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thcuteness 06-21-2009 09:32 PM

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Originally Posted by MMM (Post 736799)
Then I would just worry about being 15 and don't even think about dating until you graduate from high school.

I'll take your advice

MMM 06-21-2009 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by thcuteness (Post 736800)
I'll take your advice

You'll save yourself a lot of heartache. The divorce rate for people who get married under 25 is much higher than it is for people who marry over 25.

Why? Because people under 25 don't know themselves well enough to make lifelong commitments. Get to people under 20 and it is even higher.

Everyone thinks they will marry their high school sweetheart, and it almost never happens. For the ones that do, the majority end in divorce.

Be friends with boys and once you are mature enough to move out of your parents place and live on your own (or in a dorm or wherever), then you will be ready to start dating.

rison 06-21-2009 09:45 PM

Cosignatory on what triple M said..good talk.

thcuteness 06-22-2009 01:15 AM

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Originally Posted by MMM (Post 736807)
You'll save yourself a lot of heartache. The divorce rate for people who get married under 25 is much higher than it is for people who marry over 25.

Why? Because people under 25 don't know themselves well enough to make lifelong commitments. Get to people under 20 and it is even higher.

Everyone thinks they will marry their high school sweetheart, and it almost never happens. For the ones that do, the majority end in divorce.

Be friends with boys and once you are mature enough to move out of your parents place and live on your own (or in a dorm or wherever), then you will be ready to start dating.

I will take your advice seriously and follow it. thank you

aoshisakura 07-01-2009 01:17 AM

girl, he just isn't worth giving serious attention at his current state..
maybe it'll take some time for him to realize that he
already needs to be serious.. anyway, how old are you? and him as well?

hinata2 07-10-2009 11:53 PM

just do wat you feel is right i hope things work out for you

QueenNanami 07-11-2009 12:05 AM

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Originally Posted by thcuteness (Post 736791)
Im 15 right now

Lol, Girl you need to move on. Most guys around 15 want one thing. If he is going to treat you that way, it was never meant to be. Have more confidence in yourself to leave that jerk and find someone who really loves you.

You dont need our help to move on. You just need to find the strength in yourself to move on. Believe me... You deserve better.

xYinniex 07-11-2009 12:14 AM

uh/ talking about kids scares people off.
and telling you he's writing a 30 page love letter? wow. Romance really is dead if you need to inform someone.

you're 15. of course you'll be heartbroken for a time being, but young hearts mend easily and you'll find confidence back and you're ready to take on the world.

Salvanas 07-11-2009 01:23 AM

15, and talking about marriage, and kids already? Wow.

I agree with MMM, by the by.

Yoite 07-12-2009 01:18 PM

I think you'll get one day that 30-paged love letter, but the sender won't be that guy you're talking about.


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