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07-07-2009, 07:41 AM
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I think Japan was enough like Korea in the obvious ways (bowing, no shoes inside, using chopsticks, ridiculous amounts of alcohol consumption, whacky addresses, and school system) that coupled with what I knew via anime, manga, movies, Japanese exchange students, and my own research, I never really had culture shock. Korea was a pretty serious culture shock, and I doubt I could ever live there again, but it is the differences between Korea and Japan that is the reason I like Japan better. Not saying one is better than the other, but Japan works for me, after six months, Korea just didn't. |
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07-07-2009, 01:56 PM
Living there is a whole different thing. Japan even drives Japanese crazy (usually they wait to flip out and kill their family or complete strangers). Visit for awhile first, then try living there. 3 years was more than enough for me.
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07-07-2009, 02:17 PM
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Looking from a distance and actually being inside are two completely different things. I`ve been here long enough that I hardly ever encounter anyone non-Japanese who has been here longer. I`d be willing to bet that the huge majority leaves within 1 to 3 years - And most of them leave with a feeling somewhere between "neat to visit but wouldn`t want to live there forever" and "worst experience of my life". That said, not everyone grows to hate the place, and some people do stay forever. |
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07-07-2009, 03:09 PM
trust me, ive invested a lot of time and money as it is in it, there is no way in blue-wave HELL i'm going to change my mind.
America drives me more crazy than any place. Rosetta Stone costed a lot but in starting early and using it's advantages, it was worth it. Trust me- im not screwing around |
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07-07-2009, 03:28 PM
Really, you just don't know how you will react until you spend time here. By all means, come, but do be realistic.
As for America, I one time felt like you. I no longer do. I have come to love America more since living abroad than I ever did while I lived there. I even have Old Glory hanging by my apartment door. I may become a permanent resident, but I would never give up my American citizenship. I have seen in three countries (France, Korea, and Japan) that the world would be a very different place, and probably for the worse, without America. You may come to feel as I do, although I am certainly not telling you that you will. |
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07-07-2009, 05:34 PM
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