What is your opinion on and older and younger person getting married?

[Pernara]

That's a pretty big age gap, but hey, whatever floats your boat. If you love him, and he loves you, who cares? As long as you're confident in your relationship, that's really all that matters.

[Odin]

Originally Posted by kokunin

everyone spouts love...yet noone knows what love is, so lets use other words than love. I mean reasons are reasons, and hardly any reason is love... What is love, noone knows so we say, "he's cute, is driven, does what he likes, won't let anyone stand in his way, including me which so gives me a power trip high...he's kinda demented but i like that about him becuase I'm demented too...when he gets annoying he's kinda like a babyb so all you have to do is put him sto sleep and when he wakes up he's okay. He's strong and I think I'm kinda big so that makes him all the more hotter, his muscles and his abs are 'exquisite', and he has a big d!(K" blah blah down the road to happiness...Those are reasons. Love is not... Its a word with no real meaning anymore...so lets give real reasons here...

You are an enigma to me. You quote the words of Solomon in your signature, yet then spout something so shallow. It is clear to me that you do not know love, but that does not mean, that no else does. I am not sure if you have been scared emotionally, or if you are just young. Maybe it's a little of both. In any chase you should not chastise NightChilde nor any one else for believing in such an elemental emotion, such as love.

[XrachelleX]

WOWZA! thats a huge age gap between you two! but if u two love each other, ur fine! and u shouldnt get discouraged if people say that being in a relationship where the age has such a big differnce is bad.

[Daydreamer]

I think age doesn't matter if u really love that person, and u shouldnt care what the society thinks.

[Thunda]

Originally Posted by kokunin

Those are reasons. Love is not... Its a word with no real meaning anymore...so lets give real reasons here...

Word without a meaning?
I pray for Gods, I really will, for you, to experience that word without meaning.

[kokunin]

Originally Posted by Odin

You are an enigma to me. You quote the words of Solomon in your signature, yet then spout something so shallow. It is clear to me that you do not know love, but that does not mean, that no else does. I am not sure if you have been scared emotionally, or if you are just young. Maybe it's a little of both. In any chase you should not chastise NightChilde nor any one else for believing in such an elemental emotion, such as love.

lol...so tell me what is love? that is the question. I mean seriously if you asked what is love, the english form of the word doesn't carry much weight. its when a mom takes care of their deformed kid. I say that's balls, or guilt depending on the person. Its two people get together and have a baby, that's sex. Its when someone dies for you. MAYBE that's love...or guilt, or thought self loathing. See..You say its shallow, but people SERIOUSLY think liek that. People aren't THAT complex...that's the truth of the matter. The more complex a person seems, the MORE simple he/she really is.

[kokunin]

Originally Posted by Thunda

Word without a meaning?
I pray for Gods, I really will, for you, to experience that word without meaning.

i'm really not trying to ramble( or derail for that matter), but what is love...

[kokunin]

All I'm saying is that someone who has lived over half of their own life expectancy could VERY well understand someone who hasn't BUT the chances of it being the other way around or even going both ways, HIGHLY unlikely...but what do statistics and things have to do with you or him. You are a being who can choose your environment, your mate, and (thanks to todays technology) your off spring, even those who reign over you (maybe not in Thailand), opportunity is much more likely now than it was 100 years ago, so who the heck am i to say what is or what isn't... sukini shite...

[Thunda]

Originally Posted by kokunin

People aren't THAT complex...that's the truth of the matter. The more complex a person seems, the MORE simple he/she really is.

For looks. Inside, how do you know? You don't know.


As people realize how useless the most of the things they do, or what have they done, they all turn simple.

That is why old men don't wear fancy clothes. That's why they can live together for 50 years. That's why people in their twenties get rid of their styles.

I realized you are right. Take a look at a guy who wears a simple black shirt. He cuts himself, kills animals.
Look at a poser metalhead. With his skateboard, his girlfriend, his hair. Or emos. They are simple.

[kokunin]

it is the thought of the serial killer, or for that fact any criminal, even master minds or jefry dommer. The robberer robs for a goal...usually to buy something or for his own feelings towards money. Most people would say that money equals power (not a definite truth). SO the more he steals the more of a power trip he gets. then he Gets what you would call GREED. Same for the man who rapes...power. Same for the person who cheats. usually its either vengeance (whether it be for a current lover or a lover long gone) or they don't have alot of self confidence, so they go after power.
For those who do those convents and then kill their whole clan for a belief, They really do believe this belief. Whether its true, or not I don't know, but they believe it and that's all that really matters. Humans are really simple beings. they can think up the MOST complex contructions...but you must drink water, and eat edible (usuallly sugar rich i.e.: bread, rice, yams, potatoes, vegetation, with a heathy supply of meat), you must sleep, and you must excrete waste, and you must die. You need a family, a father mother combination usually sets a good stage for your development (whether it be good or bad depends on your mother-father and family situation), your first 6 yrs. are your most important. the 6 after that venture further away from the parents and more to the village, the last 6 now deal with the world on a grand scale, sex is already developed its ideas within the human being by this time, therefore most people have actually had sex already by the time they are 18. At 18, depending on where you are on the planet, are developed to do what you want...of course, with that comes the responsibility of what you want...making you an adult, able to make offspring of your own and redo the whole cycle yourself with your offspring. The life expectancy rate in america is almost 200% from 200 yrs. ago. with the life expectancy rate now about 85 yrs. old.... (it was about 35 back then). So you tell me, what is complex about humans? We usually see our world the way our family and friends, then school (in this order) see things. We have a thing called Electronic media, which now bombards our every choice in life with things from plastic surgery to soy milk... The world as whole and all its systems have grown disturbing complex, BUT humans have not changed with them. Our tools are now smarter than us...is all that has happened...