Me and my girlfriend moving HELP!!! - Page 2

MMM · (#11 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Ronin4hire

Marriage is a piece of paper and can mean many things to many people as well as means to an end.

To the OP I would say that unless you are uber conservative. Just marry her for the convenience. It will make things a lot easier.

If you value your marriage as much as a piece of paper I would not count on making it to your 25th Anniversary Party.

Ronin4hire · (#12 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by MMM

If you value your marriage as much as a piece of paper I would not count on making it to your 25th Anniversary Party.

Not quite what I said.

MMM · (#13 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Ronin4hire

Not quite what I said.

"Marriage is a piece of paper" is what you said. If I misinterpreted what you said, please enlighten me.

My point still stands, though. Yes, marriage can be different things to different people. I would just make sure it is that same thing for you and your spouse.

Ronin4hire · (#14 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by MMM

"Marriage is a piece of paper" is what you said. If I misinterpreted what you said, please enlighten me.

I didn't just say that. Basically I was suggesting that marriage could be used a means to an end.

I'm surprised I'm having to explain this to you.

MMM · (#15 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Ronin4hire

I didn't just say that. Basically I was suggesting that marriage could be used a means to an end.

I'm surprised I'm having to explain this to you.

No need to be condescending Ronin.

My point still stands.

joshlad14 · (#16 (**permalink**))

thank you all for your help. didnt think this would get as many replies as it has. I am just glad people can enough to post

calling the embassy today wish me luck with my situation >.<