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iPhantom 05-08-2009 06:29 PM

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Originally Posted by SephirothVVC (Post 712588)
why do you think it must fail?

Because even real love fails. You guys think it doesn't?

MMM 05-08-2009 06:31 PM

Enough, gentlemen.

Cherish the love you feel at 18 because once you are out of puberty it will never feel that intense and real again.

SephirothVVC 05-08-2009 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by MMM (Post 712595)
Enough, gentlemen.

Cherish the love you feel at 18 because once you are out of puberty it will never feel that intense and real again.

love shouldnt be completely based on chemicals anyway. yes, its nice, but its not everything

spicytuna 05-08-2009 06:58 PM

All I can say is that I was 16 at one time and I know how it feels to fall in love for the first time. The euphoria, that feeling of invincibility, the carefree attitude, the world at your fingertips, etc.

Like MMM said, enjoy it while you can. ;)

alanX 05-08-2009 07:14 PM

Oh I forgot love had an age limit, and you're only allowed to love someone if you're over 20 and living on your own.

Must have slipped my mind.

iPhantom 05-08-2009 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by alanX (Post 712649)
Oh I forgot love had an age limit, and you're only allowed to love someone if you're over 20 and living on your own.

Must have slipped my mind.

You got THAT out of this line? --> it will never feel that intense and real again


alanX 05-08-2009 07:22 PM

I wasn't directing that towards that statement, but more towards spicy tuna and MMM's remarks.

But it was a nice attempt though.

MMM 05-08-2009 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by alanX (Post 712649)
Oh I forgot love had an age limit, and you're only allowed to love someone if you're over 20 and living on your own.

Must have slipped my mind.

Where in the world did this come from? Did someone erase a post I missed?

iPhantom 05-08-2009 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by alanX (Post 712654)
I wasn't directing that towards that statement, but more towards spicy tuna and MMM's remarks.

But it was a nice attempt though.

Care to show what made you think they said that? I think you exaggerate on things a lot.

Koir 05-08-2009 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted by iPhantom (Post 712659)
Care to show what made you think they said that? I think you exaggerate on things a lot.

Personally, I think it's the hormone goggles alanx has on. Also, for that facepalm pic on the previous page? Poor Sunao, he should have never taken his glasses off...

alanX 05-08-2009 07:42 PM

First of all...

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Originally Posted by spicytuna (Post 712638)
All I can say is that I was 16 at one time and I know how it feels to fall in love for the first time. The euphoria, that feeling of invincibility, the carefree attitude, the world at your fingertips, etc.

Like MMM said, enjoy it while you can. ;)

I don't feel any of this. And if you do, then I have no clue what you're feeling, but it isn't love.

And maybe I am exaggerating a bit, but this whole topic is a really touchy one for me. If it's actual love, despite how ever hold you are, then money is no issue. And that's all I mean, and I'm sticking to it. If you want to say I'm wrong because I live with my parents for some reason, then you're very welcome to.

MMM 05-08-2009 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by alanX (Post 712663)
First of all...



I don't feel any of this. And if you do, then I have no clue what you're feeling, but it isn't love.

And maybe I am exaggerating a bit, but this whole topic is a really touchy one for me. If it's actual love, despite how ever hold you are, then money is no issue. And that's all I mean, and I'm sticking to it. If you want to say I'm wrong because I live with my parents for some reason, then you're very welcome to.

Alan, I think you need to stop telling people what they feel and whether it is love or not.

You and SephirothVVC are teenagers. That doesn't mean you are dumb or bad, it just means you are teenagers. Instead of telling people that have completed the journey you are on right now they don't know what they are talking about, consider their words carefully, as they have experiences you haven't had, and more importantly, a PERSPECTIVE you do not yet have. You will in a few years, but you don't have it now. You cannot read the billboard on the side of a bus you are riding in.

I thought I knew what love was when I was 18, too. To tell the truth I probably understand it less now, but I do look back and chuckle at the way I looked at love and marriage and the world at that time.

I guess I am just glad there was no Internet and permanent public record of my naive outlooks.

alanX 05-08-2009 07:58 PM

Okay, I understand what you're saying.

And I think, alas, it is a personal opinion. You have yours, I have mine.

You say tOmato, I say tomAto.

SephirothVVC 05-08-2009 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by MMM (Post 712668)
You and SephirothVVC are teenagers.

i know what your saying, i dont feel love with chemicals anymore, but i know thats not what love is anyway, thats just an attraction to someone. i dont really know how else to say it. i dont have thye perspective of a teen anymore. but i dont have the eyes of the average adult either. its more like the perspective of an alien looking at the earth from far away.....thats the best way i can explain it. but the bottom line is, i know when i get older i wont feel 'love' as much or maybe at all. basing love on that feeling completely would be very sad though

yuujirou 05-08-2009 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by MMM (Post 712668)
I guess I am just glad there was no Internet and permanent public record of my naive outlooks.

hahahaaha.......

oh dear >.>'


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