What the hell...

[spoonybard]

Based on the part about being,"just like your father", this may be an opportunity to change HIM this time around. He may be willing, based on the fact that he wants you to call.

[Columbine]

Originally Posted by Quailboy

Yeah..the thing is, I hate him, yet I still love the guy, it's nuts.

I think I'm going to call him tonight..tell him about everything that's been going on..the fact that he can just give me his number shows that he wants to get back on track with me..

Yeah, that's family for you. You can hate them with very concrete reason to, but damned if you don't keep checking back in. *wry*

You might as well give it a whirl. Just keep a cool head about it.

[Quailboy]

Originally Posted by spoonybard

Based on the part about being,"just like your father", this may be an opportunity to change HIM this time around. He may be willing, based on the fact that he wants you to call.

I already know that he wont change, that's a fact, he's a drunk and always will be. It's been at the same level forever though, no increase in the habit..he's kind of a dick when drunk, that's about it though. Nothing too bad, he can be a fun drunk too...

Columbine: I think I'll call him tonight or tomorrow.

[Miyavifan]

Originally Posted by Quailboy

The thing is..I'm pretty sure nobody has talked to him, let alone about what happened to me.

Burkhardesu, that is really really weird, hopefully it works out fine.



I cracked a smile when I first read it, then remembered that he dosen't/shouldn't know about it..

I'm late asking, but you mean you think the text on the front was cause of your drinking accident that you mention?

If so....
I'm inclined to think it's not related to that at all, and purely coincidental.

[Ryzorian]

Might as well try, you will allways wonder "what if?" if you don't.

[orewasenshi]

Do what you feel is right :3

I mean, you know what happened with me and my brother, but I still have that unconditional love for him, y'know?

Whatever you choose to do, you know I'm always behind you<3

Love youuuu<3333

[Quailboy]

Originally Posted by Ryzorian

Might as well try, you will allways wonder "what if?" if you don't.

This, that's one of my rules, never sit and wonder "What if?"

[TyreaL]

u know u remind of a movie .. ( The Astronaut Farmer ) he was talking about what u r gonna be when u grow up , and you are like " I don't be like my dad" and this stuff and you keep telling yourself that you will be something else , but you end up just like him ..

so it's not your fault if by any chance act like him .. it's in your blood .. that's " inheritance "

^_^

[IamKira]

Originally Posted by Quailboy

I think I'll call him tonight or tomorrow.

good... the way I see it is, regardless of anything else, he is a person.. I put huge negative utility on the thought of not being able to talk to my father ever again (even if he was the biggest a** in the world).. you always have the option to stop talking to him later, but if you give up the opportunity to talk things out now, who knows?

[darksyndrem]

Originally Posted by TyreaL

u know u remind of a movie .. ( The Astronaut Farmer ) he was talking about how u r gonna be when u grow up , and you are like I don't be like my dad , I wanna be something else , but you end up just like him ..

so it's not your fault if u sometime by any chance act like him .. it's in your blood ..

but in the end you will be the that decides the course of your life ..

there is a saying " who looks like his dad isn't guilty "

^_^

.............I seriously have (almost) no idea what you said.