Is your best friend of the opposite sex? - Page 5

Tsuwabuki · (#41 (**permalink**))

I have best friends of both sexes, and of varying gender alignments. I find a friendship cannot be maintained long enough if there is any amount of romantic tension.

pumpum · (#42 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Tsuwabuki

I have best friends of both sexes, and of varying gender alignments. I find a friendship cannot be maintained long enough if there is any amount of romantic tension.

hey sorry but i think thats impossible, i think if a male can call a girl his *BEST* friend then he must be gay !!

I have lots of friends who are female and some of them are very very close to me but i have been with them all, it just doesnt work - if your that close to a female - nature will take its course.

btw - to all the girls thats say that they have male best friends and there is no *those kinds of feelings involved* i gurantee you that given the chance each one of those males would jump into a relationship with you....if you dont believe me just try it !!

VampireGirl1314 · (#43 (**permalink**))

yeah he is. he is the only person i can go to with all my problems he never tells anyone he stays quiet, the only thing is he is 17 and sometimes i cant trust him.>.>

TalnSG · (#44 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by pumpum

hey sorry but i think thats impossible, i think if a male can call a girl his *BEST* friend then he must be gay !!

I have lots of friends who are female and some of them are very very close to me but i have been with them all, it just doesnt work - if your that close to a female - nature will take its course.

btw - to all the girls thats say that they have male best friends and there is no *those kinds of feelings involved* i gurantee you that given the chance each one of those males would jump into a relationship with you....if you dont believe me just try it !!

Some men have more control than a hormone laden 12 year old. I am not saying that urges and thoughts have not arisen (on both sides) but I still say to of my very best friends are male and we have not and will not ever cross the boundary between friend and lover.

There have been times when those urges were acted on with others, but with only one exception, the entire connection then quickly disintegrated.

ARoomwithaMOOSE · (#45 (**permalink**))

I have friends who are guys and I have friends who are girls.
I have one best friend who is a guy and one best friend who is a girl.
(But I get along better with people who are older/younger then me)
(since people my age tend to get on my nerves.)

pumpum · (#46 (**permalink**))

You all are saying that you 100% know - but thats impossible

and from the point that YOU express those feelings do you really think your friend is gonna admit that they would lay you ? cmon wake up

KatDJZ · (#47 (**permalink**))

All my friends now are girls. Back in college when I hung out with more people I had guy friends, but not anymore. I kinda miss having guys around, but I'm not all that great at making friends and work by myself, so I don't get to meet new people very often.

pumpum · (#48 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by KatDJZ

I had guy friends, but not anymore. I kinda miss having guys around, but I'm not all that great at making friends and work by myself

aww *gives a katdjz a big huggy wuggy*