Relationship?
 

Hello everybody. I'm not sure if this is exactly the right place for this. I'm sorry if it isn't. For the longest time I've wondered to myself if I would ever find a girlfriend.(I'm 17, and most people that I've meet believe that one should have a girlfriend before this age. For those that don't, they are sometimes made fun of. It's happened to me before.) However, the problem with this is that I don't simply want to have a girlfriend so that I can go around telling everyone that I have a girlfriend. Honestly, I just want to find someone special that cares about me, and I can feel the same way about her. To tell a little about myself, I'm 17 years old, I live in the US, and I like to draw. I'm also into anime, and video games. Spending time with my friends and family is also nice.

Why rush it?
When its meant to be it'll fall into place all by itself.
You don't have to advertise for a partner.

Exactly what Jay said..me and him know how things work. ^_^

Things will fall into place for you man dont worry, they did for me <3
Just dont be so shy..thats normally a big problem.

<3

Yes, if you want to find someone that will truly fall in love with you then let it just happen. I've actually only dated one girl that I've met in high school. The rest have been met randomly, and honestly those relationships were much better. Or you can advertise like you are, and you'll end up with QB at your doorstep :mtongue:

Oo la la Jay, you know you want me.

Yeah I mean..school really isn't the place to meet girls..sure, its nice to window-shop at school but, its rare to find a real girl in school.

Heck yeah <3

But totally, in this case though it might be good to find a first girlfriend that goes to your school. You might feel insecure if you date a girl from a different school at first, always wondering where she is, whos shes with, etc.
Unless she's a homebody of course, but how many goodlooking girls stay at home these days? Answer, not many.

JT/QB Dating advice ftmfw.

I remember being like this..then I got her a collar, everything got better ^_^
(not even kidding)

As for homebody girls that look good, look at chicks that are homeschooled..most of them dont look too bad, and are innocent at that. (sexy? Yes)

ftmfw?

not to sound like a b*tch but you seem a little bit desperate. Speaking from the words of a girl. Girls dont like desperate guys. And i dont think this is something you should be to eager for, the right girl will come to you at the right moment. so have a little patience.

S&M Yezzzzz?

*is Toasting in Epic Bread*

Nice post Demyx

Thank yous ^^ *bows*

Thanks to everyone here. I appreciate your help.

no promblem ^^, good things always happen to good people and you seem like a good person, so i know something good going to happen to you just have faith.

Give it some time dude. Love is not something one should take for granted, and obviously your friends have no idea what it means to have that special someone. So don't mind them. Let them talk.

Thank you very much everyone.

People tend to make others feel miserable because of their own "Miserableness". Usualy those who mock others for not having a girlfriend, end up with someone who they dont actualy love. Why? Because they feel the NEED to have a girlfriend, dispiting the feelings she/he has for that same person, just to say "Hey look, i got a girlfriend! Im so pro. Aint i good?!".

You dont have to follow the same tedency. The "need" to urge to have a girlfriend. Things will come with time.

One thing you should do is to be yourself, but at the same time make the person you are with not feeling unconfortable. Tell some jokes, do some funny stuff (dont exagerate) and above all, just be yourself. We all have a funny side inside of us, but our "shyness" keeps it locked. Liberate yourself, be yourself and things will work out well. ^^

I used to be very shy when girls were around - but when i was with the guys, i was always telling stuff and making them laugh and doing silly things. xD then i met a very "wicked" (in a good way) girl who just opened my eyes. (she is my girl-friend. Not in a romantic way, its like my best-girl-friend, the best female friend) and she told me that girls were as shy as i was. I was like "REALY?!" - So you pretty much see how primitive i was - .

Yeah, girls can be shy aswell. Probably even more insecure (or not) then boys. Because we (boys) usualy are pushy, and girls dont like to be pushed. (Well some like, but i think the majority does not) well depends on the way your pushing it anyway. (Not realy an expert, lol)

Oh, and dont quit if you get a "no" as an answer. Usualy girls dont realy mean what they say. Its just that first impression, or that actitude who she dislikes on you - but it doesnt mean she dislikes you at all.

To end, im telling you from my own experience. Not like im an expert even so, just some tips who might help you. There are girls with different actitudes/feelings, thats what makes each of them UNIQUE. So the time will come, and till then, just be yourself. Kick the "shyness" in the ass and let the "true-you" within you merge. :mtongue: :D

Hope it helps somehow - not an expert but might be a little light, who knows. :rolleyes:

I am 16 and I don't have a boyfriend. I now how you feel and understand what it's like. I get picke on as well because the lack of a relationship with another person. Just hang in there, when the time is right things will fall into place, and you'll find the right person.

I am 16 and don't have a boyfriend . I know what it's like and understand how you feel. I also get picked on for a lack of a relationshiop with another person. Just hang in there because when the time is right things will fall into place and you'll find her.

Danzo: just to put some stress of you, i turned 24 when having first relationship ;) i don't count little bits before, as they are worthless :)

on the other side i must say i am not any common type of personality and my behavior is rather odd :D but that does not mean i want to be any different ;)

i just came around this video, maybe good to support someone's confidence in things :P am crying when see that :)

I went through the same thing back in high school. I was a real idiot back then. Thank goodness though I was single throughout high school!

IMO, it's your own decison and your business rather you want or are ready for a girlfriend or not. If you enjoy being single for as long as you want, that's cool, screw what others think. Love should never be rushed or taken for granted.

It's your life, not theirs.

Yeah I agree, don't rush it.

My first relationship was chaos, I wished I hadn't rushed it so much. We ended up moving in together within a few months and then I realized I never really liked him to begin with but I was stuck. Eventually we got to the point where we couldn't stand the sight each other and mutually broke up, I packed up and moved out the same day.

A year later I ended up re-meeting a childhood friend I've liked since 4th grade, he asked me out and then when he was finished with basic training we got married.

The only thing I have to say is be patient and not rush things especially when nothing happens before its time

Hi :d
 

I think its okay to not have a girfriend yet because you want it to be somone special not just any girl.I havnt had a boyfriend either so i know how it feels. :)