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i need a little help - 08-29-2008, 02:43 AM

theres this guy who i talk to all the time on the computer, but when i call him, he doesnt hardly talk. is he just shy? and if so.. i dont know what to talk about on the phone. please give me your best advice.. it`ll really help a lot!


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08-29-2008, 03:25 AM

well i dunno how good my advice is since i don't really know either of you, but i notice sometimes that ppl may act differently online, on the phone, and in person. sometimes if they're on the phone and not face to face w/ a person they feel like they can open up more, and online they can feel like they can open up even more cuz it's less personal? maybe?? i really don't know if this is how your situation is though lol sorry.. i tried ><


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08-29-2008, 03:31 AM

I've kinda had the same problem before....me and a friend will talk all the time on IM but put us face to face [we dont talk on the phone] it all...'uhh, yea. wats up.' haha, but just the more you talk the more open he'll get cus y'all will both feel more comfortable talking with each other.
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08-29-2008, 03:34 AM

I think Kaela is on the right track. A lot of the time, people are different online then there are in more personal situations like talking on the phone, and even more so in person. I'm the opposite, I'm more vibrant and talkative in person and on the phone then I am online, so each situation is different.

But I say if he's talking to you a lot online, and not so much on the phone, then it sounds like he's just shy. Keep at it, and hopefully he'll start opening up more to you ^_^


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theres this guy who i talk to all the time on the computer, but when i call him, he doesnt hardly talk. is he just shy? and if so.. i dont know what to talk about on the phone. please give me your best advice.. it`ll really help a lot!
I think you should find something you both are interested in. Find that common ground and expand on it. If you find things you both like to talk about, then talking will come easier. Try that talking about that new season of an anime, or what you saw at an otaku-con. talking about these things will make both of you feel more comfortable.

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thanks!!! that really helped a lot


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theres this guy who i talk to all the time on the computer, but when i call him, he doesnt hardly talk. is he just shy? and if so.. i dont know what to talk about on the phone. please give me your best advice.. it`ll really help a lot!
You should be witty!

Say this to him:

Roses are Red
Violets Are Blue
Don't put your phone down
I'll go down on you.

Say a word
I'll blow you twice
Speak your emotions
I'll show you my devotion.

Create a conversation
Let it be your best creation
I will bake you a cake
Your mum wont think I am a fake.

Ah Crap!

My credit is running out!
Let me leave you in doubt!
Picture Hurricane Gustav
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You should be witty!

Say this to him:

Roses are Red
Violets Are Blue
Don't put your phone down
I'll go down on you.

Say a word
I'll blow you twice
Speak your emotions
I'll show you my devotion.

Create a conversation
Let it be your best creation
I will bake you a cake
Your mum wont think I am a fake.

Ah Crap!

My credit is running out!
Let me leave you in doubt!
Picture Hurricane Gustav
On the other end of the conversation.


I made this up, copyrighted by the god like Bureda.


ahh im to young,

warn me next time
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ahh im to young,

warn me next time
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