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02-03-2010, 08:58 AM
I`ll add a few comments on some of these - hope you don`t mind, MMM.
Everyone in Japan has studied English, right? I would compare the level of actual English comprehension to that of say, Spanish in the US. (With those who do not come from a Spanish speaking family/background) There is plenty of casual exposure to English, and students do have to take it in school. But like the majority of required language studies, everyone forgets it the minute they`ve passed the test and gotten the credit. Am I going to be stared at? / Am I going to be treated like a rock star? I think people should also be careful not to interpret this the other way. If you get a look - it`s far more likely to be because you DID something strange rather than "racism". If people approach you to help in English, don`t interpret it as "They`re discriminating by assuming I can`t speak Japanese!!" - this is especially true if you really can`t speak Japanese. A trip to Japan isn't complete without a visit to Tokyo. I personally hate Tokyo. It`s a big dirty busy city with all the stress and crowding anyone could possibly want. There are other cities in Japan where you don`t end up tired out from crowded train trips and being pushed along in a sea of people. Other cities where most of the same stuff is available as in Tokyo, and tourist sites that aren`t so full you can barely enjoy them. |
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02-03-2010, 10:25 AM
Thanks for the additional comments, Nyororin.
As the years go by I am finding that my understanding of Japanese is assumed. Rarely do people approach me in English, like they did a decade or two ago. I agree, if people are looking at you, it is probably because of something you did. Tokyo is not my favorite city in Japan, but I think it does have certain charms in certain places. |
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02-03-2010, 06:49 PM
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I wanted to touch on Am i going to be stared at because it seems to come up quite frequently. With my own experience especially my first time in Japan. First let me state Im a 6'1 Black American w/ pretty light skin and Im not one of those people that gets really strange or uncomfortable when people stare at me. However i did get quite a bit of stares of on my first trip and given it was first time in Japan i noticed it a lot. It did not bother me since i had ask this very same question before i went and expected it. I knew that there was no malice behind it but lets face it I was as foreign as can be. I knew the reason why i was being stared at i just kept on my way and made sure not to do anything out of the ordinary or strange (As Nyororin stated). I did have several people talk to me and i did my best with my broken Japanese lol and they were just mainly curious. The friends i did make were curious about Black American culture mainly the things they got from the media or saw on Tv or music i answered their questions to the best of my ability and i asked them questions as well. I learned so much on my first trip to Japan that its still one of the pinnacles of my life and i had a blast. All because i didnt let things like this bother me. Now that was 13 years ago and since my return trips to Japan have been wonderful experiences did i get stared at the other times sure but as time went on i noticed it less and less and as more foreigners become permanent residents in Japan over time it will lessen even more. Unless you go out to the real rural areas. I guess all I can say is even if you get stared at dont let it bother you just keep going about your business. Iv had several friends say that it ruined the experience for them because they felt nervous like they were doing something wrong. If you were not doing anything wrong then it shouldn't be a big deal. You should be more focused on finding your way around then someone staring at you. Kids in any country are going to stare you that's what kids do don't let it bother you. If you cant handle getting a couple of stares then i would suggest not going because thats all you will focus on and it will ruin your trip. |
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02-03-2010, 08:02 PM
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Please contact me if I can help you with advice or information. Japan 2008: Memoires of a Gaijin A.K.A. A Journey Through the Land of the Rising Sun |
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02-03-2010, 10:23 PM
Great and useful points, MMM.
Of course the last bit is directed straight to me, but I think it all depends on the individual. Not everyone is exactly like you, and has the same mentality as you. I'll admit, 90 days is quite a long stay for a first real trip to a foreign country. But it's over a year and a half away, that's where there is no definite schedule yet. I have free accommodation, and that's why I "want to use every minute of it." Agreed with MMM, if you have a tight time schedule, (I.e: Job) you should definitely spend your time in a foreign country as frugal as possible, and seeing everything you can in regards to your time and or financial limitations. But as for me, I have no time schedule, therefore my circumstances are different. Not to mention I have loved ones that I will be visiting, and want to spend as much time with as possible. Just thought I'd clear that up. 猿も木から落ちる
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02-04-2010, 01:32 AM
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My concern is people think Japanese trains are really expensive, when in reality they really aren't. People that plan on spending a week in Tokyo and a few days in Kyoto and Osaka (for example) will be paying too much if they go for a rail pass. Within Tokyo itself it is hard to spend more than $10 a day, as most trips in the city are under $2 dollars, if planned properly. Quote:
And Alan, I know not everyone thinks exactly like me, nor should they. But I know people who have said exactly what you did, and then have come back saying "I ran out of things to do in a month. I was just watching the calander waiting to go home." Hell, I know people who had full time jobs and lots of friends who essentially snapped after a certain period of time (about 6 months). The two I am thinking of off the tip of my head were sent home by their employers. People think they know themselves, but you really learn a lot about yourself when you place yourself in a very foreign situation. |
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02-04-2010, 01:40 AM
MMM, my situation isn't "HURP DURP I'ma go to Japan and dick around in the same town for 90 days whoop!!!"
The point of my trip isn't entirely to sight see. If it was, then of course I would be a complete idiot for staying in the same spot the entire time. The main point of my trip will be to visit loved ones, and maybe some small sight seeing in my free time here and there. I do not have family/friend in Kyoto. It was merely an idea to stay in Kyoto. I think what you're trying to say is if you're going to Japan as a sight seeing vacation, then you should make the most of it. I completely agree. Quote:
You can use me as an example if you want, MMM, but so long as you know the points you are trying to make don't actually apply to my situation as you might think they do. 猿も木から落ちる
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02-04-2010, 01:44 AM
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60 days on your own all alone in a foreign country is a risky mental venture. It may be a zen experience for you, and I hope it is. I am just saying I would not advise it. |
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