Loving your friend?

[Suki]

So when are you guys going to build me an altar for having put everyone's thoughts into words?

Originally Posted by Hya

At times though they really do come on strong and its sometimes hard to turn your head the other way but I agree friendship can bloom into love. Not all friendships though.

Yeah. We have a tendency to mistake friendship for love, the same way men tend to mistake friendly behavior for flirting or sexual overtones

[Lucyenn]

Love can only be betweem lovers, i also don'r beleive in man and woman friendship it's just not natural... in my opinion i couldn't stand living like this

[Hyakushi]

Originally Posted by Suki

Yeah. We have a tendency to mistake friendship for love, the same way men tend to mistake friendly behavior for flirting or sexual overtones

Yea so when a girl grabs me and says lets go to the back that isn't forcefull flirting? O.O well then I should have done it then and say it was only friendly restling but I walked away *goes and crys in the corner* oh well. Some girls are like that though or they start stalking you and calling you all the time saying "Lets hang out" even though you just got away from her XDDDD.

[fmafan]

YES over time is you well flert with her you and here might one day have something together NO i do not mean a kid but like a relationships

[Suki]

Originally Posted by Hyakushi

Yea so when a girl grabs me and says lets go to the back that isn't forcefull flirting? O.O well then I should have done it then and say it was only friendly restling but I walked away *goes and crys in the corner* oh well. Some girls are like that though or they start stalking you and calling you all the time saying "Lets hang out" even though you just got away from her XDDDD.

Haha you're a lucky one

[Odin]

Is it not better to want to kiss and caress one that you already love,
than to fall in love with someone whom you have already kissed.

[Hyakushi]

Originally Posted by Suki

Haha you're a lucky one

Nooooo I'm not I walked away *Dies* its okay I'm almost married anyways *oh the sacrifices* XD but I'm not going to get married like tenchu hahahaha hopefully not .

[kireikoori]

The separation between friend and lover is a hazy one. It's natural to fall for a friend.

[Thunda]

Originally Posted by kireikoori

The separation between friend and lover is a hazy one. It's natural to fall for a friend.

That's why I asked.

[Yuna7780]

I think there is nothing wrong with you. I love my best friend so much that I'm glued to her. But this is a different type of love. It's more of an admiration and a really deep friendship. You want to protect that person and make them yours, but not in any sexual or perverted context. We've been best friends for about six years now and I have the happiest memories with my best friend.

You can also think this way:
If you're lonely and upset when your friend goes to hang out with somebody else... She'll feel lonely once you get a boyfriend or if you're constantly hanging out with somebody else.

Just keep this friendship and don't worry about anything else. You're not likely going to date this person, but you'll treat her like your prized possesion.