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07-23-2008, 08:45 PM
Dear Mayumi.
I've read your thread repeatedly and I confess I have the same problem as yours.....the more I study and take note of unknown words the more insecure I feel about my English level.....but you have a huge advantage over me because you must live in Tokio where there are certainly a huge presence of westerns so it's easier for you to have conversation with anyone.......as for me, I haven't had opportunities to do the same because I live in a non-touristic and boring town where it's quite difficult to come across foreigners even though there are important factories and other businesses. There's no need to be bored and hopeless....don't push yourself.....studying any language is juggling.....studying two languages and being such a disorganized guy at the same time...yeah, this is me!!! Finally, dictionary has been my main tool, my "oracle"......every time I type any article or reply to these threads, my fave dictionary is: Cambridge Dictionaries Online - Cambridge University Press |
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07-24-2008, 05:17 PM
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I´m not sure if either my English sucks or is simply nice.......I've sought to be humble over my language studies though..... I envy you as you have a group of dudes to keep having conversations with.... |
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07-24-2008, 06:18 PM
hi Mayumi
Don't worry.....your English is pretty good.....keep it up!!! And Nikko, I appreciate your words....thanks! |
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07-24-2008, 06:53 PM
Oh, I am glad to hear that you liked it!
I sing this song often at KARAOKE place! I also sing a lot of Linkin Park songs too haha. Quote:
Actually I forgot what I said to him. He was one of the populer guys among girls. I guess he thought I liked him too. I basically don't like boys think they are cute themselves and too proud about how they look. I remember another story about this guy. (mmm. I am not sure if it was this guy or another guy who looked alike.) After a drinking party, sometimes people go to another place to drink again.We call it "NI JI KAI" (means like...a second party). I told him that I was going home and not going to the NIJIKAI. And he said "Why? I AM going and why don't you? All the girls are coming.Why don't you? You don't think I am cute enough?" I WAS drunk and I was sick of his attitude so I went like "You are right. Look over there, yes, that guy, wearing a duggy T-shirts with a guiter? I think that guy is cute, but I never thought you were cute and I don't think you are cute and I am pretty sure that I won't think you are cute when I see you next time. Why are you so obsessed ? Do you think every girls have to think you are cute? I said things like that in fluent Japanese! He was lost and couldn't say anything back to me for a while. And other people started laughing and one of guys wispered to my ear saying "you did a good job!" Quote:
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She once told me that she wanted to show&tell me how to get picked up by boys at bars. We 3 girls and 1 boy went to a bar (cool music there), and I said to her "OK, show me how to do it". The girl walked slowly towerd to the wall and leaned against it so that she looked like she was alone. And she started suking her drink and looked up (I mean head down but eyes up... I don't know how to explain! in Japanese うわめづかい) and waited a guy try to talk to her. My friends and me were having a drink at a table and watching how the girl goes. We were looking at her more than 20 mins but nothing happened. She finished her drink and came up to us and said "Something wrong with the boys in this bar. Maybe it's too late and they don't have money to buy me drink or something." She wasn't joking, she was serious. She once told me how populer she was. "There are 3 boys love me very much but I can't choose! I don't want to hurt any of them so I am going to pretend that I don't know that they have feelings for me." At that time, I was pretty sure that one of the boys liked ME not her. He was my boyfriend but she didn't know that. I asked him if he ever loved her, but he said "No way! It must be a big joke, who said that?" and I said "She did" and he couldn't stop laughing. Well that boy is now my husband Quote:
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I remember a very good friend of mine when I was in Melbourne. One weekend we went to a bar, some guy was trying to offer me some drug (but actually I didn't know what he was trying to say, cos my English wasn't good and also the music was too loud) my friend said to him something like this "You picked a wrong girl,mate." and scared the guy away. He was the one told me about "Chandie" (I don't know the spelling!) It's a cocktale beer and lemonade. He said it looks like a reguler beer so I won't get bothered by someone who believes that everyone have to drink beer a lot. He smokes a lot, drinks a lot, do some drugs too(he said they were not heavy ones), but he never let me do any of these. I was happy cos he really knew me. Quote:
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I am then a half addicted! I knew it was too late (it's after 2am and now it's 3:30!) and I knew it's time for me to go to bed, but I didn't want to! A silly man upset me about 5 hours ago just after work. I didn't want to go to bed soon, cos I was sure that I would see him again in my dream! This is what happened. I was holding my mobile phone in my right hand and my arm was bended and was about to cross the street (zebra crossing no traffice light there), but a car came and it was very slow but she didn't stop, so I stopped and waited and didn't cross it, then suddenly behind my back, this silly man yelled "Hey stop using the stupid mobile phone while you are walking idiot!" I wasn't using it and I knew what I was doing, so I could have explained it, but it was just after work I was tired from the streess, I had not power to say stuff back at that man, so all I did was stearing back. I was just stearing at him,kept stearing. I wasn't afraid. I didn't mind if I made him angry enough to yell louder or hit me or whatever. I was so crossed so stearing hard. I am sure my face was really scary. I finally scared him away! I have never done that, I mean made my face so scary! I wish someone recorded my face and put it on YOUTUBE! So this is the reason why I came here tonight and taking more than 1.5 hours to type this. Quote:
I will try! It's boiling hot in Japan right now.It's really muggy. It's hard to sleep well. How is your area? I think I am calm down now. Thank you for your message. You saved me |
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07-25-2008, 04:09 PM
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those people expect me to understand it and do "the right thing" because I AM a JAPANESE GIRL. If I don't look like a Japanese, then they wouldn't expect. I sometimes think I should have my hair totally blonde and wear coloured contacts then pretend like I can't understand Japanese. Quote:
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When I was working at a secondary college in Australia as "a visitor teacher", the kids were all trying to teach me all the bad and rude words but always their teachers stopped them. The kids also wanted me to teach them bad ones in Japanese, but as you know, our bad words don't sound as bad as yours. or maybe Osaka dialect does, but I don't know much about it. Quote:
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I was told that I have to be "a good Japanese girl" if I ever wanted to be a "geisha" or a "hostess" at a special bar in Ginza,Tokyo. I didn't want to be neither of them. But I have asked if I wanted to work as a hostess by some of the owners of those bars. They said I should because I could be a good hostess, cos I TALK a lot, and I could earn a lot, they emphasised. But I couldn't be bothered to learn all the lesson "How to be a GOOD Japanese girl to be loved by Japanese men" I just wanted to be real "ME" so I told them no thank you and go away. I have a question! How would you react when a Japanese woman sitting next to you watching you and serves you like... keep pouring your drink before you finish, gives you tissue or towel just before you were trying to get one by yourself, get a lighter and be ready to light up when you just touch the box of cigarette(maybe you don't smoke, but just imagine!) Do you think this girl is a girl of all guys dream? Quote:
There are no new message in that Japanese Hiragana thread anymore. I really want to help you guys! So please come again! Even a short message will do, you know! Good practice! |
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At my English school, we take the students out to the park often. Yesterday, when one of our girl students was playing frisbee with our American teacher, two higschool girls passed by and said "This is not a place for foreigners." or something like that. Then our student, got mad! She said how rude they were! You know? our student is only 6 years old! and the high school girl maybe 15 or 16! She asked me to go to the silly girls to tell them "You are bad girls!" I was so moved you know? Oh, my students are learning something "right"! Even our students are not fluent in English, cos they go to reguler school everyday and come to our school only once or twice a week for 90 mins, but they are learning something really important! They think our American teacher is one of our best friends! He isn't gaijin but our friend! I love my students and I am so pround of them. See? There IS a very good Japanese girl ! (oops but at the same time I told you about 2 rude Japanese girls.) Quote:
Yes, he was a nice guy... It's weekend and I don't have to get up early in the morning so let me write about this guy. <<warning>>You don't have to read this, cos it's gonna be long and boring... I would marry him, if he could be honest to tell me that he loved me before I decided to leave Melbourne for Sydney.We were both 25. I have a romantic but sad love story... We were "too good" friends and afraid to tell each other that we wanted to be more than friends... I found out that he missed me really bad after I left Melbourne. I couldn't go back to him, cos I had a college to go to in Sydney. It was all too late. Later I met a guy and was living together.We went back to Japan together. But accidentaly I met that guy when I visited in Melbourne for a month.(I didn't plan it) We couldn't finish talking cos we hadn't met for over 2 or 3 years. After having dinner, he was walking me to the railway station, He said "Don't go back to Japan. Stay." I didn't know what to say. I sait to him "I wanted, but your country didn't give me a visa to stay forever" I said it as a joke, I actually never try to get the parmanent visa. He didn't say anything for a long time. I changed the subject. "You should stop smoking and drink less for your health, I am worried." and he said, "I will, if you stay" I was so sad... I knew that that was the best he could say to me, he wasn't good at dealing with girls, he was more like a guy having a lot of guys friends and very popular among them but not girls. you know, if you are a shy guy just like him, but you have to tell the girl if you really like her. I might have stayed, if he said something more. We met a few times until the day I was leaving Melbourne for Japan. The last day, we took a train together, he had to get off (for work) before me... he hugged me for a long long time even there were many people on that train.He have never done that such things before, he was too shy. He knew and I knew too, it was going to be the very last time for us to meet. and we were right. Quote:
I never though that way. Yes,he might have had a dream and "scary me" in there! Actually his face wasn't scary to me at all, it looked more like a some kind of comedian to make people laugh, so even I met him in my dream, I wouldn't be scared, but for him! He had to see my most scary face ever! I don't think he can forget it for a long long time, oh what a poor man. Quote:
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You saved me. Your message saved me from upsetting feelings. The old man didn't show up in my dream. Oopsie, It's 2:15 am and I should go back to work! (I have a very important email to finish and send!) Have a lovely weekend! |
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