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07-07-2009, 06:15 AM

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I would hate to be a teacher. Dealing with kids all day (regardless of age) for 8 hours would be too much for me to handle. Which is why im homeschooled.
little ones are crybabies, middle schoolers are wannabees, teens are asses, college students are annoying.
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anyway, you used to be astudent right? u must be one of "little ones are crybabies, middle schoolers are wannabees, teens are asses, college students are annoying".

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07-07-2009, 07:02 AM

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There are only a couple things i'll be looking for.

-able to be long term in japan (like some people, i too would live there forever. )
-Pays enough to raise a family in an ok area and live well. The better the living the better in general to be honest. But anywhere in japan would be a super super win win for me cuz that's my dream.
-promotion and such is possible so that improved living is achievable.
I have met many people who thought they were ready to "live in Japan forever" who left after 12 months. You never know until you give yourself an extended stay.
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07-07-2009, 07:41 AM

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I have met many people who thought they were ready to "live in Japan forever" who left after 12 months. You never know until you give yourself an extended stay.
Indeed. I know plenty of people who showed up after I did with a gung-ho attitude who left months ago.

I think Japan was enough like Korea in the obvious ways (bowing, no shoes inside, using chopsticks, ridiculous amounts of alcohol consumption, whacky addresses, and school system) that coupled with what I knew via anime, manga, movies, Japanese exchange students, and my own research, I never really had culture shock.

Korea was a pretty serious culture shock, and I doubt I could ever live there again, but it is the differences between Korea and Japan that is the reason I like Japan better. Not saying one is better than the other, but Japan works for me, after six months, Korea just didn't.
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07-07-2009, 01:10 PM

no i've always liked japan since i were little and see no reason why i wouldn't.
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07-07-2009, 01:27 PM

Have you spent any significant time here?
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07-07-2009, 01:56 PM

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no i've always liked japan since i were little and see no reason why i wouldn't.
Living there is a whole different thing. Japan even drives Japanese crazy (usually they wait to flip out and kill their family or complete strangers). Visit for awhile first, then try living there. 3 years was more than enough for me.


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07-07-2009, 02:17 PM

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no i've always liked japan since i were little and see no reason why i wouldn't.
It`s usually those with the highest expectations who take the worst fall.
Looking from a distance and actually being inside are two completely different things.

I`ve been here long enough that I hardly ever encounter anyone non-Japanese who has been here longer. I`d be willing to bet that the huge majority leaves within 1 to 3 years - And most of them leave with a feeling somewhere between "neat to visit but wouldn`t want to live there forever" and "worst experience of my life".

That said, not everyone grows to hate the place, and some people do stay forever.


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07-07-2009, 03:09 PM

trust me, ive invested a lot of time and money as it is in it, there is no way in blue-wave HELL i'm going to change my mind.

America drives me more crazy than any place. Rosetta Stone costed a lot but in starting early and using it's advantages, it was worth it. Trust me- im not screwing around
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07-07-2009, 03:28 PM

Really, you just don't know how you will react until you spend time here. By all means, come, but do be realistic.

As for America, I one time felt like you. I no longer do. I have come to love America more since living abroad than I ever did while I lived there. I even have Old Glory hanging by my apartment door. I may become a permanent resident, but I would never give up my American citizenship. I have seen in three countries (France, Korea, and Japan) that the world would be a very different place, and probably for the worse, without America. You may come to feel as I do, although I am certainly not telling you that you will.
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07-07-2009, 05:34 PM

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Really, you just don't know how you will react until you spend time here. By all means, come, but do be realistic.

As for America, I one time felt like you. I no longer do. I have come to love America more since living abroad than I ever did while I lived there. I even have Old Glory hanging by my apartment door. I may become a permanent resident, but I would never give up my American citizenship. I have seen in three countries (France, Korea, and Japan) that the world would be a very different place, and probably for the worse, without America. You may come to feel as I do, although I am certainly not telling you that you will.
i agree with you. i hate the people that say, "I hate USA, and i wish i live in Japan,France,etc, cause its better." without even been there before. I live in the USA and its my fav country. This country has giving me many opportunities that probably many other countries wont. I do like other countries(from what i read) but not enough to say i wanna live there cause i havent visit those countries yet.


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