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01-27-2009, 03:10 PM
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01-27-2009, 06:04 PM
but most deaths are from being overworked which is where the word "Karoshi" comes from. the article i read from said that family members had to pick up their parents or siblings from work so they dont hurt themselves. thats probably why the population in japan is small because people work more that they make kids.
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01-27-2009, 06:52 PM
I think that's good. The government is trying to help,
and having families together is never a bad thing. Is it just for the men workers to go home early? or for the women too? Because these days in other countries, more and more women are working just as much as men. Help my Cause for homeless teens!
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01-28-2009, 04:18 AM
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I have yet to hear of people picking family members up from work so that they wouldn`t hurt themselves. If things were at that level, the company would make them take time off. Overtime is a problem, yes, but it`s really not as bad as the western media likes to make it out to be. I know more people who work longer hours in the US than I do in Japan. But for some reason it`s "different" in the media`s eyes. There are mandatory annual health checks, and a mandatory health check if you go over a certain number of hours of work in a month (including counseling, etc). From what I`ve seen in my 10 years of living here, suicides are linked much more strongly to debt than any work related stress. Having a suicide or work related death linked to a company is a HUGE stigma, so there is a lot of effort to avoid it happening. |
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01-28-2009, 06:29 AM
I find this all very interesting and I personally appreciate those that have commented on this with first hand experience.
If I may be so bold and ask Nyororin or whoever else happens to live in Japan some further questions about this. 1. How many children are considered a "large" family. (Here in the states I'd say its 4-5 but I guess that depends on your "class" standing) 2. At what age does the average Japanese woman get married? (I believe this is important because if they are getting married later, they are having kids(assuming they are waiting till marriage) later which translates to shorter amount of time to reproduce (if I remember the normal stopping point is about 40-45 I think, but I'm not a woman nor a Doctor so I'm just guessing, please don't shoot me)). 3. Last, which is looked more favorably upon, the working mother or the housewife? |
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01-28-2009, 06:41 AM
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It seems to be pretty accepted to keep trying until you have at least one of each gender. If you get one of each right away (with 2 kids) then a lot of people stop then. But if they`re both the same gender, then it seems to be pretty common to have another. Quote:
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That is another reason for the low birthrate. Many (Likely most) couples strongly believe that the mother should stay at home with the children during their early years. And in the big city, where living costs are high, it`s just not feasible. So they wait, and wait until they feel they can make it on one salary. In the past, back when people lived near their parents/families, this was a lot easier to pull off. A new baby would receive huge community support... But when your family lives 6 hours away things change. |
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01-28-2009, 06:46 AM
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01-28-2009, 07:58 AM
I just found something interesting over at dannychoo
Ill quote him on this one: "...I thought we'd look at how much it costs to send children to school in Japan. Kindergarten (3 years - public): 729,962 yen Kindergarten (3 years - private): 1,611,457 yen Elementary (6 years - public): 2,003,070 yen Elementary (6 years - private): 8,240,327 yen Junior High (3 years - public): 1,414,387 yen Junior High (3 years - private): 3,800,593 yen High School (3 years - public): 1,561,758 yen High school (3 years - private): 3,131,439 yen Total for all public (15 years): 5,709,177 yen Total for all private (15 years): 16,783,816 yen University is not compulsory but for those wishing to go would spend an average of 5,000,000 yen for the 4 years." I guess this might also be a good reason not to have another child.... |
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01-28-2009, 09:44 AM
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To be completely honest though, the figures look scarier on paper than in reality. I used to gawk and choke at them until I actually had a kid and sent him to a private kindergarten. In our case, costing pretty much what is listed there. It comes down to around 30000/month with 50000 a year for supplies. The uniform cost an arm and a leg, but it`s pretty much a one time deal. So - we pay that 30000/month for 3 years and then it`s off to elementary school. These costs lists for elementary school tend to be VERY misleading. Public elementary is essentially free. All you pay for is basic supplies (crayons and all that junk) and lunch each day. Most of the time there is no uniform, so it`s all regular clothing which tends to inflate the "costs" as Japanese magazines and the like add in "clothing costs" as part of the cost of elementary school... When it`s really just the cost of having a kid to begin with. Our local elementary school is 3000/month for lunch, with an average of about 2000 more a month for other activities (a big field trip once a year, etc.) So that`s 5000/month plus the once a year cost of supplies. No way it goes over 25000/month (like in that listed cost) for a public school unless you are including all the general costs of raising a child. If you sent your kid to kindergarten and paid 30000/month for it, just siphon off the remaining 25000/month you`re not paying in elementary school and save it for later (private high school, university). It looks a lot worse on paper than it feels to be paying it in reality. We certainly aren`t making millions*, and are able to do it quite easily on one salary while paying a massive home loan each month and still have cash left over to play with. *Unless you count yearly income in yen. We do makes millions of yen a year. |
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