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10-01-2008, 06:30 PM
Reading this was mildly amusing. Yes, there is still an eyebrow raised and a smirk on my face.
So far it seems that everyone has left off one quality that is an absolute necessity, especially in light of the postings so far. Whomever you venture into a relationship with is going to need a lot of PATIENCE and considerable mercy to endure you. And its true for myself as well, so you can disarm. As for my top 10 in a lover (gender is rather superfulous): 1 - Rational thought 2 - Imagination/Creativity 3 - Sense of humor 4 - Patience/Compassion 5 - A (restrained) sense of adventure 6 - Sense of self worth (without be arrogant!) 7 - Sense of responsibility for their own actions 8 - Trust 9 - An enjoyment of life 10 - Good hands (no I won't go into details here) Yes, the physical aspects come at the bottom of the list - and the list definitely continues. Someone said women judge a book by its cover and I will not disagree. But its not the sole basis for our judgement. Just like a book, if the cover is pristine, never been opened and the title doesn't catch my attention, I assume its been ignored because it has nothing to offer or is boring in its approach. Same for people. If the face has no character and the physique looks as though its never met a challenge, I figure there is reason. And until I see something more being offered, I am not interested.  Only an open mind and open heart can be filled with life. ********************* Find your voice; silence will not protect you.
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10-01-2008, 06:36 PM
For me, I would say the first thing would be looks. Honestly, you don't want to be with someone you don't find attractive. You're lying to yourself and to that person.
Nickel's List 1. Nice Looking: Not just attractive but knows how to take care of himself. 2. Respectful: I want someone who knows who to treat a woman right. 3. Caring: He has to be affectionate. None of this 'i am an island' crap. 4. Fun: Naturally, I enjoy laughing and having fun! My boyfriend should be the same. 5. Smart: He doesn't have to be Bill Gates but having a good head on their shoulders is key! 6. Good With Kids: This is #6 because this is one trait I'll be looking for in a good husband. Hey, you never know! 7. Creative: Again, I'm a creative person so it would be a good relationship with my better half was creative. In what way, it wouldn't matter. 8. Serious: Yes, I want him to have a sense of humor but I also want him to know when to buckle down 9. Likes to Read: I love reading and I would like someone who at least shared one hobby of mine. 10. Human: No aliens!  Killer of Twilight fantards since 2005  
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10-01-2008, 06:37 PM
In no particular order.
1 Intelligence 2 Honesty 2 Attractiveness 4 Ambition 5. modesty 6. humor 7. Creative 8. likes to be active 9. Loves a challenge 10. Independent in her own right 
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10-01-2008, 06:41 PM
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I agree with this list. . . except that I would change #9 slightly, he also would have to like Horror! I'm big on horror. albeit books or movies & # 10. Travelling the galaxy wouldn't be so bad?! o_O as long as the kids come out looking human, but have like that Roswell secret power thing going on  (Max is hot!)r-IonFortuna Stalker To-Excessum GirlFriend to-TheUnknown Crazy Brother-Narutocrazy101 Big Brother-SeeD Gatekeeper-animedude3 -Tasty Cream Pie To-Diru0gaze Son-Thunda Talkative romantic brother-Powermad147 Auntie-tiki808 Auntie to-Eiri& ML Kittie w/ Wings-Hoshichan 'ly Camera Vixen- Pjok +~Member of the Tenjho Tenge Clan Member-Maya Natsume+~ Member of the THE PERVY CLUB!! ~+MeMbEr Of ThE VaMpIrE cLaN+~
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10-01-2008, 07:02 PM
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With horror, it depends. Cheap 10 cents books from the gas station? No thank you! Stephen King? HECKZ YEAH! Killer of Twilight fantards since 2005
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10-01-2008, 07:03 PM
Wow, this thread went to the "Fight stage quick"
See, just proves, you get what you get and its your job to make it work no matter how 'Sexy, cute, funny, reads, etc. etc." he / she is.  So, again, Good Luck!  SGT_Okinawa U.S. Army Retired 38 years old Married w/2 kids Virginia, USA 
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10-01-2008, 07:09 PM
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My Mum has like 30 books from Stephen King. I liked the Tommy Knocker's for some strange reason, it's not really that scary. . . oops I'm gonna stop now really derailing SORRY  r-IonFortuna Stalker To-Excessum GirlFriend to-TheUnknown Crazy Brother-Narutocrazy101 Big Brother-SeeD Gatekeeper-animedude3 -Tasty Cream Pie To-Diru0gaze Son-Thunda Talkative romantic brother-Powermad147 Auntie-tiki808 Auntie to-Eiri& ML Kittie w/ Wings-Hoshichan 'ly Camera Vixen- Pjok +~Member of the Tenjho Tenge Clan Member-Maya Natsume+~ Member of the THE PERVY CLUB!! ~+MeMbEr Of ThE VaMpIrE cLaN+~
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10-01-2008, 07:23 PM
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10-02-2008, 08:42 AM
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If you're expecting to marry, then fair enough. If not, I can live with minor things that would cause problems in marriages.
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