JF - Classy no more

[godwine]

Originally Posted by kenmei

a few things.. i didn't really read the replies, so forgive me if this is a rehash of others ideas.


godwine, i respect you a lot and agree with you on the majority of this topic. it irks me just as much as you to see these people who narrow their choices down and become completely obsessed. however, singling out "white boys" is stupid. there are chinese, twese, koreans, etc with this same problem. it always pissed me off in school when guys like you came saying things like this. yes, it is more prevalent with "white boys", but no, it's not ONLY them. it irks me even more, because of the whole "holier than thou" attitude towards the subject. making it seemingly only "acceptable" for an asian to have "japanese fever" but not a caucasian (they both equally suck).

you're singling out a race and it makes YOU look dumb. it makes you look like a racist. i've come across a number of asians that hate on me because they think i'm one of those "yellow fever white boys", so this topic hits home hard and really pisses me off (i'm married to a japanese). get your head out of your ass, anyone can have "j-girl fever" and it doesn't make it more acceptable because you physically look more like a japanese than a caucasian.

the rest of our arguement i will agree with. people with obsessions need help.

Agree, especially if you didn't read through the rest of my replies and post. I refer to the ones I respect as "Caucasian"... I used that word in numerous post... I refer to people by their ethnicity when I have respect for them. The "White Boys" reference are specific to the one that fit that description who think that they can walk in to japan and have sex 24/7 with different Japanese girls because they are Caucasian

I have a lot of respect for several users on this forum, I wasn't indicating that any Caucasian who married or date Japanese automatically fit that category. You know you are not one of them, so to me you are "Caucasian"

I know it came out racist, but I don't think I am, especially when I have more Caucasian friends than Asian friends myself...

As far as reality is concern, I already said in some of my replies that I am not interestd in changing anyone, nor was I hiding from reality. Its just my ranting post..

[OHayou]

Well the title of this thread is pretty true "JF - Classy no more" lol

People from outside of America stereotype American girls as "whores" where are the posts defending the poor American girls?

Why wasn't this post started by a Japanese WOMAN?

or even a Japanese man?

Rather, we have a bunch of whites and chinese people venting on a subject Japanese people probably wouldn't have even brought up in the first place since it would have disrupted the wa!

Japanese people MIGHT say "Hi everyone. I want to say thank you to you who have come to our country but please be nice and sincere to our girls. They are very porite"

In the end, :group hug: we're all gaijin...lets stick together and help the more socially awkward gaijin and lecherous gaijin (like myself) through the difficult times they are in.

Negative reinforcement rarely works...whens the last time someone said "damn your stupid" and you said "hey! you're right...thanks a lot!" lol

[pumpum]

Originally Posted by godwine

Our people are NOT some kind of free meat, please have more respect for our people, and stop viewing our women as some kind of sexual objects

I view ALL women as sexual objects, not just asian girls! every nationality creed snd race - the more the merrier !!!!!!!!

[godwine]

Originally Posted by OHayou

Well the title of this thread is pretty true "JF - Classy no more" lol

People from outside of America stereotype American girls as "whores" where are the posts defending the poor American girls?

Why wasn't this post started by a Japanese WOMAN?

or even a Japanese man?

Rather, we have a bunch of whites and chinese people venting on a subject Japanese people probably wouldn't have even brought up in the first place since it would have disrupted the wa!

Japanese people MIGHT say "Hi everyone. I want to say thank you to you who have come to our country but please be nice and sincere to our girls. They are very porite"

In the end, :group hug: we're all gaijin...lets stick together and help the more socially awkward gaijin and lecherous gaijin (like myself) through the difficult times they are in.

Negative reinforcement rarely works...whens the last time someone said "damn your stupid" and you said "hey! you're right...thanks a lot!" lol

1. I already said in one of my replies that I would felt equally as pissed if a Chinese guy come up to me and say "American girls are all slut, so I am going to America to get laid". But I cannot represent "American"

2. As per above, I can only represent Orientals, note I said Oriental becaues I cannot represent Asia as a whole. This is solely base on my orient appearance

3. I lived in Japan when I was a kid, ethnically, I am Chinese, but culturally, I am a blend of both.

4. While nobody elected me as the spokeperson for the Japanese, I already indicated that I don't care because I am only voicing out something that bothers me. And base on my conversation with my JAPANESE UNCLE, AUNT, COUSIN, COUSIN'S WIFE, COUSIN'S FRIEND, they welcome tourist, they welcome people that end up staying there because they got a job, they also welcome people who stay there because they married Japanese. They DO NOT welcome people that walk in to their country to get laid. Why they didn't voice it out is beyond me, but I am thinking its either they don't know enough English to voice something like this out, or the foreigners don't understand enough Japanese to understand them on the topic.

5. For the last time, I am only expressing my anger over people's mentality. I am not trying to change anything, its not something I or anyone can change. This is reality, there will always be jerks...

[OHayou]

Originally Posted by MissMisa

Because that wasn't the topic? If it was, I would defend them too.

Just because you are white, doesn't mean you can't have an opinion on these matters. (Also, I've removed your racist language, it is not acceptable here.)

Hm..what WAS my point with the american girls are 'whores' thing..lol let me think here... Oh yeah. There are men who come to America to specifically get laid, just like men who go to Panama City just to get laid, and men who go to Costa Rica just to get laid. Where are the burning incense for all of these countries or are we just making Japan seem special in this instance because our hearts are near and dear to Japan.

This happens in every country so i'm not sure why we're getting our panties in a bunch.

[OHayou]

Originally Posted by godwine

1. I already said in one of my replies that I would felt equally as pissed if a Chinese guy come up to me and say "American girls are all slut, so I am going to America to get laid". But I cannot represent "American"

2. As per above, I can only represent Orientals, note I said Oriental becaues I cannot represent Asia as a whole. This is solely base on my orient appearance

3. I lived in Japan when I was a kid, ethnically, I am Chinese, but culturally, I am a blend of both.

4. While nobody elected me as the spokeperson for the Japanese, I already indicated that I don't care because I am only voicing out something that bothers me. And base on my conversation with my JAPANESE UNCLE, AUNT, COUSIN, COUSIN'S WIFE, COUSIN'S FRIEND, they welcome tourist, they welcome people that end up staying there because they got a job, they also welcome people who stay there because they married Japanese. They DO NOT welcome people that walk in to their country to get laid. Why they didn't voice it out is beyond me, but I am thinking its either they don't know enough English to voice something like this out, or the foreigners don't understand enough Japanese to understand them on the topic.

5. For the last time, I am only expressing my anger over people's mentality. I am not trying to change anything, its not something I or anyone can change. This is reality, there will always be jerks...

lol yeah there are going to be jerks in every culture. Sometimes people can go from being a jerk to a good person too so it's not like it is definitly a permanent phase.

Every culture has had their share of heart break but also caused their share of pain. Japan is no different. Sometimes I feel that people get rose-tinted glasses with Japan like Japanese people themselves don't go out just to get laid. Really guys and gals?

Also, I would like to see Japanese girls thoughts on guys who come to their country to try to get lucky. I mean it takes 2 to tango so SOMEONE has to be playing along with these crazy foreigners.

We're all different and we should value the difference. There are jerks but sometimes the greatest people I've met are people who WERE jerks and had a change of heart.

Is there a point? --> God is great .. beer is good ... and people are crazy lol

[godwine]

Originally Posted by OHayou

Hm..what WAS my point with the american girls are 'whores' thing..lol let me think here... Oh yeah. There are men who come to America to specifically get laid, just like men who go to Panama City just to get laid, and men who go to Costa Rica just to get laid. Where are the burning incense for all of these countries or are we just making Japan seem special in this instance because our hearts are near and dear to Japan.

This happens in every country so i'm not sure why we're getting our panties in a bunch.

Becaue this is JF, and the focus is on Japan and its people??

[godwine]

Originally Posted by OHayou

Also, I would like to see Japanese girls thoughts on guys who come to their country to try to get lucky. I mean it takes 2 to tango so SOMEONE has to be playing along with these crazy foreigners.

Agree to "Takes 2 to tango", but as Nyorin pointed out, the girls that prefer a foreigner "treatment" only contribute to a very small percentage of Japanese Women, so this small group end up being passed around the circle, as a results, the foreigners that have firs hand experience with these girls go home expressing the idea that "japanese girls are easy"

[StonerPenguin]

Originally Posted by OHayou

Hm..what WAS my point with the American girls are 'whores' thing..lol let me think here... Oh yeah. There are men who come to America to specifically get laid, just like men who go to Panama City just to get laid, and men who go to Costa Rica just to get laid. Where are the burning incense for all of these countries or are we just making Japan seem special in this instance because our hearts are near and dear to Japan.

This happens in every country so I'm not sure why we're getting our panties in a bunch.

Just because other people do it doesn't make it right. Seriously, let's apply that logic elsewhere... "I don't know why you're so upset, lots of girls get drugged and raped at bars." That's bullshit. If you're going to a country specifically to have sex with the women there, you're a douche-bag milkshake. Other guys who do the same thing are also douchebag milkshakes.
'Nuff said.

[RickOShay]

Originally Posted by godwine

1. I already said in one of my replies that I would felt equally as pissed if a Chinese guy come up to me and say "American girls are all slut, so I am going to America to get laid". But I cannot represent "American"



4. While nobody elected me as the spokeperson for the Japanese, I already indicated that I don't care because I am only voicing out something that bothers me. And base on my conversation with my JAPANESE UNCLE, AUNT, COUSIN, COUSIN'S WIFE, COUSIN'S FRIEND, they welcome tourist, they welcome people that end up staying there because they got a job, they also welcome people who stay there because they married Japanese. They DO NOT welcome people that walk in to their country to get laid. Why they didn't voice it out is beyond me, but I am thinking its either they don't know enough English to voice something like this out, or the foreigners don't understand enough Japanese to understand them on the topic.

5. For the last time, I am only expressing my anger over people's mentality. I am not trying to change anything, its not something I or anyone can change. This is reality, there will always be jerks...

Dude, how many people enter the country with the soul purpose of getting laid? I have lived over here 7 years and met lots of white/black foreigners, and none of them were some sort of animal looking to bang a different J-girl every night. Did they want to maybe get a girlfriend or be have some sort of sex life, of course, what what guy doesn't? Is it then their fault that 99% of the potential girls out there for them to date just happen to be Japanese?? I mean being in Japan and all.. who would think??

Anyway my point here is the vast majority of people who come to Japan to live for any amount of time do NOT think this way. If anyone does think this way they are probably tourists, and the fact is when people go on vacation, fun crazy adventures tend to be on the mind.

Additionally, and no offense, but Japan, as well as many Asian countries are not exactly shy about the sexual service places they offer. I think the idea of being able to get a cheap blow job, and not go to jail for it could be another thing that brings "that" kind of person to Asia. The fact is to a lot of Westerners, Asia is still pretty exotic, and with the rep some places have for services, and more open sexuality.. is it any wonder there is a crowd of white guys out there that see Asian girls as a fun fantasy lay?

But the bottom line is they are young horny idiots, and if this really at the heart of what is bothering you about white guys being with J-girls, then just ignore them cuz the white guys out there just trying to use Japanese girls for sex in Japan are not the majority.