i love lolita's and

LolitaLover · (#1 (**permalink**))

i don't cosplay at all but i wouldn't mind it really i don't care but im also Australian so i don't see many lolita style and when i do its for a brief second and there gone lol but with Jrock and visual kei and how they dress like girls, it does not mean there gay right? do some people dress like that but there strait? and some people who dress lolita style still date normal guys right?

Dark17 · (#2 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by LolitaLover

i don't cosplay at all but i wouldn't mind it really i don't care but im also Australian so i don't see many lolita style and when i do its for a brief second and there gone lol but with Jrock and visual kei and how they dress like girls, it does not mean there gay right? do some people dress like that but there strait? and some people who dress lolita style still date normal guys right?

no it doesn't mean that their gay and yes people that dress lolita are straight(mostly or the ones I know). oh and people that dress lolita do date normal guys or girls

or so that's how i see it

LolitaLover · (#3 (**permalink**))

cool i thought so also, i would not mind dressing up like the visual kei bands do but i don't think i could pull it off as well haha, i just can't believe how cute all the lolita styles are they allays leave me with my jaw dropped

Juno · (#4 (**permalink**))

Same for me! I live in a state that NO ONE would even be allowed to be lolita so when i see it im left breathless. I have cosplayed before but i have yet to do lolita and i think it should be next on my list lol.

LolitaLover · (#5 (**permalink**))

Lucky ur a girl i wish i was born a girl lol (i dont like men or any thing i just think they get away with so much more and dont have to be "Manly")! i wanna dress like visual kei but id get beaten up and ice cream thrown at me lol i dont think i could do it

Juno · (#6 (**permalink**))

I guess it depends on where you live. I actually wish i was born a boy [but im straight lol] because people are much more leniant when it comes to guy and fashion where i live. a guy can get away with anything here but a girl gets called a stupid goth chick or a slut, and anything anime is considered lame. I would actually like to do alot of guy fashion but i guess i would be called a lesbian for life haha. Why does this have to be so complicated??

LolitaLover · (#7 (**permalink**))

your telling me im strait but i wanna dress visual and id get called fag and beaten up so bad like ive said, not only that id lose all my friends just because i wanna be diffrent bahand guys fashion easyer?lol at that here i wore some skinnies and a hoodie (not emo but kinda like it ) and got the ice cream thrown at me

Juno · (#8 (**permalink**))

I think maybe people are scared of "different" because they think there is a certain way to look and when someone disturbs that they freak out because they dont want change. Or maybe they are just jealous because you have the capacity to be creative and show it and they dont.

AnimeSamurai22 · (#9 (**permalink**))

I absolutely agree with Juno. I love lolitas, and people can't help what they like and are like. Do what you wanna do, and don't let anyone put you down for it! And if you get ice cream thrown at you......Hey! Free ice cream!!! Lol.

Konata · (#10 (**permalink**))

To bump into your conversation... I'm getting the feeling you're mixing up lolita and cosplay. Since, well, lolita is not cosplay. Cosplay is done of a specific character in a series/game/whatever, but lolita is not that, except if you're talking about Nabokov's novel. Also, if you want to dress in lolita... It is expensive. Last week alone I spent 400 dollars on clothes. I only bought two skirts, a pair of socks and a bow. Just wanted to make that clear, now move on.