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i'm not sure so i wouldn't vote, since i'm not looking for any specific type of race relationship, as long as the person is nice.
but for japanese guy, most seems okay, but some they are really nice. but if i were ever to date one by coincidence, sure why not. but if not, i wouldn't mind, since i wouldn't 'force' myself to date just because they are a certain ethnicity.

Well , at first .

i want to have a japanese girlfriend.
because it has many test. and you have to face many struggles . ^_^

in learning their way ,
their culture,
their livelihood,
their country,

it also attracts me.
and so i choose them.

and also japanese girls are so cute.
they know how to love seriously.

:D

I find it unfortunate that not a small percentage have anything positive to say about the Japanese male.

Are they really that bad?

Most western sheilas I know are not interested in Asian males.

They put it down to a small pecker, but is that the REAL reason?

I would like a Japanese boyfriend because they are cute. Lol. ^^ Asian men in general are cute to me. I'll honestly admit I have never really known a Asian guy in real life though. =/ Maybe they aren't attracted to me. *shrug*

Wait I take that back. I knew a few Korean guys but they were 20+ years old (too old for me right now). Still cute though. ^^

Of course dating a guy who actually lives in Japan is very different from one who was born and lives in the U.S. That is not to say that a native wouldn't be interested in his own culture, or that a non-native wouldn't be interested in his heritage, but sometimes it seems that way.

i read somewhere that asian boys only like to date asian girls. i am curious if any non asian girl has ever dated an asian boy?

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Originally Posted by superyen (Post 784594)

i read somewhere that asian boys only like to date asian girls. i am curious if any non asian girl has ever dated an asian boy?

Are you serious? lol

Every asian guy is different. They all have different preferences. Interracial relationships happen all the time.

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Originally Posted by ozkai (Post 784538)

I wouldn't think so. I presume most women are not comfortable with having to get accustomed to a culture vastly different to their own. Likewise with the men, ofcourse. I think it's just down to the person.

For example, being Turkish myself, I find that the Japanese culture and my own culture are very similar on it's outlook on most things. Thus, having a Japanese girlfriend would not affect me too much, because there would be less adaptation.

However, for example, an English young man might have problems, since the cultures are vastly different. I say male, but it counts for both genders.

As for the small pecker, the tallest man in the world is Chinese, I'm sure there are some Japanese men who don't fail to deliver in that area either ;P

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Originally Posted by clairebear (Post 784596)

Are you serious? lol

Does that include Australian males;)

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Originally Posted by superyen (Post 784594)

i read somewhere that asian boys only like to date asian girls. i am curious if any non asian girl has ever dated an asian boy?

most asian guys do like dating asian girls. BUT, i know some who likes non-asian girls. but just that their are more asian girls who dates non-asian than asian guys dating non-asian.

their are a few (white) girls who i know really loves asian guys, and even dates 'em too. so i'm not surprised if their are non-asian girls who likes asian guys.

I want a Japanese gf lol not bf. I have always been fascinated with Japanese culture and women. It is my ultimate dream to live in Japan for a month when time permits.