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This is it!!!
im so tired of being single, and no matter how hard i try...i cant get a boyfriend. i love nerds and total assholes..which is like most guys. i dont care for looks, or popularity, or anything like that. the only thing i judge is a guy`s personality. so why is it so hard? why?
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Because you are only 14? :rolleyes:
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ive dated guys who are like 18 or even 19. and arent there any other guys out thre whos my age?
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Why do you feel the need to date? You're still young, you should just enjoy being yourself until you meet someone who has the same feelings for you, and go forward from there. It will happen.
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maybe because im one of those who feels so alone, and has a hard life, and needs someone to talk to?
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That's what friends are for, right?
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ive got friends. i need someone who i can love. someone i say anything to. u cant tell a friend just anyhting, you know.
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Why assholes? Is that the personality part you like? Maybe when you focus on other things is when that someone will come into your life. It doesnt need to be a priority.
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And i suggest you get yourself a dog... or a monkey (they are really fun ^_^) |
You shouldn't be worrying about getting a boyfriend at your age. Trust me, I know how you feel, I've felt that way before, but you shouldn't look for someone just because you feel lonely and you want someone to hug you, talk with you or simply hold your hand, being with someone is about making that person happy not just making yourself happy. High school is a time of friends, so don't worry about any of that right now, when the guy for you comes he'll come :) |
I know how you feel, I am jus tthe same way except the assholes like me o_O and its like.....you see everyone haveing a bf/gf and feel the need to have someone there by your side. or maybe you just want someone you can trust or rely on. Someone that will comfort you in a time when you are hurt or something.
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Boys your age aren't interested in being someone you can talk to or love. Trust me. Start thinking about love when you are about 18 or 20.
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I do feel the way you do, but I've slowly realized that I'll find somebody who really loves me someday. It's part of God's plan so I'll just wait and see where life takes me.
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Talk to a friend who you trust the most and feel like you can tell something. Having a boyfriend won't do you much good if you couldn't tell everything to them BEFORE you went out. Seconding the thing about you probably not wanting older guys. Lolicons, one track mind, etc.
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thanks people.. your commets REALLY mean a lot to me. im just having a very hard time with personal shit, and it seems like it gets harder every day. it probably wont change the fact that i want a boyfriend, but your commets have made me feel a lot better.
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you could get a friend with benefits !
you should find someone that none of the people you hang out with know ! someone who will just pop up out of know where and talk to you,but will not what to really talk to the people you know ! even if they come up to him and ask him stuff! he will just tell them stuff like "oh,really,i'm not sure!" or oh,ok! well,i've got to go! nice to meet you!" lol ! someone who does not live close to you ! :rheart: :D |
i just want a guy who really loves me, and is really cool. i dont care for looks, or where they live. just as long as he is cool. here are some celebrity examples of a guy i like (nerds and assholes)
1.conan obrien 2. vin diesel (yup u heard that right) 3. john hedar yah... those are the guys of my dreams... |
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