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Quailboy 09-29-2009 02:50 PM

Pleasure by pain.
 
I remember...cracking my head open when I was 13..I fell off some stairs and hit the back of my head on a wall, loudest sound I've ever heard. You could only hear me, screaming "FUCK" at the top of my lungs...after that, everything was fine..I could feel the blood trickle down my neck, I stood up and smiled, it was fun to me..


Any other fans?

GTJ 09-29-2009 02:53 PM

So, uh, how's that sleep deprivation thing treating you? Yanno, like... mentally?

:D

Hang in there, buddy!

By the way, between this and the post about middle school drug use, are you like, trying to tell us all something about your psychological state of affairs? lol

Quailboy 09-29-2009 02:56 PM

Haha, i gave up on that after 3 days man.

Meh, most of you should know how messed up in the head I am by now anyways.

NanteNa 09-29-2009 02:59 PM

Isn't a 'masochist' someone who finds SEXUAL pleasure in pain?

''Masochism is a medical condition where people can derive pleasure from being humiliated or hurt by other people. Often, the arousal has a sexual nature''

So unless u actually jizzed from that experience.. I think u were just being the weird-ass kid u are, huns : P

Quailboy 09-29-2009 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by NanteNa (Post 774303)
Isn't a 'masochist' someone who finds SEXUAL pleasure in pain?

''Masochism is a medical condition where people can derive pleasure from being humiliated or hurt by other people. Often, the arousal has a sexual nature''

So unless u actually jizzed from that experience.. I think u were just being the weird-ass kid u are, huns : P

Meh, I might have popped one, who knows ^_^

Changed thread title to better state whats goin down.

darksyndrem 09-29-2009 03:03 PM

And I thought it was the drugs that fucked you up ^___^

Quailboy 09-29-2009 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by darksyndrem (Post 774307)
And I thought it was the drugs that fucked you up ^___^

Nope, just the internet.

IamKira 09-29-2009 05:44 PM

I can kind of see that... there are some pains that I find enjoyable or some reason.. particularly popping pimples/ blackheads

oh oh, and after you punch something really hard, there's a primeval sort of high you get from the pain..

Quailboy 09-29-2009 05:48 PM

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Originally Posted by IamKira (Post 774347)

oh oh, and after you punch something really hard, there's a primeval sort of high you get from the pain..

This.

And from getting hit...

MMM 09-29-2009 06:18 PM

QB and Dark, have you forgotten what we said about unneeded profanity?

knucKles 09-29-2009 11:11 PM

I would love to get my wisdom teeth out again. It was such a wonderful pain. Better than any other pain. I got 'em out all 4 at once with just a local anaesthesia. And after that no civil service. Awesome! Actually the lower ones were grown horizontally in my jawbone so the doc had to cut the flesh, then saw the teeth into 3 little pieces and pull 'em all out. The upper left one was infected and the anaesthesia didn't work at all so the doctor had to pull so hard that the tooth flew through the whole room and was never found again. I mostly ignored the painkillers and I love baby food.

Another weird thing I discovered: Before I left the country to study in Japan for a year I was having some intimate times with my ex-girlfriend. I got a little bit bored but in the middle of the fun she started crying. I asked her why and she replied that this is the last time before I go and that makes her so sad. When I saw her tears and heard her whimper it turned me on so much. That was great.

Am I weird? I don't think so...

darksyndrem 09-29-2009 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by knucKles (Post 774391)
I would love to get my wisdom teeth out again. It was such a wonderful pain. Better than any other pain. I got 'em out all 4 at once with just a local anaesthesia. And after that no civil service. Awesome! Actually the lower ones were grown horizontally in my jawbone so the doc had to cut the flesh, then saw the teeth into 3 little pieces and pull 'em all out. The upper left one was infected and the anaesthesia didn't work at all so the doctor had to pull so hard that the tooth flew through the whole room and was never found again. I mostly ignored the painkillers and I love baby food.

Another weird thing I discovered: Before I left the country to study in Japan for a year I was having some intimate times with my ex-girlfriend. I got a little bit bored but in the middle of the fun she started crying. I asked her why and she replied that this is the last time before I go and that makes her so sad. When I saw her tears and heard her whimper it turned me on so much. That was great.

Am I weird? I don't think so...

That wasn't pain, that was Lora tab ;D

Quailboy 09-30-2009 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by knucKles (Post 774391)

Another weird thing I discovered: Before I left the country to study in Japan for a year I was having some intimate times with my ex-girlfriend. I got a little bit bored but in the middle of the fun she started crying. I asked her why and she replied that this is the last time before I go and that makes her so sad. When I saw her tears and heard her whimper it turned me on so much. That was great.

Am I weird? I don't think so...

This.

This would be hella amazing.

JayT 09-30-2009 09:02 AM

One time I had a cut, and I put lemon juice on it.
It stung, I enjoyed it. I'm a masochist now.

Quailboy 09-30-2009 09:11 AM

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Originally Posted by JayT (Post 774487)
One time I had a cut, and I put lemon juice on it.
It stung, I enjoyed it. I'm a masochist now.

Burns are the best dude, don't even.

I pop a stiffy every time a cig ember falls on my hand. No Lie.

orewasenshi 09-30-2009 10:20 AM

O.o

Freaksssss.

I'm totally a masochist since I've cracked my head open a number of times and jizzed in my pants every time >______>

Miyavifan 09-30-2009 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by NanteNa (Post 774303)
Isn't a 'masochist' someone who finds SEXUAL pleasure in pain?

''Masochism is a medical condition where people can derive pleasure from being humiliated or hurt by other people. Often, the arousal has a sexual nature''

So unless u actually jizzed from that experience.. I think u were just being the weird-ass kid u are, huns : P

nah, that's sadomasochism.

Sadism refers to gratification in the infliction of pain or humiliation upon another person. Masochism refers to gratification from receiving the same.

sadomasochism is the sexual part of it. though that's not ontopic, and probably more than needed to be said?

and knuckles... we didn't need to know about the thing with your ex. that was tmi, seriously.

Quailboy 09-30-2009 08:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Miyavifan (Post 774561)

and knuckles... we didn't need to know about the thing with your ex. that was tmi, seriously.

I found it appropriate, and sexy.

Miyavifan 09-30-2009 08:26 PM

obviously you would.

Quailboy 09-30-2009 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Miyavifan (Post 774582)
obviously you would.

Meh, that's what the thread is about.

Miyavifan 09-30-2009 08:30 PM

no.... not from how I understand it.

masochism is about enjoying pain... has nothing to do with sex related stuff.

Quailboy 09-30-2009 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Miyavifan (Post 774584)
no.... not from how I understand it.

masochism is about enjoying pain... has nothing to do with sex related stuff.

Well, he was enjoying her pain.

It doesn't have to be physical..

I get pleasure it hurting people emotionally...shattering dreams and breaking hearts.

knucKles 09-30-2009 09:48 PM

So if people talk about jizzing in their pants and getting a stiffy from burns it's ok but if I talk about my ex it's not? I tried to paraphrase it. The complaints just came up cause a poor little girl's emotions got hurt.

Wanna cry for me Quailboy? :D

TalnSG 09-30-2009 09:52 PM

Whoo-hooo digging out my old lecture notes for SM101.......:)
and seriously editing them to stay within JF bounds.:rolleyes:

Mashochism is the brain revising its response to pain so that it is a pleasurable sensation. Usually the response is very specific to the sensation. One who enjoys pain stimulous #1 will not necessarily have a pleasurable response to stimulous #2 or #3 (the except being those commonly referred to a "pain pigs")

Sadism is the brain responding to the infliction (sometimes simple observation) of pain upon another person. Essentially (thought technically not quite) the opposite of Masochism.

Switch - one who experiences both with nearly the same level of enjoyment. (rare!) Usually someone who functions in this dynamic has clear preferences but has set the aside for expediency (ie. available experiential factors).

Sado-masochism is the interplay of these two dynamics.

As for the sexual aspect, it is not required by definition and can be totally absent from the dynamic. However, because of some biophysics and cultural influences sexuality is often a significant factor.

Shibari or Kinbaku is a well known Japanese art of this type.

Any more questions?
Madame

Quailboy 09-30-2009 10:13 PM

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Originally Posted by knucKles (Post 774595)
So if people talk about jizzing in their pants and getting a stiffy from burns it's ok but if I talk about my ex it's not? I tried to paraphrase it. The complaints just came up cause a poor little girl's emotions got hurt.

Wanna cry for me Quailboy? :D

Heh, no thanks man, sorry xD


Tain: Seems like you're involved quite a bit in it yourself?

Quailboy 09-30-2009 10:30 PM

The more I think about it..the more I want to get my nipples pierced >_<
Sadly, Val wont let me xD

Rin244 09-30-2009 11:03 PM

The closest thing that I've done that could be considered masochism is dripping candle wax on my arms. It was...interesting ._.
Fwee~

JaclynJK 09-30-2009 11:10 PM

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Originally Posted by IamKira (Post 774347)
oh oh, and after you punch something really hard, there's a primeval sort of high you get from the pain..

hehe, doors. I always punch my door really hard when I get home...I dunno why, just love the stinging pain after effect I guess XD

Quailboy 09-30-2009 11:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Rin244 (Post 774610)
The closest thing that I've done that could be considered masochism is dripping candle wax on my arms. It was...interesting ._.
Fwee~

On the chest feels better imo <3

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Originally Posted by JaclynJK (Post 774613)
hehe, doors. I always punch my door really hard when I get home...I dunno why, just love the stinging pain after effect I guess XD

Hmm, not much of a punching fan myslef..now, being punched in the face, feels good ^_^

JaclynJK 09-30-2009 11:55 PM

i dont like bein punched :/ too easily bruised XD and i used to kick...but to many holes popped up in the walls so I resorted to less force punching XD

Quailboy 09-30-2009 11:58 PM

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Originally Posted by JaclynJK (Post 774620)
i dont like bein punched :/ too easily bruised XD and i used to kick...but to many holes popped up in the walls so I resorted to less force punching XD

Haha, fair enough, I don't bruise to easily, so it's no big deal.

JaclynJK 09-30-2009 11:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Quailboy (Post 774621)
Haha, fair enough, I don't bruise to easily, so it's no big deal.

yeah, me and a friend were wrestlin cus him and two other friends were tryin to get me in a photo booth to take a pic. Lets just say he gave me credit and said he wouldnt wanna fight me :)
I came out with a huge bruise on my arm though XD

Quailboy 10-01-2009 12:08 AM

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Originally Posted by JaclynJK (Post 774622)
yeah, me and a friend were wrestlin cus him and two other friends were tryin to get me in a photo booth to take a pic. Lets just say he gave me credit and said he wouldnt wanna fight me :)
I came out with a huge bruise on my arm though XD

Slap meh please? <3 xD

I haven't seen a photo booth in ages -___-

JaclynJK 10-01-2009 12:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Quailboy (Post 774623)
Slap meh please? <3 xD

I haven't seen a photo booth in ages -___-

haha, nah. violence aint my thing except for self-defense. but i like that i know working out has helped now :)

they're everywhere here. ice skatin rinks, wal-mart, mall, etc

Kandierain15 10-01-2009 01:04 AM

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Originally Posted by JaclynJK (Post 774628)
haha, nah. violence aint my thing except for self-defense. but i like that i know working out has helped now :)

they're everywhere here. ice skatin rinks, wal-mart, mall, etc

yuppers. I went down to Alabama last yr(if your location is right) and I went tothe space museum place, they had sooooo many photo booths. It was like. WhOA!

You only see them at like, kings island up in cincinnati. >< so sad.

JaclynJK 10-01-2009 01:35 AM

Space and Rocket Center? Haha, my dad used to work there. I love it :) been soooo many times. They should make portable photo booths

Garbage197666 10-01-2009 01:37 AM

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Originally Posted by JaclynJK (Post 774628)
haha, nah. violence aint my thing except for self-defense. but i like that i know working out has helped now :)

they're everywhere here. ice skatin rinks, wal-mart, mall, etc

they take bad pix. :/

darksyndrem 10-01-2009 01:47 AM

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Originally Posted by JayT (Post 774487)
One time I had a cut, and I put lemon juice on it.
It stung, I enjoyed it. I'm a masochist now.

Lemons. Are pretty good.

P.S. (that's for acne not cuts ;D)

Quailboy 10-01-2009 01:48 AM

Thread is going off topic..

Nipple piercing, I want some.

darksyndrem 10-01-2009 01:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Quailboy (Post 774637)
Thread is going off topic..

Nipple piercing, I want some.

I want a cartiledge D: no money.............that and I sitll live with my praents and I can't type wotrh crap today >_<


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