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Sitron 01-22-2011 12:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Brass (Post 847711)
Ok for one, do you go to a all white school or mostly white school? Do you live in the south? You have to understand a lot of times when people call you ugly it's just a PC way of calling you a nigger (or whatever the racial slur is for arabs). Serious. You have to shrug that shit off. It sounds like your confidence got beat down in high school. You need to get some self respect back man and not worry what others think about you. Trust me, you are not ugly. And I'm being serious, if you were ugly I would say so and not sugar coat it.

Thanks man. I live in Norway (which is in Northern Europe) so all schools are white schools.

spicytuna 01-22-2011 02:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Sitron (Post 847697)
I'm 24 years old and still an unkissed virgin. Besides this being a humiliating fact for me, I really want to have sex, and besides paying a prostitute which would cost a lot in the long run, the best option is getting a girlfriend and doing it for free.

My only problem is that I'm not attractive, and I have a bloated belly like the poor malnutritioned kids in Africa (I'm not fat, it's because I have an irritable bowel). How can an unattractive guy like me with mediocre social skills get a girl that's at least a 7 (from 1 to 10)?

Before you go any further, why don't you tell us what you'd rate yourself?

And it better not be a 7 or lower or I'll fly over to Norway to bitchslap you this weekend!

termogard 01-22-2011 03:05 AM

clubs
 
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Originally Posted by Brass (Post 847707)
.....and head to the bar for a drink (DO NOT BUY HER A DRINK) .

Do not buy a drink? Why?:)

bELyVIS 01-22-2011 05:19 AM

Looks aren't so important, just don't look like a troll. Some nice clothes and haircut work, but attitude is everything. Look for books called "The Mystery Method" and anything by Pick Up Artist named Style. These work, use them.

Termogard, buying a drink says you are needing to buy her attention and interest. You should be so interesting that she buys you a drink.;)

ModusOperandi 01-22-2011 05:22 AM

I'm not a very attractive guy, but I never really care much for it. All in all, I find self-confidence and a bit of wit to be enough of a tool to get anywhere with the opposite sex.

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Originally Posted by termogard (Post 847756)
Do not buy a drink? Why?:)

Buying drinks is a bit of a waste...especially if you're not "wooing" someone you've cultivated any sort of relationship with. You might as well slap a sign on your head saying "I'm desperate for your affection"...Well, at least that's the reason why I don't buy ladies I've just met drinks.

Maybe Brass has another reason for this so I'll leave it to him to continue explaining his calculated approach. :P

JasonTakeshi 01-22-2011 05:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Sitron (Post 847697)
I can get ugly girls and fat pigs easily, but I want to share my intimate moments with someone I enjoy looking at. And I don't want to be ashamed of being seen with a hideous slob of a girl.

No wonder why you're still a virgin.

termogard 01-22-2011 05:32 AM

interest
 
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Originally Posted by bELyVIS (Post 847781)

Termogard, buying a drink says you are needing to buy her attention and interest. You should be so interesting that she buys you a drink.;)

bELyVIS and ModusOperandi

Okay, thank you for responses:)

Ghap 01-22-2011 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Sitron (Post 847697)
I'm 24 years old and still an unkissed virgin. Besides this being a humiliating fact for me, I really want to have sex, and besides paying a prostitute which would cost a lot in the long run, the best option is getting a girlfriend and doing it for free.

My only problem is that I'm not attractive, and I have a bloated belly like the poor malnutritioned kids in Africa (I'm not fat, it's because I have an irritable bowel). How can an unattractive guy like me with mediocre social skills get a girl that's at least a 7 (from 1 to 10)?

I can get ugly girls and fat pigs easily, but I want to share my intimate moments with someone I enjoy looking at. And I don't want to be ashamed of being seen with a hideous slob of a girl.

My only advice would be to stop being a complete pratt and stop making stupid posts for whatever amusement you get out of them.

Columbine 01-22-2011 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by MissMisa (Post 847710)
Secondly, improve your attitude of girls in general, or at least pretend to give a sh*t. Girls (generally) don't like it when your main goal is to have sex with them and I know I hate the whole universal rating of attraction by 1-10 thing.

I wouldn't bother Misa, the guy's not out to get a real girlfriend or any kind of meaningful relationship, he just wants to find someone who won't say no when he asks to stick it in them so he can feel better about himself.

Jesus, this thread. JF is going to the dogs.

File0 01-22-2011 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Columbine (Post 847802)
I wouldn't bother Misa, the guy's not out to get a real girlfriend or any kind of meaningful relationship, he just wants to find someone who won't say no when he asks to stick it in them so he can feel better about himself.

Jesus, this thread. JF is going to the dogs.

Sure is. This is the kind what gives me the creeps.
Girls! Have you not read the OP? Well here's a reminder:
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Originally Posted by Sitron (Post 847697)
... I really want to have sex, and besides paying a prostitute which would cost a lot in the long run, the best option is getting a girlfriend and doing it for free.
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