Hello again, thanks for your input. It seems very tricky dealing with other youngsters. Its so true that children and young people can be really cruel its something we have to learn to cope with to get on in the big wide world.


I do hope that you find out more about your family history. It's important to know really.

Would you mind if I PM you? best regards, Babs.

Please feel free to pm me anytime. I have found my family sir name in the Yorkshire to Wales areas going as far back as 1901 but who came later or who married whom and where I fit into all of it I'm not sure and I'm not sure if I want to know everything. Sometimes you can find things about your family that you wished you hadn't. :D

You can never win against the "what if" question.

"What if" I lived there?
"What if" that didn't happen to me?
"What if" I didn't say those things?

Some people are seemingly happy whereever they are and a lot of people are miserable whereever they are.

Character is not built overnight and a sudden change of scenery isn't going to suddenly change a person's character or demeanor. Does purchasing a home gym make someone suddenly stronger or more muscular?

Moving to a new place may make you happy temporarily but it's like anything "new" .. once the new feeling fades you may be forced to ask yourself yet again:

If I'm not happy and this thing/place/person I wanted that I now have did not make me as happy as I thought it would be...should I focus on internal issues rather than trying to obtain more external stuff??