Inter-racial attraction

[Hyakushi]

Originally Posted by ozkai

Korean, knew absolutely nothing about them until seven months ago when a BBQ party at my house afforded me a meeting with this lovely girl by way of an invote from a male Korean friend. Besides turning out to be a REAL tiger at night, she is a lovely person, and hopefully things will work, although I'm not tying her up just yet and treading on the side of caution after being married for nine years.

The bottom line is, I believe that many Asian cultured women do have a lot more Finesse than their western counterparts, they display etiquette, generally have slim figures with sexy being a bonus, they do make good lovers in bed, are warm, playful, fun, can cook, enjoy cooking with a smile, and generally are pretty easy going when it comes to many activities in life..

To be totally honest, I am no longer interested in Western Women.

I find Korean women and japanese women more homely. Sweet on the outside but when they get in the mode they are the best.

I'm not going to say much about the whole "Have you ever been with a Western woman" thing just PREPAIR FOR THE COW TOUNGES.

[Ronin4hire]

Originally Posted by Salvanas

If you think Asian women are fierce, I'd like you to try out some Scandinavian women. Had a Scandinavian girlfriend once, bright blond hair and crystal blue eyes that'd suddenly go hard as ice when she was pissed off. She had a cold, fiery temper.

But have you actually ever BEEN with a western woman before?

Yeah way to go dude...

Counter one baseless stereotype with another.

[Rayne]

Originally Posted by clairebear

Why do people treat interracial attraction as a special, different thing to just normal attraction? o_O

This is so right!
I don't get it why it is viewed as weird and different.Isn't that kind of racistic?(just a thought)

[Ryzorian]

Maybe everyone is looking at this from the wrong angle...Maybe it isn't just the "race" that attracts them, but certain cultural attributes associated with that race that works into it.. in other words, each race supposedly has certain aspects stereotypically asigned to them. Suppose it's these cultural aspects that attract us?

You could go even further, suppose these attractions are primal?..If hybrids are the strongest aspect of something, then purebreds would be highly attracted to purebreds of other groups..in an atempt to produce offspring that ipitomizes the best traits of each respective group.

It might just be as simple as biology 101, it's our on misconcieved notions that perhaps get in natures way.

[DJnohara]

Originally Posted by Ryzorian

Maybe everyone is looking at this from the wrong angle...Maybe it isn't just the "race" that attracts them, but certain cultural attributes associated with that race that works into it.. in other words, each race supposedly has certain aspects stereotypically asigned to them. Suppose it's these cultural aspects that attract us?

You could go even further, suppose these attractions are primal?..If hybrids are the strongest aspect of something, then purebreds would be highly attracted to purebreds of other groups..in an atempt to produce offspring that ipitomizes the best traits of each respective group.

It might just be as simple as biology 101, it's our on misconcieved notions that perhaps get in natures way.

For the record I agree. Its not ones ethnicity that attracts, but many women from certain ethnicity just happen to be very beautiful. But its not because of their ethnicity. For example when I was in Japan there were A LOT of beautiful and cute women but they just happen to be good looking.
But I mean attraction to anyone due to their ethnicity just sounds you know.. pretty weird and uncomfortable, and seems more like objectifying.

[burkhartdesu]

I see your point, but there a people who are exclusively attracted to asians.

Is it that politically incorrect to admit you are attracted because of ethnicity? It's not always just because someone is 'attractive'

[mercedesjin]

Okay, so I REALLY want to marry a Japanese guy. I think Japanese men are the sexiest men in the world. They're all really quiet and listen, and I like that they all have this feminine thing about them. The next time I go to Japan, I'm going to try to find a Japanese guy so that I can marry him.

... Does anyone really not see a problem with someone saying that?

Also, I think it's pretty unfair to say that any one race is more attractive than another. People are people, and can be of all different colors. A person can have dark skin, and identify as white - just as a person can have dark skin, and identify as black. West Indians also have a history of Asian lineage, so a person in the West Indies can look Japanese when really they're Trinidadian.

I think it's fine to be interested in someone because of their culture. Culture helps to shape a person's values and beliefs, a person's personality and background - whereas race... is just as shallow as the person's skin.

[burkhartdesu]

Originally Posted by mercedesjin

Also, I think it's pretty unfair to say that any one race is more attractive than another. People are people, and can be of all different colors. A person can have dark skin, and identify as white - just as a person can have dark skin, and identify as black.

It is unfair to think one race is more attractive than another-- but it happens.

Whether it be a psychological issue or not.

[mercedesjin]

Originally Posted by burkhartdesu

It is unfair to think one race is more attractive than another-- but it happens.

Whether it be a psychological issue or not.

Oh, it definitely happens. There's no doubt about that. I just think it's something that should change.

[Tenchu]

Originally Posted by JoshAussie

Lol, I remember when i was like 7 I already had an attraction towards "Japanese" girl's, I hadn't even seen an asian in real life hahaha. Very strange now that i think about it.

LOL. I remember in Tassie when I was about 8 or 9 in primary school, there was a Japanese girl in our class. She wore the boys school uniform, and because she simply looked different, I coupled it and thought she was a boy. I was friends with her for about a couple of months, didn't realize she was a girl until she went into the girls toilets and I was like "What's Kiren doing in the girls toilets?"... how fucking embarrassing, for both of us.

Anyway, I think this is a pretty retard thread. Being attracted to "Japanese" girls, or "Chinese" or whatever, that seems pretty childish. In reality, you're a complete moron if you're not judging each potential date as an individual, rather than saying "She's Japanese, she'll do..."

There are beautiful girls everywhere. Of course, it is possible to be attracted to certain manner aspects of certain cultures, which can be taken into account. But there is no gaurentee all girls from that culture will behave that way, or no girls from another culture will do what you like. An example is, my Thai wife cooks, cleans, washes everything, does all the laundry, all shit like that. Few Aussie girls would have been like that. So I can say I appreciate the effort Thai women give, but you know there'll be a few slackers around, anyway.