guys ，never buy diamonds for your beloved - Page 5

SephirothVVC · (#41 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by LuckyLuck

I don't see the problem with a guy buying a girl nice things like that. It's really sweet especially if it's a strain in his wallet. I mean a guy who is willing to not buy tickets to that big game or purchase that new car just to get me something to wear around my neck, is usually really sweet. I probably wouldn't take something like that on the first date and it defiantly wouldn't win my heart, but if we'd been dating awhile it'd defiantly give him brownie points.

thats seems like selfish love. you want a guy to spend lots of money he probably doesnt have so you can look at a tiny rock as a representation of 'love'

i think if someone who was offered a diamond really loved their partner, would tell them to return it, so that money can be spent to go on a vacation or something where they will both have a good time with each other

Compaqmac321 · (#42 (**permalink**))

HAHA this thread and the comments are pretty funny

komitsuki · (#43 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by SephirothVVC

i think if someone who was offered a diamond really loved their partner, would tell them to return it, so that money can be spent to go on a vacation or something where they will both have a good time with each other

Exactly what I thought of.

LuckyLuck · (#44 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by SephirothVVC

thats seems like selfish love. you want a guy to spend lots of money he probably doesnt have so you can look at a tiny rock as a representation of 'love'

i think if someone who was offered a diamond really loved their partner, would tell them to return it, so that money can be spent to go on a vacation or something where they will both have a good time with each other

Did I say I wanted it? I said I didn't mind it. I don't expect or demand anything of someone I date, especially expensive items. I just think it's nice.

And don't start on that guilt trip There's nothing wrong with accepting pricey gifts from someone you love. How is that even selfish? Partners buy each other expensive gifts all the time. he gives me a diamond for my birthday I buy him a car for his, that's no different from two highschool lovers buying one another posters and teddy bears, same amount of money could've been spent spending time together at the movies, Lol.

Spending money on each other is part of being in a serious relationship.

SephirothVVC · (#45 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by LuckyLuck

Did I say I wanted it? I said I didn't mind it. I don't expect or demand anything of someone I date, especially expensive items. I just think it's nice.

And don't start on that guilt trip There's nothing wrong with accepting pricey gifts from someone you love. How is that even selfish? Partners buy each other expensive gifts all the time. he gives me a diamond for my birthday I buy him a car for his, that's no different from two highschool lovers buying one another posters and teddy bears, same amount of money could've been spent spending time together at the movies, Lol.

Spending money on each other is part of being in a serious relationship.

did i say i think your shallow? i just dont agree with what you think. just because most couples are like that, doesnt mean they all are.

ozkai · (#46 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by SephirothVVC

thats seems like selfish love. you want a guy to spend lots of money he probably doesnt have so you can look at a tiny rock as a representation of 'love'

i think if someone who was offered a diamond really loved their partner, would tell them to return it, so that money can be spent to go on a vacation or something where they will both have a good time with each other

Going a tad to far I think..

If you love your partner, would you sell your car, watch, etc.

A diamond has a general meaning in a arelationship and that word is love.

For keeps you would think..

Debi · (#47 (**permalink**))

Diamonds are rare
Women love what is rare
So Women love Diamonds

Simple math.

SephirothVVC · (#48 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by ozkai

Going a tad to far I think..

If you love your partner, would you sell your car, watch, etc.

A diamond has a general meaning in a arelationship and that word is love.

For keeps you would think..

you dont know what love is so dont quote me anymore

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Originally Posted by Debi

Diamonds are rare
Women love what is rare
So Women love Diamonds

Simple math.

how is it rare? almost all married couples do it. its extremely common