Are you wapanese?

[DesiredMess]

You can care about your looks all you want. I don't think anyone should bother you. People can just be ignorant and attack other for what they don't see fit.

So you can care about your looks all you want. It's your life, you like what you like.

[MMM]

Originally Posted by JapanMan2

So than why do people on here look down upon me for caring more about looks

Because focusing on looks over the person inside is often regarded as shallow.

[SSJup81]

Originally Posted by JapanMan2

Well than couldn't I regard people caring about just personality as shallow. Since we are just making up rules

As a female, I wouldn't want to date a guy who was interested in just my looks. To me, that gives off the impression that the guy is interested in just one thing. To me, you're coming across as that since, apparently, the other features of the girl wouldn't matter, just as long as she looks good to you.

[SSJup81]

Originally Posted by JapanMan2

I understand that, but that is not what I am about. I want just a beautiful wife who makes me happy when I come home from work. I want to make her as happy as I can

But you're basing it on looks. What if she's pretty, but turns out to have a rotten personality which is not compatible with your own? When choosing to be with someone, it shouldn't be based on just one factor of the person...it should be a combination, and saying "looks" is pretty much the immature way of going about it.

[manganimefan227]

No I like the Japanese culture, but I don't humiliate myself by being clueless in what I say that has to do with Japanese.

For Example, I don't say kawaii every second.

[stfuKAT]

That's ridiculous.

[MMM]

Originally Posted by JapanMan2

Well than couldn't I regard people caring about just personality as shallow. Since we are just making up rules

You asked, I answered.

Most people regard the person inside more valuable than how a person appears on the outside. You know the phrase "Beauty is skin deep." That is want that means.

People that care about the person inside more than how they look are usually considered thoughful, caring and insightful...the opposite of shallow. You are aren't going to get too far with that argument, I believe.

[JpopGirl]

I can`t choice anything on your poll. You Don`t have None of the above.or Japanese

I am part Japanese (mother) And part American part English and part German (Father) My mother was Born and raised in Japan My fathers Parents came from Germany And I was born in the USA with my older sister and 2 brothers.So what does that make me?

[MissMisa]

Originally Posted by JapanMan2

She would not have a rotten personality because she would be happy to see me when I came home, and be a nice mother to my children. I just love beautiful women, that is what I am attracted to and someone who is nice. Is that so shallow

Yes, that is shallow.

[Hatredcopter]

Originally Posted by Tenchu

serious case of dementure...

Heh... dementia, perhaps?