Lolita Complex

[Demitrichan]

Is a lolita complex socially acceptable if controlled by the individual?

[MMM]

Originally Posted by Demitrichan

Is a lolita complex socially acceptable if controlled by the individual?

In no way whatsoever.

[Demitrichan]

But why is that if one can control it, it shouldn't matter

[MMM]

Originally Posted by Demitrichan

But why is that if one can control it, it shouldn't matter

Someone who is sexually attracted to children will not be accepted under any circumstances by society.

[Demitrichan]

Not true, someone could easily be forgiven for their faults by their community. Though it is rare stranger things have happened. Not only that but as I said controlled by the individual. They could restrict themselves to lolicon in which case they wouldn't be hurting anyone. Many have testified that it helped them control their urges. I purpose that they can be but its very rare.

[MMM]

Originally Posted by Demitrichan

Not true, someone could easily be forgiven for their faults by their community. Though it is rare stranger things have happened.

For simplicity's sake, let's talk Western Society. Western Society does not accept or forgive people who are sexually attracted to children. Society has gotten more conservative, not less over the years.

Someone who has sex with children is not forgiven by society.

Originally Posted by Demitrichan

Not only that but as I said controlled by the individual. They could restrict themselves to lolicon in which case they wouldn't be hurting anyone.

I didn't say they couldn't hide it, I just said they would not be accepted by society.

Originally Posted by Demitrichan

Many have testified that it helped them control their urges.

Who have testified to that? Can you give sources.

Originally Posted by Demitrichan

I purpose that they can be but its very rare.

Name a situation where someone who is openly sexually attracted to children has been accepted by modern society.

[Ryzorian]

In the US a Child molsester doesn't last long in federal prison. Even hardened criminals, who would sell thier own mother, hate them.

[ryuhebi13]

Originally Posted by Ryzorian

In the US a Child molsester doesn't last long in federal prison. Even hardened criminals, who would sell thier own mother, hate them.

Too true. Their is a line that even the most hardened criminal will not cross.

As MMM says also, they would not be accepted by society. Simple as.

I also don't see how a community would forgive someone interested in children. As lolicon is linked with that social taboo many would also take a dim view.

[Ghap]

How strange!

lolita=children...somone should mention that maybe...yes Ive seen the films even Leon.

point is in a forum like this its a style!


I may not understand it personally (I always think Chitty Chitty bang bang)

dosent mean you can blanket statment like that.....or alt post your own prefrences for consideration.

[TalnSG]

Originally Posted by Ghap

How strange!

lolita=children...somone should mention that maybe...yes Ive seen the films even Leon.

point is in a forum like this its a style!

Ghap, there is the "Lolita style" which is quite acceptable in some circles, but even that is look at with some disapproval by older people who know the term "Lolita Syndrome/Complex". They are not the same thing, though both took the name "Lolita" from the same rather scandalous literary work.

The only community I can cite that would tolerate someone they knew to have a Lolita Complex is the Leather-S/M-Fetish community. And even they will tolerate it only as FANTASY, not reality. It is only role playing by adults and costuming - just like the Lolita fashion statements. Once that boundary between fantasy and reality (and informed consent) is crossed, even that community will not tolerate it.

No civilized society accepts sexual use of children.