break up make up

[princessmarisa]

I can bet whatever advice is posted here you will ignore it and just do what your emotions tell you to do anyway, because isn't that how we all roll, sometimes it leads to a mess , sometimes a happy ending, sometimes nothing, but it is all memories.

No one over a forum will understand your situation enough to give advice perfect for you, so read it all , then go ahead and ignore it (you know you want to really) and do your own thing. If you do as someone tells you to in "matters of the heart" you will always regret it and end up just blaming the person whos advice you took.

[spicytuna]

I'm afraid I don't have anything to add but I have to say that the first reply by "WhoisDaffy" cracked me up. Brought back some good old memories...

[TalnSG]

Originally Posted by RobinMask

:S They are? Sorry, I thought I worded myself clearly. I was juggling between an essay, this site and several other things at the time; if I was unclear it was probably as I was distracted.

There was nothing unclear in your message to anyone who is reading it without a preconceived notion.

What the crew here with apparently more testosterone than they can manage continue to miss is, as you pointed out, conversations with someone other than a BF or SF is not "cheating" on anyone. In fact, when a significant other prohibits such conversations its one of the first warning flags that both the legal and psychiatric communities see as a sign of potentially abusive relationships.

Of course, if she spends considerably more time with the other person (male or female) than the so-called boyfriend, then there is a cause for complaint from the BF and maybe the other person too, depending on how far the conversations have gone.

[Liongale]

Indecision brings its own delays. And days are lost lamenting over lost days.