true, I know it can be better then factory made... on the other hand, it's also the matter of that the coat will be made in a different country, it'll be harder to make sure it'll fit. My mom also said she didn't mind handmade clothes if they were made in the Netherlands... but meh >:
I should learn how to sew...

if you're a girl just get a boy one there are better choices there too sometimes, i bet you can find a gothic one and you can custom make it yourself to be gothic lolita i'm sure.

I"m assuming your a girl cuz you want a gothic lolita jacket. And if you want a gothic lolita one try lolitakisama.com you can find some xl one there and it shows you if they fit you. :D hope this helped. And no worries!