@SmMo: Yeah I can agree there too, because confidence is so sexy, when someone can stand up for themselves or even talk to a girl or a guy with out looking too shy. I mean if you like someone theres only one way to find out if they like you too. ^_^
Yeah, it definitely would be good to elaborate on what your interest are aswell, if you find even one connection with some one be it a favorite artist as you said, that could be a way to win a heart but theres no way just to make someone fall for you, an pine over you.