JF - Classy no more
 

First, let me apologize for ranting here.

Lately, something been seriously bothering me. I mean, yes, this is a public forum, but I would at least expect a certain level of respect coming from everyone

But what I've seen lately, is an increasing number of foreigners who is only interested in Japan because of what they've seen in Japanese porn. Mostly the white boys, I apologize for using this term, and I apologize to the very few Caucasian people I talked to on this forum, but I am really steaming up over this topic

I am not Japanese. I am Chinese. But because of certain event that happened in my life, I am closer to the Japanese culture than I am to Chinese. That said, I am speaking out on behalf of everyon form the Orient:

Our people are NOT some kind of free meat, please have more respect for our people, and stop viewing our women as some kind of sexual objects

For Caucasian that truly love their oriental girls for who they are, thank you for the respect and thank you for trying to understand the culture.

For the white boys who is only interested in our women for sexual reason: F*** you and may your mom rot in hell

You most likely seen some my post but shu is like my alter ego, I do respect asian women.

it is funny how you talk about mutual respect at the same time saying "fuck you white boys" :cool:
why so serious? a restarted kid found the button "Asian" at pronhub.com and got curious about the culture.

and people who do view asian women as simply meat won't change their views because some dude said "fuck you" on a obscure forum on the internet.

in a way this is a even dumber topic because nothing will be gained from it. not even couple of laughs unlike the other topic.

My opinion;

This is only reflecting the real world.
In the real world there are tons of guys who lust after Asian women and see them as nothing but sex objects. They see a visit to Japan (or another Asian country) as a chance to have sex with them.

And... Unfortunately, a lot of the time, they do just this. There are bars which cater to this - usually with a set of women hanging out in them who will screw any foreign guy who comes along (which is why they`re hanging out in the bar). This gives these guys a skewed perception of Japan, which they then pass on, leading to even more guys who think that they`ll be able to get lots of action.

It`s kind of sad how often that type of guy ends up staying longer in Japan, marrying a normal girl who actually fell in love with him through work or the like, and being unable to give up the "screw gaijin bar girls" lifestyle... leaving his wife (and often kid) to suffer. Or in even worse cases, marries her, takes her back to his country, and expects her to be his personal sex toy.

The real world is a pretty pathetic place.

Thats why I apologize up front..... you are entitled to your opinion....

watching your brothers and especially sisters being seen as sexual meat to be devoured in the eyes of westerners can be infuriating yes, so I can understand where you are coming from

please, though, not for one instant should you behave in a manner that might indicate it isn't happening in equal if not greater proportions in the opposite direction

Thats exactly what I am talking about, and yes, its unfrotunate. I wasn't saying that my post will change anything, but just my way to express my anger over this.

Hey, I totally agree with you. I am just keeping my mouth shut on what is bothering me on the off-case I start trouble.

Agree James. But I cannot represent the Caucasian, Middle Eastern, South Asian or African (sorry if I missed anyone) crowd. Bottom line is, people like you, who is dating for the right reason worth our repsect, regardless of the race of the girl you are dating

Any guy that date a girl for sex is not acceptable.. and it angers me more when it happen to Asian women because thats my culture...

There is one thing in your original post that I don`t agree with though...
That it is increasing recently. It`s the same as it`s always been - possibly even decreasing as it`s now easier and more common than ever for people to come in contact with real Asian people.