How do you feel about online dating?

[mercedesjin]

Originally Posted by iPhantom

Relationships without sex are pointless.

Sex isn't necessary for a relationship. In fact, sex often distracts people from actually attempting to get to know and love their partner.

[iPhantom]

Originally Posted by mercedesjin

Sex isn't necessary for a relationship. In fact, sex often distracts people from actually attempting to get to know and love their partner.

What are you talking about? Sex gets you more intimate with your partner?

And you don't have sex without knowing someone. I call that a sex partnership, not a real relationship.

[Trinitykitty1]

Originally Posted by iPhantom

What are you talking about? Sex gets you more intimate with your partner?

And you don't have sex without knowing someone. I call that a sex partnership, not a real relationship.

relations ships all dont need sex...usually you should get to know the person and you can have a wounderful relation WITHOUT having sex

[Salvanas]

Originally Posted by mercedesjin

Sex isn't necessary for a relationship. In fact, sex often distracts people from actually attempting to get to know and love their partner.

And that's why many couples divorce because they have a bad sex life?

[Trinitykitty1]

Originally Posted by Salvanas

And that's why many couples divorce because they have a bad sex life?

sometimes..but other times it actually helps NOT having sex that way they can be more focused on each other
its also why couples go to counseling because of to much sex
SEX ADDICTS!! XD

[iPhantom]

Originally Posted by Trinitykitty1

sometimes..but other times it actually helps NOT having sex that way they can be more focused on each other
its also why couples go to counseling because of to much sex
SEX ADDICTS!! XD

I might as well turn gay if relationships are good without sex.

You see, I don't want to have a relationship just to talk with a girl. If I get attracted by a girl, there is a lot of hormones involved in there... and having no sex is pointless if a lot of my attraction comes for that reason.

Put it this way. If sex didn't exist, it would be a lot harder to get attracted to someone.

Therefore it is necessary, and it just makes you like her more... no harm .

[thcuteness]

Originally Posted by iPhantom

Relationships without sex are pointless.

Sex shouldnt be everything in a relationship, shouldnt relationship be about finding someone who makes you happy with out having to have sex with you, or buy you stuff, and stuff like that. Sex is just a distraction to the main goal. Its a nice bonus but it shouldnt be everything in a relationship.

[Trinitykitty1]

Originally Posted by iPhantom

Put it this way. If sex didn't exist, it would be a lot harder to get attracted to someone.

thats not true just because sex is in someones mind doesnt mean that its a nessesity <---(or whatever) you shouldnt be attracted to someone just because they would be a good fuck in bed

[Salvanas]

Originally Posted by Trinitykitty1

sometimes..but other times it actually helps NOT having sex that way they can be more focused on each other
its also why couples go to counseling because of to much sex
SEX ADDICTS!! XD

They'd do worse if there was no sex.

The way how a relationship works, is by balancing Communication, Sex and Love. If one is out of synch, then the relationship fails.

After marriage and children, it divides into Communication, Sex, Love and the Children/Family.

[iPhantom]

Originally Posted by thcuteness

Sex shouldnt be everything in a relationship, shouldnt relationship be about finding someone who makes you happy with out having to have sex with you, or buy you stuff, and stuff like that. Sex is just a distraction to the main goal. Its a nice bonus but it shouldnt be everything in a relationship.

Originally Posted by Trinitykitty1

thats not true just because sex is in someones mind doesnt mean that its a nessesity <---(or whatever) you shouldnt be attracted to someone just because they would be a good fuck in bed

Here is what I said and above is what you replied.

You see, I don't want to have a relationship just to talk with a girl. If I get attracted by a girl, there is a lot of hormones involved in there... and having no sex is pointless if a lot of my attraction comes for that reason.

Did I say sex is everything? Cmon people, I even said earlier that if you base only on sex, it's not a relationship.

And no, relationship without sex is stupid. Sex is not a distraction. I'm dissapointed that you both think of sex so low. Unless you give sex to the next guy you meet, sex is the ultimate goal of your relationship... where two people have found that they are made of each other.

I guess sex in a relationship is just a joke for you. What a shame.

If you want sex, get some girl to get laid for a night, don't use full time relationships for it.