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013 02-26-2011 07:40 AM

fell in love
 
I fell in love at first sight, and I do not know what should i do. I had never previously dating.:confused:

tipsygypsy 02-26-2011 07:45 AM

well, be nice to him/her and try to let him/her know about you at the same time you try to know about him/her. Don't require the quick result.

ryuurui 02-26-2011 07:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 013 (Post 852927)
I fell in love at first sight, and I do not know what should i do. I had never previously dating.:confused:

follow you heart and don't pay all the bills. :D

013 02-26-2011 07:51 AM

please help me . . .
i don't know to talk with a woman

tipsygypsy 02-26-2011 07:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 013 (Post 852933)
please help me . . .
i don't know to talk with a woman


You can talk to men right? Why not women? Both men and women are humanbeings. Just be as nice as/nicer than when you talk to your friends.

013 02-26-2011 07:57 AM

It is too difficult for me...
can you give me a conversation to talk with woman ???

ryuurui 02-26-2011 08:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 013 (Post 852935)
It is too difficult for me...
can you give me a conversation to talk with woman ???

she doesn't know yet you fell in love with her, does she?

tipsygypsy 02-26-2011 08:02 AM

Just tell her. "hi i thought it would be cool to hang out with you." or "hi I thought it would be nice to be your friend. Will you be my friend?"

013 02-26-2011 08:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ryuurui (Post 852937)
she doesn't know yet you fell in love with her, does she?

yes she doesn't know

013 02-26-2011 08:08 AM

okay . . . i want try it tommorow

tipsygypsy 02-26-2011 08:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 013 (Post 852941)
okay . . . i want try it tommorow


good luck :vsign:

ryuurui 02-26-2011 08:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 013 (Post 852940)
yes she doesn't know

Well in this case, whatever you do do not tell her about your feelings (not just yet) or you will freak her out.

Women like to be intrigued, and pick-up lines from the "Standard book of spells, chapter I How to convert a cold bird into a fire phoenix in one single wand swish" will most likely not work. If it does, the girl is not worth the time (but thats only my opinion).

So, instead of telling her to becomes your friend try to find out about her through convrsation. Perhaps you will discover a common topic or interest you both have. I would also steer clear of pretending that you have something in common, If she finds out, you are a dead duck, stripped out of trust like a dancer in Las Vegas on a busy Friday night.

In anyway, if you reveal all (yor feelings and assets, the good and the bad, etc) at the beginning you will become too boring to get wet for (especially mentally wet). Women like things to be untold, unfinished and blurred (to a point) which drags them deeper into the world of interest you are creating, like a bee to a pot of strawberry jam.

Do not be cunning, be yourself. That is the most important thing. If she likes you for what you are, she will reveal herself to you (emotionally).

keikan0407 02-26-2011 09:28 AM

Hi 013,
Who is she to you? your classmate, or you meet her in a shop while shopping?

My advice is to find a topic to talk to her.
You should know what her interest is. Then come talk to her when she doesn't notice, like "oh you're looking for..., i like it too." something like that. Finally, ask her email or phone number to discuss more about the topic.

God always grants brave people. Good luck!

Ghap 02-26-2011 10:19 AM

Hmm...

Im thinking you see this person daily so start with Hello!

Its not the fastest way as it may take days or week but it works.

Aniki 02-26-2011 07:05 PM


Ryzorian 02-27-2011 04:29 AM

This will not end well.

013 02-27-2011 01:59 PM

i know her name . . . .
her name is Rina

013 02-27-2011 02:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ryuurui (Post 852945)
Well in this case, whatever you do do not tell her about your feelings (not just yet) or you will freak her out.

Women like to be intrigued, and pick-up lines from the "Standard book of spells, chapter I How to convert a cold bird into a fire phoenix in one single wand swish" will most likely not work. If it does, the girl is not worth the time (but thats only my opinion).

So, instead of telling her to becomes your friend try to find out about her through convrsation. Perhaps you will discover a common topic or interest you both have. I would also steer clear of pretending that you have something in common, If she finds out, you are a dead duck, stripped out of trust like a dancer in Las Vegas on a busy Friday night.

In anyway, if you reveal all (yor feelings and assets, the good and the bad, etc) at the beginning you will become too boring to get wet for (especially mentally wet). Women like things to be untold, unfinished and blurred (to a point) which drags them deeper into the world of interest you are creating, like a bee to a pot of strawberry jam.

Do not be cunning, be yourself. That is the most important thing. If she likes you for what you are, she will reveal herself to you (emotionally).

thank's . . . but i'm too afraid to look at her eyes ....

013 02-27-2011 02:15 PM

fell in love part 2
 
i know her name . . .
but what should i do tommorow ?
if i met her in the school . . .

ryuurui 02-27-2011 02:32 PM

Use chlorophorm to knock her out, roll her in a rag and toss in the trunk of your truck. Drive away to the abandoned shed in the forest that you have discovered last summer while learning bee keeping. In there, unroll the rag, tie her and put on a chair with a head bound on her head. The leave before she regains counciousness.

Outside, harm your body with barb wire and injure your face, tear your clothes and smear your pants in mud so it looks like you have put up hell of a fight. Then wait...like an alligator near the river bank...for afeable bovine to apporach...

When she wakes up and starts screaming you rush in, burst through the door, and say:

"I came here to save you, but most importantly to ask your name. "

Then she will reveal her name and faint in your arms.

After this it should be fairly easy. You may start with introducing yourself, but it's optional. Women like mysteries.

Ah...you know her name. Then I don't know... Maybe just ask her for a walk?

termogard 02-27-2011 02:40 PM

awsome
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by ryuurui (Post 853175)
Use chlorophorm to knock her out, roll her in a rag and toss in the trunk of your truck. Drive away to the abandoned shed in the forest that you have discovered last summer while learning bee keeping. In there, unroll the rag, tie her and put on a chair with a head bound on her head. The leave before she regains counciousness.

Outside, harm your body with barb wire and injure your face, tear your clothes and smear your pants in mud so it looks like you have put up hell of a fight. Then wait...like an alligator near the river bank...

When she wakes up and starts screaming you rish in, burst through the door, and say:

"I came here to save you, but most importantly to ask your name. "

Then she will reveal her name and faint in your arms.

After this it should be fairly easy. You may start with introducing yourself, but it's optional. Women like mysteries.

Ah, you know her name. Then I don;t know...

Reading too many romance novels, huh?

ryuurui 02-27-2011 02:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by termogard (Post 853176)
Reading too many romance novels, huh?

i dont read crap like that

StonerPenguin 02-27-2011 02:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ryuurui (Post 853175)
Use chloroform to knock her out, roll her in a rag and toss in the trunk of your truck. Drive away to the abandoned shed in the forest that you have discovered last summer while learning bee keeping. In there, unroll the rag, tie her and put on a chair with a head bound on her head. Then leave before she regains consciousness.

Outside, harm your body with barb wire and injure your face, tear your clothes and smear your pants in mud so it looks like you have put up hell of a fight. Then wait...like an alligator near the river bank...for affable bovine to approach...

When she wakes up and starts screaming you rush in, burst through the door, and say:

"I came here to save you, but most importantly to ask your name. "

Then she will reveal her name and faint in your arms.

After this it should be fairly easy. You may start with introducing yourself, but it's optional. Women like mysteries.

Ah...you know her name. Then I don't know... Maybe just ask her for a walk?

I laughed my ass off XDD I love the detail. You're very creative bro O:

ryuurui 02-27-2011 03:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by StonerPenguin (Post 853178)
I laughed my ass off XDD I love the detail. You're very creative bro O:

cheers mate :)

MissMisa 02-27-2011 03:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by termogard (Post 853176)
Reading too many romance novels, huh?

What kinda romance novels are you reading man? LMFAO.

I lol'ed

tipsygypsy 02-27-2011 03:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 013 (Post 853173)
i know her name . . .
but what should i do tommorow ?
if i met her in the school . . .

well,,,,you know her name, but you don't know much about her right? in that case, talk to her at school cafeteria. look for her having lunch or munch. and ask her jus like "Can I sit next to you/in front of you?" and start some general conversation. It'll be much easier to have laid back talk when eating something. Be nice n' sincere when you talk to a lady. and don't be too nervous or suspicious.

Demitrichan 02-27-2011 06:49 PM

Talk to them be confident.
Don't be afraid to take risks
Be their friend and let it flow naturally :)

BobbyCooper 02-27-2011 07:01 PM

you mean you fell in Love with a beautiful-gorgeous-heart-loving Japanese woman? :)

catbat 02-27-2011 07:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 013 (Post 853173)
i know her name . . .
but what should i do tommorow ?
if i met her in the school . . .

So you have something in common to begin with right? Just start out with small talk and be yourself. Do you have any projects your class is working on? Maybe you could invite her out someplace to discuss the project.

Observe her and see if she looks at you. When you talk to her, and I have faith that you will, see how she reacts. Don't be put off if she doesn't act how you think she will, she may be shy. Us girls can be shy when guys approach us too.

Mostly, listen to her and what she she has to say. If you don't agree with something she says just politely say it's not your thing. Best not to fake it. But if you do have the same likes, great! Then you can compliment her on her hair or whatever.

So just be yourself and I wish you luck!

:rheart:

Aniki 02-27-2011 10:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 013 (Post 853173)
i know her name . . .
but what should i do tommorow ?
if i met her in the school . . .

Here's an educational video that shows you what to do tomorrow.




Always works.

ryuurui 02-27-2011 10:44 PM

ROFL :D this is pretty disturbing vid but it made me laugh haha

termogard 02-28-2011 02:32 AM

crap
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by ryuurui (Post 853177)
i dont read crap like that

Really? Then you should try to write. Seems, you have a talent in this particular genre ;)

ryuurui 02-28-2011 07:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by termogard (Post 853378)
Really? Then you should try to write. Seems, you have a talent in this particular genre ;)

I do write, but not romance novels. You mean talent in writing crap, or was it sencere?

termogard 02-28-2011 08:41 AM

No
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by ryuurui (Post 853396)
I do write, but not romance novels. You mean talent in writing crap, or was it sencere?

I meant talent in writing good stories.

ryuurui 02-28-2011 08:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by termogard (Post 853402)
I meant talent in writing good stories.

Ah, in that case I appreciate it, thanks.

013 02-28-2011 01:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ryuurui (Post 853175)
Use chlorophorm to knock her out, roll her in a rag and toss in the trunk of your truck. Drive away to the abandoned shed in the forest that you have discovered last summer while learning bee keeping. In there, unroll the rag, tie her and put on a chair with a head bound on her head. The leave before she regains counciousness.

Outside, harm your body with barb wire and injure your face, tear your clothes and smear your pants in mud so it looks like you have put up hell of a fight. Then wait...like an alligator near the river bank...for afeable bovine to apporach...

When she wakes up and starts screaming you rush in, burst through the door, and say:

"I came here to save you, but most importantly to ask your name. "

Then she will reveal her name and faint in your arms.

After this it should be fairly easy. You may start with introducing yourself, but it's optional. Women like mysteries.

Ah...you know her name. Then I don't know... Maybe just ask her for a walk?

ask her for a walk ? its too hard for me . . . can u give me conversation to ask her for a walk ?
please. . . . .

013 02-28-2011 01:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tipsygypsy (Post 853191)
well,,,,you know her name, but you don't know much about her right? in that case, talk to her at school cafeteria. look for her having lunch or munch. and ask her jus like "Can I sit next to you/in front of you?" and start some general conversation. It'll be much easier to have laid back talk when eating something. Be nice n' sincere when you talk to a lady. and don't be too nervous or suspicious.

thanks . . . but im too nervous to talk with her . . .

013 02-28-2011 01:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Demitrichan (Post 853246)
Talk to them be confident.
Don't be afraid to take risks
Be their friend and let it flow naturally :)

can u teach me to talk with a girl ??

ryuurui 02-28-2011 01:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 013 (Post 853423)
ask her for a walk ? its too hard for me . . . can u give me conversation to ask her for a walk ?
please. . . . .

Well, I have not done this in a long time myself...but let me try...

"Hi (and say her name), I would like to take you for a short walk and talk to you about something".

Note: Please keep in mind that you need to have something to talk about.

catbat 02-28-2011 04:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 013 (Post 853426)
can u teach me to talk with a girl ??

Theres no formula from a textbook on how to talk to a girl. Each conversation would be different, you kinda have to think on your toes know what I mean. Just say hi and be yourself. If the conversation starts to flow then she prolly likes you.


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