Host club

[dogsbody70]

Originally Posted by zero0

but i think in a host club the club pays for the clothes and for the hairstylig stuff? im not sure if thats the case.

and in some of the clubs the hosts are not meant to go with the clients or thats what ive heard

please read "TOKYO HOSTESS>" You will be taking risks--------

[MMM]

Originally Posted by zero0

but i think in a host club the club pays for the clothes and for the hairstylig stuff? im not sure if thats the case.

and in some of the clubs the hosts are not meant to go with the clients or thats what ive heard

No the club does not pay for clothes or hairstyling.

The hosts are NEVER meant to go with the clients. That's what keeps the clients coming to the clubs.

Originally Posted by evanny

so..male hosts isn't anything unusual?
actually sounds fun at least for a while...not to say - a life's profession but still
i think if you are foreigner (Scandinavian,Russian etc) its easier to be a host since i was told by friend who visited Japan for some time that Japanese can't consume as much sake/vodka. just for comparison - on average male here drinks 0.7 or even 1 litre of 40% vodka or some 8 to 10 beers (we only have 5.2% and up...don't have any 3.9...4%)...well from all the parties i've seen. so - less buzz and negative effects on mind

List of countries by alcohol consumption - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

[evanny]

Originally Posted by MMM

No the club does not pay for clothes or hairstyling.

The hosts are NEVER meant to go with the clients. That's what keeps the clients coming to the clubs.



List of countries by alcohol consumption - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

and? Japan has 7.6. we have 9.6 and Russians 10.3
East Europe just has the tradition to drink more strong alcohol. while other cultures would get wasted by smaller amount of vodka we would get wasted having a drink-off drinking wine with French.

[dogsbody70]

Hostess bars | Japan for the Uninvited

item about hostess bars.

[MMM]

Originally Posted by evanny

and? Japan has 7.6. we have 9.6 and Russians 10.3
East Europe just has the tradition to drink more strong alcohol. while other cultures would get wasted by smaller amount of vodka we would get wasted having a drink-off drinking wine with French.

I am just saying they are no slouches in the drinking department. A 7.6 is still higher than Bulgaria, Brazil, Norway and is just below Canada.

[jesselt]

The Great Happiness Space is a great documentary about male Host Clubs in Japan.


I wasn't under the impression that any host club would ever hire a foreigner to work as a host though...

[RealJames]

Hosting for men and women is quite different. Here are things that they have in common though.
I'll give information based on what I've seen in my friends who have done it.

It is a gateway into the sex industry, not slowly, and not smoothly.
It's an easy way to alienate your real friends and end up very lonely.
(Japanese people, more so than most, care about who they associate with.)
Your "friendships" become very artificial.

It's a sad life, in the long run.
If you think you have what it takes to do it, and get out of it before things go sour, you are special.
It's demoralizing and degrading, which breaks willpower and most can't escape the lifestyle.

The reasons mentioned before regarding visas, your home, etc are all very good points too!

[MMM]

Originally Posted by RealJames

Hosting for men and women is quite different. Here are things that they have in common though.
I'll give information based on what I've seen in my friends who have done it.

It is a gateway into the sex industry, not slowly, and not smoothly.
It's an easy way to alienate your real friends and end up very lonely.
(Japanese people, more so than most, care about who they associate with.)
Your "friendships" become very artificial.

It's a sad life, in the long run.
If you think you have what it takes to do it, and get out of it before things go sour, you are special.
It's demoralizing and degrading, which breaks willpower and most can't escape the lifestyle.

The reasons mentioned before regarding visas, your home, etc are all very good points too!

I think the link Dogsbody posted is the most accurate in my observations.

Being a hostess is not like being a heroin addict. It is not a downward spiral into doom and gloom, unless you want it to be. Many hostesses are college girls looking for a little extra money. For a lot of young women it is a quick way to make some easy money, and to meet people, including a potential husband.

For some women the club becomes their social center, but that is usually if they didn't have many friends otherwise.

Hostess clubs are considered part of "mizu shoubai" or "water industry" in reference to the water mixed with whiskey that is usually the drink of choice. It is not the same as the sex industry, and I think to say hostess bars a quick intro into the sex trades is like saying beer is a quick intro into crystal meth addiction. The VAST majority of hostesses will never be even scouted by porn scouts. Hostess bars cost money, and scouts pick up women off the streets, not in hostess bars.

Hostess bars are not places frequented by perverts and degenerates. I often went to hostess bars with colleagues and friends. We went because they are places where you can get superior service and a guaranteed lively conversation. Single men with poor social skills often go because they know there will be someone there to drink with them (often it ends up including other single men living alone who frequent the bar).