yeah, i think theres some kind of comfort in being with another asian for most asian guys.. and i think its also different depending on what kind of asian ur looking for. i think traditional chinese people prefer chinese themselves for the most part, and maybe with koreans too. and i think, the japanese, filipinos like myself, and the rest are more open.

most of the time, i think its the languagre barrier thingy, unless ofcourse you are talking about a guy who grew up in an english speaking country, but then again. i dont think that guy would be asian enough for you. :)

I agree!

Im not an Asian guy but for me this still comes across as the best advice.

Now excuse me as theres a girl out there called bidibodadabowana that is 1/4 European, 1/4 African, 1/4 Asian that lives on a small peloponnesian Island just waiting for me to find her.

Im not picky tho as i dont care what the 1/4 is.

Maybe the last 1/4 is Greek?

Move to, or visit, Japan then go to a place where ass holes are less likely to be hanging out, like a library or something, then sit beside a guy whose looks you like, talk to him a bit, see if he's not a freakshow, wait for him to offer his email. You'll probably find a decent nice guy this way.

PS. Don't expect a Japanese guy to be any different, better or worse, than any other guy you've been with.

PS. Don't expect a Japanese guy to be any different, better or worse, than any other guy you've been with.[/quote]



this is true... i think youre not gonna do yourself a favor, if youd put asian guys on a pedestal or somethin.. you most likely will get dissapointed, and them most likely may not be able to live upto your set standards and mindset.

I had a friend who was 100% made in China that liked me. But I think that was just because I had really long black chinky hair. But I dunno. I wasn't all 'OH MY GOD. YOU'RE SO ASIAN.' {Well... when I'd pick on him yeah.} But I agree that you should just act normal with everyone. Asians are your preference but if you keep a closed mind then the love of your life could pass you by. I really wouldn't like that happening. Just be natural and well... yourself.

*plooka plooka*

Wow i know its late but i gotta say - Youre 18, brazilian and living in London...and you cant find an asian guy??? :eek:

Do you look like Frodo lol ?

Be mine then. Hella easy a'int it? LOL

What NanteNa says is very true.

@CoolNard - we need you to spread this virus here in Japan, mate. More people thinking openly and hopefully things will get leveld out here.

@OP - I am fighting myself so hard now not to say anything.