An update for all of you following my life ^^

[TokyoRain]

Originally Posted by Bureda

Well, that is how you know you're an immature little wise cracker. You cannot understand a relationship of an adult, the basic laws are the same. One cheats or one does not feel like being with one etc.

Being an adult is a completely different story.

You are pampered at your age your path is set before you, you are taught to study and have the luxury to explore your emotions and find out what makes a human tick.

Adults have to look after themselves, settle down, find a person they can relate to and build a family. People divorce because they have financial or emotional problems not because their girlfriends dumped them. As an adult if a girl dumps you you pretty much need to fix up and find out what's wrong because its crucial whereas at your age all you have to do is log in on myspace and update your mood.

I dislike when a little imbecile thinks they know what love is just because they are feeling a surge of emotions that is alien to them.

Apologies for the attack like speech, not really attacking you, just generalising most of it.

Good point. I'm not sure if I completely agree on it. Experience of the adults around me has taught me a little different if I may say so. (the emotional instability of someone after a tragedy and therefore the betraying of the emotions of those around them points out to me that the relationship is often about yourself feel happy then if you have the energy your partner.)

And don't worry I don't feel attacked, and I have no notion that I'm in love. I like him a lot, but love (like hate) is too strong of word to use without much action and thought in my opinion.

[Bureda]

Originally Posted by TokyoRain

Good point. I'm not sure if I completely agree on it. Experience of the adults around me has taught me a little different if I may say so. (the emotional instability of someone after a tragedy and therefore the betraying of the emotions of those around them points out to me that the relationship is often about yourself feel happy then if you have the energy your partner.)

And don't worry I don't feel attacked, and I have no notion that I'm in love. I like him a lot, but love (like hate) is too strong of word to use without much action and thought in my opinion.

Not really, you cannot compare a teenagers emotional scar to that of an adult. Especially on this calibre.

He gets dumped, so what, he's got friends, he's got a family. If you're an adult, you get dumped? Well, tough shit.

Especially if you're in a marriage and the 'half your shit belongs to me' rules applies, lol.

[TokyoRain]

Originally Posted by Bureda

Not really, you cannot compare a teenagers emotional scar to that of an adult. Especially on this calibre.

He gets dumped, so what, he's got friends, he's got a family. If you're an adult, you get dumped? Well, tough shit.

Especially if you're in a marriage and the 'half your shit belongs to me' rules applies, lol.

Well the tragedy applies to my 40 some step dad, not to a teenager. And it wasn't so much a comparison as much as an observation. lol

And yeah I can see how the "'half your shit belongs to me"' thing would contribute to the tribulations of an adult relationship. But that's more the after math that deals with legality than the actual emotions that pertain to the relationship.

[Bureda]

Anyway, I don't need to know your families tragic past!
As long as you learn your erroneous ways its all good.

Somebody does not get to know someone over 'two weeks' or '6 months' or '8 years'.

I know a guy who had his girlfriend since he was 13, and they split up 13 years later over minor choices.

What I am saying is you will never get a grasp of a relationship and stressing yourself out over one at such a young age is piss pointless.

[TokyoRain]

Originally Posted by Bureda

Anyway, I don't need to know your families tragic past!
As long as you learn your erroneous ways its all good.

Somebody does not get to know someone over 'two weeks' or '6 months' or '8 years'.

I know a guy who had his girlfriend since he was 13, and they split up 13 years later over minor choices.

What I am saying is you will never get a grasp of a relationship and stressing yourself out over one at such a young age is piss pointless.

Yeah I know, just get to know someone better (whether that's a good or a bad thing lol) over a time period lol.

[kaelazors]

good to hear things are going smoothly so far ;]