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12-13-2009, 10:44 PM
thanks for help Nyororin
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just a thought thou, wouldnt marry anyone because of how she looks. and getting into a relationship with a japanese woman would properly just bring a lot of headache and wouldnt work out in the end anyways. so would a schizopfrenic person in Japan have to live on the street if he couldnt handle a job or he didnt know anyone that could take him in? (live with family or friend) just wondering how it would be, in Denmark its illegal to live on the street. |
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12-14-2009, 12:52 AM
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The thing is, without something that sets you apart, all you`d have done would be to bring yourself closer to "standard" when compared to a native Japanese person with the same skills. Unless you are making use of a skill that cannot easily be found in the Japanese population (in most cases, language skills) it will not be easy to find a position. The minus of having to secure you a visa, and the potential for additional training... Along with the possibility of language issues (JLPT 1 still isn`t native level) will always put you at the disadvantage. You may actually have more luck looking for a company in your home country that has offices in Japan. I actually highly recommend this as it seems to be the most common way for foreigners to come to Japan outside of English teaching. Quote:
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It is all up to your standards. Finding a free standing house with land would even be possible depending upon the area - although the house would likely be small and old. |
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12-17-2009, 08:56 PM
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Do you generally take a test in order to be admitted? I would hope so, because my grades are not too good at my current university, and I strongly feel they do not reflect how much I know. That's why I was hoping to continue my master's degree here, and just go to work in Japan once I finish them. (A master's degree is 2 years here, and that would have given me enough time to learn Japanese) Quote:
... I have some more questions to ask but it's quite hard for me to express them at the moment, such as not to forget anything, and for them to be compressed enough for you not to waste your time reading them. The only reason I'm saying this is that I stayed with this forum page open half a day, and things kept coming up, so I did not manage to put them into a presentable form... you didn't really need to know this ...lol.... excuse my incoherency, I will come back with the questions later. |
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01-16-2010, 06:34 PM
Ah, very similar to mine I hope this thread isn't dead...
Yes, my family are very similar. Except my mom's drinking has hospitilized her now, and I must look after everything now while working (well...an aprenticeship, but my boss is kind and understands. He gives me some money). I also had an oppertunity to go to Japan twice, both times for 2 weeks, and fell in love. The first time I was in Hokkaidio at the wonderful ice festival in Sapporo with my boss for work experience. I'm going to be based in Tokyo- though I very well may go out of it. I'm going to go and live for a year on my own, and we'll see how it goes from there if I want to change my visa for longer. But I'm very glad you are getting what you deserve, and I'm very sorry about the girl you let stay with you before messing you up. So! My questions are: - Since you've been there a while, how long did it take you to pick up the language. First fluent, and then how did your accent become so good? - How to Japanese people deal with knowing your past with your family life? Were they supportive, feel bad for you, or feel weary of you? - How did you expand your social network at first? Did you go drinking, get to know your neighbours, ect? |
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01-17-2010, 03:43 AM
No, not dead. I just usually don`t reply all that much to people who ask the same exact questions that have been asked 20 times in here and 100s of times around the board.
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At 6 months, I wasn`t having much of any trouble at all - on the phone, chatting online, etc etc. I would say that reading novels wasn`t within my reach at that point though. It`s been a long time, so I only really have memorable references at the 3 and 6 month points to contrast. (3 month point was my first visit ended, and the 6 month point was when I met my now husband). As for accent - that just came from learning the language in Japan in a native environment... And maybe luck or some inherent language ability. I really don`t know. There was no point where my accent was bad and I fixed it, etc. With fluency came accent. Quote:
I think that is the more important question. In real life, I`d say my husband and his mother are really the only people who know the full extent of the truth. (Because they actually visited my family.) Otherwise, I might just say that I didn`t have a great family life, or that my mother and I aren`t close at all for certain reasons. You can leave it vague - no one asks any deeper and I`m sure they`re not imagining anything worse than reality... Just something "bad". Quote:
Basically, in the beginning, I didn`t have the language ability to make a social network - let alone expand one. I ended up taking classes at a local high school (sort of in limbo, as I`d already graduated so wasn`t a student... But didn`t have the qualifications so wasn`t a teacher. I was like a super-student with benefits. I could participate in student clubs and activities but didn`t have to go to class other than one a day helping in the English class as a "native pronunciation model".) I joined a club and made a number of friends there. Later, when I was on my own and not in a host family situation or living in a dorm... I just made a couple friends online, and expanded from there. I`m not an incredibly friendly person, and a huge net of friends tires me, so I can`t really give all that much advice. I will say to try and keep away from making tons of English speaking friends as that is pretty much a guarantee that you will not progress much in Japanese. |
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01-17-2010, 02:58 PM
Hello....
I'm in a very similar situation. I met a Japanese family a few years ago, and after making friends with their daughter, I was invited around for dinner. I asked a load of questions while I was there, and was instantly curious. They were really easy for me to get along with, and very understanding and helpful. I would often stay there when my parents couldn't be bothered (which is almost all the time). At the moment, I would love to visit Japan. I have a small job where I get money (and hide it from my parents) and have started studying the language and culture. My parents wouldn't care (I've made sure) but the only place I could afford would be a guest house. I really don't want that...it's mostly English-speaking people there, not what I would like at all. So I wonder if there are any families who put forigners up? I would pay them of course....but I hope they won't speak English to me. I'd also want to take the free classes you mentioned? And also, not in Tokyo. This is important...and if I could, not in a city? Near a city would be nice for the access to classes, but in a town near by or something would be much better. I hope I'm not being too picky, but I want to learn the right way (or at least, not the easy way). When I visit, I would be 17. I've planned on this for the past year but...I'm not sure how to get to know families to put me up. You stayed with families at first too, right? How does this work? |
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