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05-08-2011, 10:21 AM
[quote=YuriTokoro;864830]Hi, James.
Actually, western people always seem to try showing off their strength and power etc to me. HI again Yuri-- How do they show off their power and strength to you. what age group are you talking about? what sort of thing do they do? |
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05-08-2011, 02:51 PM
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Please understand that I don’t mean to criticize your culture, custom or way of thinking. I just want you to know that there are differences between your culture and ours. Did you read the example in the train? It’s true that the American man in the train helped the woman, but he held up his fists smiling. Japanese people wouldn’t do that. I have a lot of examples. For example: My American friends came to Japan. I was guiding them in Tokyo. We have “women-only train cars” in Tokyo. They asked why. It is because there are a lot of molestation cases. They didn’t understand and said that they would beat gropers out. Their faces were so excited. They seemed that they were sure they were able to beat gropers out. They didn’t even try to understand why we have women-only train cars here. Most Japanese women can’t beat gropers out. Their faces seemed to be saying that “WE WOULD BEAT GROPERS OUT! WE LOVE TO BEAT GROPERS OUT! WE CAN BEAT TROPERW OUT! WE ENJOY BEATING GROPERS OUT! WE CAN! WE CAN! WE CAN!! WE CAN!!!!!!” I think they didn’t mean that, but they seemed so to me… If you have questions about my post or Japanese customs, don't hesitate to ask. I YamaP |
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05-08-2011, 03:13 PM
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An Cafe, Vidoll, Versailles, Dir En Grey, Deathgaze, the GazettE, alice nine., UVERworld, Kiryu , YUI, AKB48, Buono!, Berryz Koubou, C-ute, S/mileage, Morning Musume, Zoro, Lolita23Q, Visual Kei, Oshare Kei, J-Rock, J-Pop, Idol groups FTW (≧∀≦) |
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05-08-2011, 03:16 PM
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Any chance to be anything like a gentleman, which in this case means standing against anything which would harm or disturb a damsel in distress. |
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05-08-2011, 03:29 PM
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We cannot do that… You are really brave…… We cannot be so aggressive……… Really!? A likely story!! I can’t believe!!! Quote:
Please understand……….. If you have questions about my post or Japanese customs, don't hesitate to ask. I YamaP |
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05-08-2011, 03:57 PM
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Now all the carriages are open--. I bet those you were with were showing off. I wonder how old they were. Its not something I would have ever said or done. |
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05-08-2011, 04:14 PM
There's nothing wrong with that
Honestly since I've come to Japan I've become a lot more impatient towards the macho act. Here's a question for you Yuri, If you were a being touched by a pervert old man in a train, would you prefer for the foreign man beside you to hit the pervert and yell at him? Or to ignore the situation? A year ago or so that exact situation happened to me, a girl was being rubbed against in a bad way right next to be by a pervert old man and I could see she was so uncomfortable. What do you think I did? What do you think she wanted me, or any other guy noticing it, to do? |
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05-08-2011, 04:16 PM
I will be honest here, I avoid anywhere where there are gangs.
I prefer to avoid trouble rather than to aggravate or risk being attacked. IN this country nowadays some very bad things Do happen that never ever happened before. People carrying knives and knifing others. Especially in the schools. I do not know what has happened to this country. Often youngsters who live on council estates gang up against other gangs. Just like that film west side story. I simply avoid going anywhere near places where I might be at risk. I believe that the way children are brought up is responsible for alot of the trouble. Teachers are not allowed to discipline their pupils-- which is crazy. Also parents must not smack a child no matter whether the child is doing something wrong or dangerous. In mY generation caning at school was the Norm. In Scotland it was the Belt. I am not advocating this now-- but every child needs to be disciplined from an early age, otherwise they are like wild animals. Parenting is important. When I watch Super Nanny-- she works wonders with families where the children are totally out of control. domestic dogs need training so do children. I feel sorry for teachers where the children can make their lives hell. There is something seriously wrong with much of our society. We have many lovely young people-- but its the odd few that can cause chaos and mayhem. |
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05-08-2011, 04:23 PM
It seems like we need to start a separate Japanese culture thread to unclutter this one
Unfortunately for you, she is not here. "Ride for ruin, and the world ended!" |
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