.

Personally, I believe that moral decisions, although good in a a few situations, is the illogical way to go about it. Logic leads me to believe that decisions should be made logically, without any moral or emotion causing me to lead to a decision, and only hard logic.

One thing I asked my group went like this, and it's a perfect example.

---------------------
Me: Let's say an old granny is crossing the road, and suddenly a car swerves and is about to hit her. You have the chance to save this old woman, but you know, that if you do a child will die because of that choice. What do you do?

Friend that always backed the Morals over logic: I let the Granny get hit.

Me: That is a logical decision. Now let's say the old woman is YOUR grandmother?
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That's when everyone stopped and had to think about it. I believe that if I was in that situation, I'd let her get hit. It's the logical thing to do. Someone who had hardly any life, in exchange for someone who has his life ahead of him. EVEN if the granny is my gran.

What are your views on this?

I believe in logical decisions.
Considering I dont really have a great set of moral standards. Everything that happens is mainly based on logic.
I like the question that you presented, it really makes one think but I'm sure you could come up with a better one that truely tests this.


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