Marriage

[Ito]

Im getting married in 1 month or two.
How i meet my boyfriend:
I usued a website named badoo.com just for chat and then i found my bf in the site, i didnt do nothing just looked his profile. He could se that i looked on his website so he started chatting with me.

Then after been on tunisia trip i went down to Antwerp in Belgium to meet him.
He propoced to me wen we where at the lake, it was really a beautiful place. And we spent many dayes walking diffrent places in town and see nice things.
Then later we went together back to Sweden. Hes a student in bleklinge högskola in southern Sweden. i desided to move from my town where i lived all my life just for him.

Today im leaving to his town in Sweden. And we got apartment together.

We love each other alot so we desided to get married. private Wedding first then with family. Seens we cant afford big wedding yet seens we bouth are studing we desided to do smal private wedding. Oh we cant afford even golden rings yet so we desided to buy silver rings and put name on it.

anyone els wanna tell me about there love story?

[MMM]

You are students and can't even afford rings? Are you sure you are ready financially to be getting married?

[Ito]

Originally Posted by MMM

You are students and can't even afford rings? Are you sure you are ready financially to be getting married?

In Sweden wedding doesnt cost any money. its up to u if u wanna spend alot to make big wedding or not. most money goes now to have dubbel rents becouse of law of it takes 3 months to get rid the apartment u rent.

[MMM]

Originally Posted by Ito

In Sweden wedding doesnt cost any money. its up to u if u wanna spend alot to make big wedding or not. most money goes now to have dubbel rents becouse of law of it takes 3 months to get rid the apartment u rent.

I wasn't really thinking about the wedding, but starting a life together without financial security. I don't know about Sweden and how things are there, but in the US that can a tough place to start. People here are waiting longer and longer to get married...waiting until they are financially secure, because if they don't the rate of divorce goes way up.

I know this sounds very negative, and I don't want to put a dark cloud over your exciting news... it's a forum and I thought I would ask.

[Ito]

Originally Posted by MMM

I wasn't really thinking about the wedding, but starting a life together without financial security. I don't know about Sweden and how things are there, but in the US that can a tough place to start. People here are waiting longer and longer to get married...waiting until they are financially secure, because if they don't the rate of divorce goes way up.

I know this sounds very negative, and I don't want to put a dark cloud over your exciting news... it's a forum and I thought I would ask.

Yeah i know what u mean. but i get money from elswhere (govermental) and i dont count as student so i can get normal apartments and stuff like that. My boyfriend is gonna start working a bit to. so we have things thought and discussed. =) if u split rents and stuff like that things doesnt go so expensive.

[MMM]

Originally Posted by Ito

Yeah i know what u mean. but i get money from elswhere (govermental) and i dont count as student so i can get normal apartments and stuff like that. My boyfriend is gonna start working a bit to. so we have things thought and discussed. =) if u split rents and stuff like that things doesnt go so expensive.

Sounds like Sweden is pretty supportive of new families.

[Ito]

Originally Posted by MMM

Sounds like Sweden is pretty supportive of new families.

Im going soon on 4.5h trip to Karlskrona and i need to change 3 times (2 trains, 1 buss) to get there. I havent sleep at all this night so i need to be awake hehe. Cheers Ito

[dogsbody70]

I wish you well in your new life and hope it turns out okay for you.

Probably tough times ahead-- but lets hope you will both surmount the difficulties and be happy together. marriage is always a gamble--but Good LUck to you. Be happy.

[Ito]

Originally Posted by dogsbody70

I wish you well in your new life and hope it turns out okay for you.

Probably tough times ahead-- but lets hope you will both surmount the difficulties and be happy together. marriage is always a gamble--but Good LUck to you. Be happy.

thank u alot.

[xYinniex]

Uhm I agree with MMM, Financial security is high on my list if I were to be married. I'd want me and my boyfriend (Hypothetically) to have a stable income, to have lived together for year and earned enough for a house deposit before i consider getting married.

Have you thought this through, How long have you known this guy? How do you know whether he's just trying to get a visa, if he's not originally from your country.