Inter-racial attraction

[XOXkAWAIiXOX]

Originally Posted by iPhantom

Yea, now I will use my spam bot script to flood that mail.

Haha ok. btw, I love that pudding comment! I love pudding.

(also laugh whenever someone says it beacause it sounds so weird......heh....pudding.... )

[xYinniex]

Originally Posted by MissEngland

SO, I'm British, and in england it is a largely white nation...
but, I am very attracted to asian men. haha, many people in my country dont understand this...I have recently actually moved to seattle, wa
and, I am at awe at all the asian men around me!! but they all seem to prefere other asian women...gets me so angry!

EPIC FAIL.
Britain is one of the largest multicultural countries in the world, if it was largely white, why the fuck is the BNP so aggro about different races in britain.

why are you angry?? not all asian men prefer asian girls. even if they do, its because their culture is ingrained into them. asian parents are incredibly opinionated [I'm lucky, mine aren't really]

[ozkai]

Originally Posted by interracialintimacies

Hello Everyone,

I am a PhD candidate in Sociology at a University in Tokyo, researching inter-racial desire and the politics that sometimes comes with it. I am presently looking to interview many people about this topic. Specifically, I am interested in people who feel attraction mainly/exclusively toward Japanese/Asian men/women if they are non-Japanese/Asian, or visa versa. Secondly, I am interested in interviewing people who have thoughts or opinions on this dynamic of attraction.

You may think your case or thoughts are not interesting but I am looking for typical and exceptional people, so don't worry! If you enjoy talking about these things, let's meet and I will even buy you a coffee or a drink Any inquires are also welcome.

Cheers,
Jamie

I've never been attracted to one particular race of people until later on including now.

I have had British, American, Kiwi, Australian, Thai and Japanese partners.

I do now feel more attracted to "Asian" females as I compare them to your average Aussie Joe blow shela. In other words, BIG, BRAUNY and RUDE with a bonnet up their backsides all trying to be like men!

European women are definitely different to Australians.

I am NEVR attracted to large women, some guys are, I am not.

I find that Asian women, and this is hard to classify as all "Asian" women cannot be categorized as they are all totally different anyway same country or not!

I've gone totally off Japanese female partners.. Friends are fine but I would never get involved on an attachment basis. I'm sorry, but I could do a text book about the subject.

I do have some good Thai female friends, and they are only friends who are single, although they are pretty much career women with their heads screwed on and they are not interested in relationships, but simply focussed on their medical careers. Having said that, they are fantastic super honest, polite and very good girls.

Chinese, I do have many Hong Kong Chinese male friends, not much experience with Chinese female friends, although I have a very close family friend who just married the most beautiful hearted Chinese descented girl and all families could not be happier. She is a beautiful person and a very successful career women as I previously pointed out in the show biz industry as a make up artist.

Korean, knew absolutely nothing about them until seven months ago when a BBQ party at my house afforded me a meeting with this lovely girl by way of an invote from a male Korean friend. Besides turning out to be a REAL tiger at night, she is a lovely person, and hopefully things will work, although I'm not tying her up just yet and treading on the side of caution after being married for nine years.

The bottom line is, I believe that many Asian cultured women do have a lot more Finesse than their western counterparts, they display etiquette, generally have slim figures with sexy being a bonus, they do make good lovers in bed, are warm, playful, fun, can cook, enjoy cooking with a smile, and generally are pretty easy going when it comes to many activities in life..

To be totally honest, I am no longer interested in Western Women.

Please note, when I talk about "Asian" women, I am generalizing from my own personal experiences.

[Ronin4hire]

Originally Posted by xYinniex

EPIC FAIL.
Britain is one of the largest multicultural countries in the world, if it was largely white, why the fuck is the BNP so aggro about different races in britain.

why are you angry?? not all asian men prefer asian girls. even if they do, its because their culture is ingrained into them. asian parents are incredibly opinionated [I'm lucky, mine aren't really]

Why are YOU angry?

It's not an epic fail... you're both right.

Britain is a multicultural country but with a white majority.

[Ronin4hire]

Originally Posted by ozkai

I've never been attracted to one particular race of people until later on including now.

I have had British, American, Kiwi, Australian, Thai and Japanese partners.

I do now feel more attracted to "Asian" females as I compare them to your average Aussie Joe blow shela. In other words, BIG, BRAUNY and RUDE with a bonnet up their backsides all trying to be like men!

European women are definitely different to Australians.

I am NEVR attracted to large women, some guys are, I am not.

I find that Asian women, and this is hard to classify as all "Asian" women cannot be categorized as they are all totally different anyway same country or not!

I've gone totally off Japanese female partners.. Friends are fine but I would never get involved on an attachment basis. I'm sorry, but I could do a text book about the subject.

I do have some good Thai female friends, and they are only friends who are single, although they are pretty much career women with their heads screwed on and they are not interested in relationships, but simply focussed on their medical careers. Having said that, they are fantastic super honest, polite and very good girls.

Chinese, I do have many Hong Kong Chinese male friends, not much experience with Chinese female friends, although I have a very close family friend who just married the most beautiful hearted Chinese descented girl and all families could not be happier. She is a beautiful person and a very successful career women as I previously pointed out in the show biz industry as a make up artist.

Korean, knew absolutely nothing about them until seven months ago when a BBQ party at my house afforded me a meeting with this lovely girl by way of an invote from a male Korean friend. Besides turning out to be a REAL tiger at night, she is a lovely person, and hopefully things will work, although I'm not tying her up just yet and treading on the side of caution after being married for nine years.

The bottom line is, I believe that many Asian cultured women do have a lot more Finesse than their western counterparts, they display etiquette, generally have slim figures with sexy being a bonus, they do make good lovers in bed, are warm, playful, fun, can cook, enjoy cooking with a smile, and generally are pretty easy going when it comes to many activities in life..

To be totally honest, I am no longer interested in Western Women.

Please note, when I talk about "Asian" women, I am generalizing from my own personal experiences.

Huh?

I bolded the parts I found offensive.

Do I really need to explain why?

Anyway... ever heard of orientalism? It's term used to describe the exotic and romantic notions and discourse perpetuated about Asia and Asians by white people in the 16th-19th century... but I think that it's alive and well today among the less educated and/or socially inept.

You show clear symptoms of such a state of mind, I mean your generalisations are based on anecdotal evidence which seem to reinforce some sort of preconceived stereotype when it comes to both western and asian women for a start.

You also contradict yourself when you say that you find Asians are diverse individuals then at the same time generalise them as being more sophisticated than their western counterparts with which it seems you haven't factored in the same diversity variable.

[bonjoliehistrionic]

Originally Posted by interracialintimacies

Hello Everyone,

I am a PhD candidate in Sociology at a University in Tokyo, researching inter-racial desire and the politics that sometimes comes with it.

i would like to be interviewed.
x.

[ozkai]

Originally Posted by Ronin4hire

Huh?

I bolded the parts I found offensive.

Do I really need to explain why?

Anyway... ever heard of orientalism? It's term used to describe the exotic and romantic notions and discourse perpetuated about Asia and Asians by white people in the 16th-19th century... but I think that it's alive and well today among the less educated and/or socially inept.

You show clear symptoms of such a state of mind, I mean your generalisations are based on anecdotal evidence which seem to reinforce some sort of preconceived stereotype when it comes to both western and asian women for a start.

You could be right, but i'm not compalining.

Attraction is not something you try to get rid off.

[Ronin4hire]

Originally Posted by ozkai

You could be right, but i'm not compalining.

Attraction is not something you try to get rid off.

I fail to see how being aware and conscious of the flaws in your outlook, and trying to adjust them will destroy your attraction towards the opposite sex.

[iPhantom]

Originally Posted by ozkai

The bottom line is, I believe that many Asian cultured women do have a lot more Finesse than their western counterparts, they display etiquette, generally have slim figures with sexy being a bonus, they do make good lovers in bed, are warm, playful, fun, can cook, enjoy cooking with a smile, and generally are pretty easy going when it comes to many activities in life..

To be totally honest, I am no longer interested in Western Women.

Excluding prostitutes, have you ever been in a relationship with a western girl?

[Salvanas]

Originally Posted by ozkai

The bottom line is, I believe that many Asian cultured women do have a lot more Finesse than their western counterparts, they display etiquette, generally have slim figures with sexy being a bonus, they do make good lovers in bed, are warm, playful, fun, can cook, enjoy cooking with a smile, and generally are pretty easy going when it comes to many activities in life..

To be totally honest, I am no longer interested in Western Women.

Please note, when I talk about "Asian" women, I am generalizing from my own personal experiences.

If you think Asian women are fierce, I'd like you to try out some Scandinavian women. Had a Scandinavian girlfriend once, bright blond hair and crystal blue eyes that'd suddenly go hard as ice when she was pissed off. She had a cold, fiery temper.

But have you actually ever BEEN with a western woman before?