No one likes me..

[killyoself]

nejiforever01 is there a reason you have no friends? Like maybe you have some kind of personality disorder or your just a total bore? Just putting it out there.

[MMM]

Originally Posted by killyoself

nejiforever01 is there a reason you have no friends? Like maybe you have some kind of personality disorder or your just a total bore? Just putting it out there.

Killyoself, insults are not OK on these forums. Read the rules before you find yourself with an infraction or worse.

[killyoself]

I wasn't insulting anyone, merely trying to help.
Finding new friends on a forum is a pretty short-term solution to the problem if you ask me.
If you REALLY want to make good, meaning-full, long-term relationships then you should probably reflect on the shortcomings of your own personality before rushing out and making a bunch of new friends, don't you think? One of the main questions I would ask myself in his/her position is "Am I a boring person?"

[MMM]

Originally Posted by killyoself

I wasn't insulting anyone, merely trying to help.
Finding new friends on a forum is a pretty short-term solution to the problem if you ask me.
If you REALLY want to make good, meaning-full, long-term relationships then you should probably reflect on the shortcomings of your own personality before rushing out and making a bunch of new friends, don't you think? One of the main questions I would ask myself in his/her position is "Am I a boring person?"

This is interesting coming from someone who said on another thread (now deleted) that they couldn't make 10 friends in Japan in six years.

[hinata2]

i'll be your friend because i don't really have any friends.

[zorminus]

yeah, if you want to make new friends, you shouldn't be so negative about it. "nobody likes me "sounds kinda depressing to me.

[killyoself]

Originally Posted by MMM

This is interesting coming from someone who said on another thread (now deleted) that they couldn't make 10 friends in Japan in six years.

Oh yeah, you're talking about my first thread which you deleted.

First of all, If you're going to delete people's threads and then twist the info that was inside them then you definitely shouldn't be a mod.

Did I say in that thread 'I couldn't make 10 friends?????' Did I??
No, I said that in 6 years I had only met about 15 people that I considered spending any time with. Completely different mate.

Now i'm going to take this up with Admin cos you're completely out of line.

killyoself

[japannumberoneinmyheart]

Originally Posted by nejiforever01

I have like... very little friends... GAO!!! anyone want to be my friend? and If you want we can email each other.... cuz I'll be glad to be your friend.... So please...

Hey ... whats up ill be your friend ^_^

[killyoself]

Also, I just wanted to point out that the point I made in this thread (looking within, trying to improve oneself) completely relates to the point I made in the thread MMM deleted.

The reason I don't have many friends here in Tokyo, is because I just don't seem to be able to meet many people, foreign or otherwise, that really interest me. That's why I suggested looking in the mirror before jumping in and making new friends.

(I am in no way claiming that I have a better personality than anybody else. However, I do think that i have a quality that allows me to adapt the conversation to interest whoever it is that i'm speaking to, a quality that is a virtue for people 'Looking for Friends' perhaps???)

[MMM]

Originally Posted by killyoself

Oh yeah, you're talking about my first thread which you deleted.

First of all, If you're going to delete people's threads and then twist the info that was inside them then you definitely shouldn't be a mod.

Did I say in that thread 'I couldn't make 10 friends?????' Did I??
No, I said that in 6 years I had only met about 15 people that I considered spending any time with. Completely different mate.

Now i'm going to take this up with Admin cos you're completely out of line.

killyoself

There was more to it than that, but point well taken, and it won't happen again.