What is your opinion on and older and younger person getting married? - Page 7

kokunin · (#61 (**permalink**))

[quote=Odin;430873]Hmmm, man has struggled with that question for an eternity. It's a bit like asking why we exist. Maybe it's not the best definition, but somebody once told me, "When you love someone, you have their best interests in mind rather than your own. You expect nothing in return from them, and you love them unconditionally."

but every couple expects soemthing from the other, its the adult way of thinking, you give, you take...she/he gives and takes, and you guys talk ALOT and hopefully it works out. Unconditional doesn't even begin to mean anything except in the case of parent- child relationship, in which case one gives NOTHING and the other just gives...

kokunin · (#62 (**permalink**))

the question isn't what are you doing...its why?

Odin · (#63 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by kokunin

the question isn't what are you doing...its why?

Only she knows those answers.
The bigger question is why does it matter to you, me, or anyone else?

Gackt21 · (#64 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Tenchu

Is that at me?

Yes, if it was then that is kinda true. It is all dependant on something. Things work, but not when they are out of this place.

Save the manners, what I was trying to politely say before is the only way the girl who posted this threads relationship is actually going to be healthy is if she is so dog ugly that you just know, the old man is NOT after her body, and you can appreciate their love.

The only way an older man can healthily get with a hot young girl is when you look at the man and it don't look outta place. Where he is fit, strong, healthy and confident looking, smart and sharper than any 20 year old surfer dude you know. Then you can look at him and you just know, that guy has aged 40 years, and he has STILL GOT IT! Congrats to the lucky old bastard.

But when you mix the two, and get a useless old man with some hot young party girl, their social scene and life and reality are just not compatible, and no way can it be a healthy relationship. That is what sickens me about the shit I see in Thailand, it is just corrupt, and all fake. And these fucks are still buyin it, and shame on the sluts who are sellin themselves.

You sound angry because you might not be getting anything but my love for my husband is real I just wanted to know what society felt about it. I am not someone to fall for angery young men who would rather yell at you and then sit on their butts while I make their dinner and clean their house. You better be helpful. Because my marriage is a partnership and me and my husband are poor with little money but that does not bother me.

Gackt21 · (#65 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Tenchu

Yeah, I said you might be an acception, I don't know and can't until I see you two together.

Angry young man? So fuckin what? It gets me anywhere I want to go. You know nothing about it...

Can I ask how you came to be with him?

He found me on myspace and then we started dating that is all you need to know. I feel in love with him and dropped out of school to be his wife. We had been dating from April 2007 to September 24 and then he asked me to marry him within that time frame.

MitcheruOtaku · (#66 (**permalink**))

I have experienced relationships with women both older and younger than I. The first, the woman was 14 years older, and the second was 13 years younger. The important thing is compatability. You must both enjoy alot of the same things together like soul mates. Unfortunately, I am still searching, but age is not as important as being compatable.

pumpum · (#67 (**permalink**))

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He found me on myspace and then we started dating that is all you need to know. I feel in love with him and dropped out of school to be his wife. We had been dating from April 2007 to September 24 and then he asked me to marry him within that time frame.

66yr old found you on myspace lol

wtf - a 66year old on myspace ?????????

personaly i dont care if you married a 66 yr old - i know one thing something will definitrly ne missin out of your relationship - and i bet you have never felt what it is !!

Snowdrop · (#68 (**permalink**))

Older and younger person getting married? Well for me is ok, (seeing gap between Hyde’s age and mine xD ) Love is something that can not be maping. It’s not matter of age or look, it’s like conversation between your heart and his/her heart that get click. When you fall in love it’s like you close your eyes, shut your mouth and ears, your feeling plays the entire role of the love story.
In loving dont pay attention to what people say, they dont feel the same like you do to him, they dont feel the same chemistry like you do. It’s you who decide what best for your heart.
You may hear their suggestion, people around you, but who implement it, who feel it is you, yourself.

kokunin · (#69 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Gackt21

He found me on myspace and then we started dating that is all you need to know. I feel in love with him and dropped out of school to be his wife. We had been dating from April 2007 to September 24 and then he asked me to marry him within that time frame.

damn...that's a short piece of time, but whatever...its your life ne...hope its fun and rewarding...

kokunin · (#70 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Tenchu

Yeah, but what part of love is going to be so special when she turns 30, and he is like, dieing, and needs full time care in an oldies home. There are limits... I think this has passed them.

to some degree, i have to agree...when he's 90, if he reaches 90 (most guys die before 85 yrs. old), you will have just passed 45 becoming 46... you understand what I'm saying?