How do you deal with heartbreaks?

[Sitron]

Originally Posted by MMM

You sound incredibly desperate. Look how long it took you to scare this girl off. No one talks about moving to live with a stranger after a matter of a few days. Calm down. Take your time. Don't rush anything.

What should I talk to her, or any other girl about then? It's just that I liked her a lot and I have never had a relationship before, so I started dreaming about us...

[evanny]

you are still dreaming because it wasn't a fucking relationship.


btw...so, mods. are we going to read every day Stiron's "my life sucks, i suck" diary? which is made up probably...?
it's cool that people give advice (specially to kill himself) but it's annoying since it is never heard or even needed if he is a troll. sad to see people's efforts go to waste...

[RickOShay]

Originally Posted by Sitron

What should I talk to her, or any other girl about then? It's just that I liked her a lot and I have never had a relationship before, so I started dreaming about us...

dude just ask her about what she likes.. or if you want sound smart, talk to her about the crisis happening in Egypt right now. and what she thinks should happen.. just avoid.. stuff like.. "would you like to touch my penis" and "I am a sex machine". okay?

[protheus]

Originally Posted by RickOShay

just avoid.. stuff like.. "would you like to touch my penis" and "I am a sex machine". okay?

I highly recommend to listen to this advice, unless you meet her at a porn or sex addicted convention, but even there I don't know for sure it will get you more than a smack ...

[Sitron]

We turned friends again, and she let me back to her facebook. But the thing is I see several pictures on her facebook with comments from guys saying she's so pretty. And on one of the pictures from november a guy tells her he loves her, and she comments I love you back.

Should I be suspicious? Because she told me she had had no boyfriends before, and that she is not used to get called pretty by guys. That I am the only one she hears it from.

I think she may be a gold digger looking for a visa to europe.

[RobinMask]

Originally Posted by Sitron

We turned friends again, and she let me back to her facebook. But the thing is I see several pictures on her facebook with comments from guys saying she's so pretty. And on one of the pictures from november a guy tells her he loves her, and she comments I love you back.

Should I be suspicious? Because she told me she had had no boyfriends before, and that she is not used to get called pretty by guys. That I am the only one she hears it from.

I think she may be a gold digger looking for a visa to europe.

She's pretty, she has a lot of friends, it's normal for people to comment on how attractive she is. It's also normal for friends (mainly girls) to say 'I love you' to one another, most I know would say it to their friends, or even say it jokingly back to a guy if he said it to them in that kind of context . . .

With all due respect, if you're not a troll you sound like you have zero self-esteem, paranoia, a hatred of women, and a very superficial personality. If you can't trust this girl then I would say don't try to start a relationship with her, and especially not after one week, it's not just "desperate" as someone else said, but obssessive and rather creepy. Please, get therapy and/or get out into the real world. Meet people in real life. You need to get out more. . .

[xkmkmlmx]

Awww don't kill yourself! Your posts are far too entertaining :0

[Sitron]

Originally Posted by RobinMask

She's pretty, she has a lot of friends, it's normal for people to comment on how attractive she is. It's also normal for friends (mainly girls) to say 'I love you' to one another, most I know would say it to their friends, or even say it jokingly back to a guy if he said it to them in that kind of context . . .

With all due respect, if you're not a troll you sound like you have zero self-esteem, paranoia, a hatred of women, and a very superficial personality. If you can't trust this girl then I would say don't try to start a relationship with her, and especially not after one week, it's not just "desperate" as someone else said, but obssessive and rather creepy. Please, get therapy and/or get out into the real world. Meet people in real life. You need to get out more. . .

You don't understand - she told me she had never had a boyfriend before, yet she says "I love you to a guy" after he tells her I love you, even though this was back in november.

She tells me, nobody ever calls her pretty, yet her pictures are full of comments BY GUYS about how pretty she looks. She's also from a poorer country.

[RobinMask]

Originally Posted by Sitron

You don't understand - she told me she had never had a boyfriend before, yet she says "I love you to a guy" after he tells her I love you, even though this was back in november.

She tells me, nobody ever calls her pretty, yet her pictures are full of comments BY GUYS about how pretty she looks. She's also from a poorer country.

Facebook is the internet . . . people comment, they say things, they may or may not mean the things they say. If people told me I was pretty/ugly/gorgeous/hideous on Facebook I wouldn't pay much attention, or at least not the same way I would in real life, because real life is what matters. On the internet it's a bunch of strangers talking through a keybaord - maybe she doesn't count that as a real compliment, maybe in real life no one has ever told her she's pretty?

I occasionally get complimented online, never in real life. Should I go around declaring my awesome sexiness? No. Because the internet is not real life, it doesn't count as squat.

As for the "boyfriend"? How do you know he isn't a brother, friend, colleague or even a random stranger that she's just joking back with, like 'haha, sure, I love you too'? Seriously - you seem very paranoid and quick to judge. In a relationship you need trust, and if you can't trust this girl then why do you even want to talk to her or be with her?

[Sitron]

Originally Posted by RobinMask

In a relationship you need trust, and if you can't trust this girl then why do you even want to talk to her or be with her?

Because she's the only girl that talks to me romantically.

And now she said goodbye I have to log off, or she did that 3 minutes ago and she still hasn't.

(At 23.53 Pm she said goodbye, 5 minutes later she's still logged on facebook).