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12-20-2009, 10:39 PM
Hi everyone I wish to have some suggestions of an issue I have in my love life this is the first time had this kinda situation. What should I do in such a situation like this : I started to like a girl that I talk to every night yet when the day came for me to confess that I like her I figured out she has a boyfriend. But she says she likes me still although she has boyfriend she likes us both although I am not sure who she likes more they been together for short time I like her a lot and I am sorry to put her through this but I feel like I really need her. She is thinking at the moment of what to do but to tell you guys the truth I don't want to lose her what should I do... ?
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12-20-2009, 10:54 PM
Don't get into confused relationships.
Tell her you will give her time but she will have to decide between him or you. Also if she is the kind of girl who does this sort of thing (goes behind their bf's backs) she is just wasting your time. Remember if she is doing it to another guy, she most probably will do it to you too. Give her time to figure her relationship out and proceed with caution |
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12-21-2009, 12:29 AM
Just be a man dude,
If she is gonna cheat on her bf with you, then its not exactly wifey material is it? but im assuming she is fit. and if you are talking to her every night (which means didely squat if by talking you mean typing things on a keyboard), and your spending that much face time with her. then go for the panties. do not talk about your feelings. thats what girls (and lurve-losers) do. less is always more. skip the emo stuff, get to the physical. let her keep her boyfriend, just be sure your having a go on that for yourself! get her somewhere private, like your house. couple of beers to loosen her and you up. and go for the close. shag her brains out, have fun, (dont forget to remind her in the morning that she has a boyfriend, but that your happy with how things are - using more words) and provided you gave her a good enough time, and dont let her get heavy on the guilt, you should be on for some repeats. the sex with you will be "naughty" so will probably be hotter for her than with her bf, just dont try to play that card to heavily or you could easily talk your way out of pussy remember your going for the true player equation maximum passion + minimum emotion = simple harmless fun ON NO ACCOUNT!! EVER!! tell a woman how you feel, before she is "yours" (infact i wouldnt even overly recomend it once she is! ) thats a true 100% chump move, the reason is simples. NEVER EVER EVER ask for a kiss you dont ask for a kiss, you just take it. if you get all emo before the kiss, then your asking for a kiss. tragic loser move. you should be confident enough in 1. yourself 2. your reading of the situation not to need to ask. (ask me about traffic lights if you dont have the confidence here) and before anyone gets all moral bs. consider this. in 25yrs, you will be married, kids, same old job. at some point your gonna remember this girl. and you will think 1 of 2 things 1. oh yea, she was hot, i was in my prime and i tottaly tapped that, oh how it was to be young. or 2. hmmm perhaps i could have, i wonder if........ be the dude, get the girl. keep the memory simples |
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Thanks -
12-21-2009, 01:45 AM
I like everyones response's I am not a wuss, I will make my move but, I will take it slow just as before when I did not confess I left hints that I was interested. Thank you everyone I am gonna make sure this match gets made.
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12-21-2009, 12:27 PM
Daffy? The guy who totally objectifed women and told him to just use the girl for sex and manipulate her? Oh yeah, I can totally see why you'd agree. . . Personally I'd recomend the original poster to ignore Daffy, treat the girl with respect and give her some space, the other posters made very good points, but not Daffy at all :P
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