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03-04-2009, 09:16 PM

i think she just appreacites you as a friend and might have brought up her bf because she didn't want you getting any wrong ideas


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03-07-2009, 09:58 PM

You need to ask yourself what you really want from this girl.

Whatever the answer is she isn't being honest with you or with her boyfriend. She needs to decide what it is she really wants before you even consider going to see her, either way you could run the risk of getting hurt. She obviously still has feelings for her boyfriend, but the fact that she's seeking attention elsewhere and has told him about her meeting with you seems to be a bit of a cry for attention.

If you're looking for a proper relationship you need to take a step back and ask yourself if this is really the kind of person you want to get involved with, because even if she does get rid of her boyfriend, who's to say the same thing isn't going to happen to you with another boy?

Don't ever settle for someone who isn't going to give you back what you give to them. You should respect yourself enough to realise that you deserve so much more than that.

Whatever you decide to do, good luck.


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03-10-2009, 09:05 AM

Well if you really like/love her then make a move on her, i mean her BF lives in the U.S.A. sorry i know im a girl and im being mean by saying to do that but why not?
id be lonely and want some company too.^_^
i think she likes you.>^_^<
so just tell her how you feel.



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03-10-2009, 09:42 AM

I think he should accept the girls kindness, if she has someone already maybe she is just saying this out of kindness of her heart. I don't think you should make a move though, because if she seriously felt that she loved you more than the other dude she would have told you right? But I do think you should accept someones hospitality.



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